Living with roommates can be a rollercoaster ride of fun, drama, and the occasional clash of expectations. But what happens when one of them starts eyeing your boyfriend’s wallet as a ticket to free meals? Meet our protagonist, a college student navigating the turbulent waters of shared living, and her boyfriend, who’s become an unexpected target in a peculiar dinner debate. ️
The Dinner Dates ️

The Money Matters

The Roommate’s Request

The Misunderstanding

The Rebuttals ♀️

The Unresolved Issue

The Overstepping Boundaries

The Food Politics

Dinner Dates or Group Feasts? The Verdict ️⚖️
Caught in the crossfire of expectations, our college student navigates her roommate’s peculiar request. The roommate believes her boyfriend should treat everyone to dinner, a total of seven people! Despite attempts to explain that he’s not a walking ATM, the roommate persists. Worse still, she and another roommate treat him like a communal boyfriend, asking him to clean their rooms and do laundry! Meanwhile, our protagonist often skips meals on campus due to lack of a meal plan, a fact her roommate conveniently overlooks. So, who’s in the right here? Let’s see what the internet has to say…
NTA. Roommate needs to grow up and respect boundaries.

Boyfriend helps clean but won’t do roommates’ chores. Uncomfortable situation.

NTA. Boyfriend not obligated to treat everyone to fancy meal.

NTA. Roommate expects free dinner and rides from others.

Roommate’s manipulative behavior sparks outrage and disbelief among commenters.

NTA – Get new roommates & friends. Good luck with proposal!

NTA: Roommates jealous of boyfriend, need to find new housing

Roommate expects free food but won’t reciprocate. Entitled much?

NTA: Shutting down r**e conversations with a confident walk away!

Roommates crossing boundaries, NTA for setting them straight.
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Entitled roommates? Time to distance yourself. NTA

Roommate drama: NTA for not sharing expenses with community.

Roommate entitlement drama: NTA stands up, others ignore or joke

Boyfriend not responsible for feeding your friends.

NTA!!! Your roommate’s argument doesn’t make sense. Your boyfriend, your rules.

NTA! Set boundaries and enjoy your date night together.

“Boyfriend caught in chore dilemma, feeling like a communal vacuum.”

NTA – Boyfriend’s support > roommates’ entitled expectations.

Roommate shaming? NTA, but what’s their problem?

NTA: Boyfriend’s wallet or community chest? Roommates can pound sand

NTA. Dating you, not them!

Roommate’s entitlement to boyfriend’s money sparks fiery debate.

NTA: Boyfriend’s not obligated to buy dinner, roommates are childish

Escape the parasites! NTA, move on to better things.

Boyfriend’s responsibility: dates vs. contributing to shared living expenses?

NTA, your roommates are entitled. Time to find new ones!

Roommate entitlement: Moving in together? Think twice!

NTA: Boyfriend’s wallet vs community chest. Entitled and jealous friends!

NTA, but living with A’s. Find a better home ASAP!

NTA: Suggests EBT card, questions entitlement, sparks interesting debate!

NTA: Roommate gets a McDonald’s surprise! ️

Roommate drama: NTA, odd sense of entitlement, not lifelong friends.

Roommate’s jealousy over boyfriend paying for dinner sparks controversy!

Roommate thinks she’s entitled to free meals from your boyfriend?

Get your own boyfriend! Not the a**hole.

NTA. Roommates need to stop smoking entitlement weed. ️

NTA. Friend needs to grow up.
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NTA: She can’t afford the audacity she’s picked up

Girlfriend defends herself against roommate’s entitlement. ♀️

Setting boundaries: NTA, but is partner a Rockefeller?

NTA, but YTA to yourself if you stay friends.

NTA! They sound insane!

NTA: Set boundaries and end the annoying wallet requests.

NTA. Time for new roommates!

Roommates crossing boundaries. NTA. Where does the entitlement end?

NTA! Friends acting entitled to your money and time. Find new place to live!

Protect your relationship and boyfriend from your “friends”.

Being petty and taking everyone out to dinner. ️

NTA: Boundaries are important in relationships.
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NTA. Roommates are entitled.

Roommate drama! NTA for not funding her dinner dates.

NTA. Shut down roommates with a blunt reality check.

Roommates’ entitlement to your boyfriend’s time is ridiculous. NTA!

NTA. Women expecting boyfriend to buy things and do chores. Gross!

NTA. Set boundaries and make it clear he’s YOUR boyfriend

Roommates acting entitled and jealous. Ignore them and enjoy time with your bf!

NTA: Entitled brats expect free food from your boyfriend? Seriously?

NTA: Toxic roommate, bad friend. Find new roommates, move on.
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Roommate conflict: NTA, time for new roomies?
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NTA: Immature, but blame their youth, not their fault

Clear winner: NTA, no doubt about it!

Entitled friends expect boyfriend to be their personal ATM. NTA!

Roommates are entitled af. Good for you standing up for your boyfriend!

Not the a**hole for choosing your own financial priorities!

Roommates demanding boyfriend’s money? No way! You’re NTA!

Bluntly shut it down and say ‘knock it off’. NTA

Roommates treating boyfriend like a bank and maid

NTA, roommates expect bf to pay and do chores? Weird!

Roommate demands free meals from boyfriend. NTA. R**e and illogical.
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NTA. Time for a serious talk with your unreasonable roommates.

Commenter accuses girlfriend of wanting more than just politeness.

Stand your ground and don’t negotiate with entitled roommates.

NTA. Roommates are creepy, immature cringebags.

Stand up for your relationship and set financial boundaries!

NTA: Get a JOB and treat yourself to a meal!
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Awkward situation: Boyfriend stuck as communal handyman. Time to bail? ♂️

Last Updated on July 26, 2023 by Diply Social Team