In a world where oversharing is the norm, where do we draw the line? Meet our 22-year-old graphic designer, who we’ll call ‘Picasso in Pumps’. She found herself in a sticky situation when a new acquaintance took a keen interest in her professional life. As their conversation turned from casual to creepy, Picasso in Pumps found herself questioning her boundaries. Let’s dive into her story and see how a simple question sparked a heated debate among friends.
A New Connection

The Conversation Begins ️

A Line Crossed?

A Haunting Past

A Polite Refusal ♀️

Persistent Pursuit

Friendship on the Rocks

A Label and a Fallout

A Friendship Fractured, A Debate Ignited
So, Picasso in Pumps finds herself in the eye of a storm, all because she chose to keep her professional life private. Her friend, the ‘Meddling Matchmaker’, feels she’s been rude and ungrateful, even going as far as tarnishing her reputation among their friends. Picasso in Pumps, however, stands firm in her belief that she did nothing wrong. But with most of their friends siding with the Meddling Matchmaker, she’s left questioning her actions. What do you think? Was she justified in her caution, or did she overreact? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
“NTA. You set a boundary, guy behaved badly, friend sucks.”

NTA. Your friend should understand your caution.

NTA: Dude’s an AH and would 100% stalk you. Lols!
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NTA: Being grateful for being set up? No way!

“NTA at all. Smart and sensible. Personal safety comes first!!!”

NTA. Persistent dude can’t handle rejection.

Friend sends suspicious person OP’s way. Drama ensues.

Setting boundaries is important. Trust your own judgment.

Designer stands up to controlling partner. NTA!

Boundary set, boundary crossed. No trust, no respect.

Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself. You’re NTA!

Friend’s poor judgment leads to an ungrateful setup. NTA!

Setting boundaries: Learning to accept rejection.

Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself against pushy friends.

Dodged a bullet! Trust your gut and protect yourself

Friend defends OP from boundary-crossing guy, sparks trust debate.

NTA: Online privacy concerns with a touch of sarcasm.
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Curiosity or ulterior motive?

Setting boundaries: Saying ‘No’ doesn’t make you the bad guy!

Stand your ground and trust your instincts. No means no!

Block unsafe people, prioritize your safety.

NTA. Trust your instincts, not your friend’s matchmaking skills.

Setting boundaries and blowing up: justified caution or trust issues?

Trust your gut, even the nicest people can be dangerous.

NTA for blocking him. Privacy matters, respect is crucial.

Friend calls OP an AH for not revealing workplace. NTA.

Trust your gut and ditch the creepy guy.
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Setting boundaries and trusting your instincts.

“NTA, ‘If he’s such a f***ing catch why don’t you date him’ “

NTA: Boundaries matter. Keep personal info personal. Trust your instincts.

Designer questions gratitude for potential harasser. Trust issues justified?

NTA. Privacy boundaries should be respected on social media.

Trust issues or justified caution? Designer stands their ground.

Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself.

Keeping my work life private to avoid psycho encounters.

Setting boundaries and prioritizing safety. You made the right call! ✌️

Setting boundaries: Saying no doesn’t make you the bad guy.
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