A partially deaf individual with auditory processing disorder is finding it increasingly difficult to communicate with their 14-year-old sister, who has taken to speaking very quietly and barely moving her mouth. Conversations have become a challenge, as the older sibling has to ask their sister to repeat herself multiple times. Despite being able to speak loudly, the younger sister insists on talking quietly, causing frustration and humiliation.
The Struggle to Communicate ️

Sister’s Quiet Talking Phase

Alternative Communication Methods

Reliance on Siblings

Sister’s Ability to Speak Loudly

Taking a Stand ✊

Mixed Reactions from Family

Accusations of Cutting Contact

Sister’s Response

Conflicting Feelings

A Heart-Wrenching Sibling Conflict
A partially deaf individual is struggling to communicate with their younger sister, who insists on speaking quietly. The older sibling has taken a stand, asking their sister to either speak up or not speak at all. While some family members agree, others accuse them of overreacting. The younger sister has started speaking clearer, but seems upset. This leaves the older sibling feeling conflicted and questioning their actions. Share your thoughts and reactions below.
Sibling intentionally speaking quietly to mess with deaf sister

Sister’s ableist behavior towards deaf sibling sparks outrage

Sibling with disability deserves accommodation, sister may seek attention

Sister’s quiet talking phase may be due to resentment towards deaf brother

Commenter shares personal experience and suggests therapy for sister’s quiet talking phase, while others speculate on underlying anxiety and trauma. NTA for reducing communication temporarily.

Is sister’s quiet talking a result of bullying or mental health?

Communication barriers between siblings in the digital age

Understanding sister’s story and anxiety can help resolve conflict

Empowered by NTA, deaf sibling deserves better communication efforts.

Lack of sign lessons and support for anxious sibling.

Could societal pressure be causing sister’s quiet talking phase?

Sibling’s deafness not an excuse for lack of communication skills

NAH. Soft-spoken person empathizes with hard-of-hearing sister. Compromise and hearing aids recommended

Setting boundaries with a quiet talker – NTA

Deafness is a hidden disability, accommodate and compromise. NTA OP!

Bullying can have long-lasting effects on self-confidence

Living with a sibling with a disability can be challenging
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Sister intentionally hindering deaf sibling’s communication. NTA

Consider ASL as an option for better communication with family

Advice for the hearing-impaired on coping with quiet talkers.

Deaf sibling and sister’s harmless lashing out

Understanding mental health struggles and seeking attention appropriately

Engage in empathy and explore alternative communication methods.

Communication is a two-way street

Stop asking for repetition, she’s playing you. NTA

Dealing with a passive-aggressive family member’s quiet talking phase

Deaf sibling struggles with sister’s quiet talking phase. NAH.

Helpful subreddit suggestion for OP with deaf sibling.

Misunderstanding between siblings with different communication styles

Be patient and help her speak like an adult

Communication barriers in families with deaf members

Could depression be causing her sister’s quiet talking phase?

Speaking quietly could be a sign of depression

Dealing with a sibling’s quiet talking phase: be gentle ❤️

OP’s sister’s recent surgery may have caused her change in behavior

Deaf sibling deserves inclusion, sister may be struggling silently

Consider ADHD as a possible reason for loud/quiet talking

Sister’s health condition causes frustration for hard-of-hearing sibling.

Could sister’s quiet talking be due to bad breath issue?

Sibling with anxiety needs therapy, parents may be TA.
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Deaf sibling not at fault for sister’s quiet talking phase

Growing up with partially deaf family members can be frustrating

Calling out ableism in a quiet talking phase
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Asking for clarity is NTA , but consider why she’s quiet

Struggling with hearing loss, commenter supports NTA’s frustration with sister’s behavior

Engaging with others who have similar struggles can be helpful

Deaf commenter shares struggles with mumbling and suggests ASL or texting

Sister’s deliberate quiet talking is cruel and unacceptable. NTA.

Sibling conflict over disability accommodation, ESH. ♀️

Deaf sibling faces communication barrier, comment suggests learning sign language.

Sibling suggests therapy and sign language class for communication improvement

Cutting communication may be necessary for healthy boundaries

Standing up against ableism with a NTA comment

Engaging with a low talker can lead to unexpected consequences

Deaf sibling struggles to understand sister’s quiet talking phase. NTA/NAH.

Deaf sibling excluded by sister’s quiet talking phase

Deaf sibling faces disrespect from ‘Mumbles’, stay strong

Setting boundaries with a quiet talker

Ignoring her might be the solution
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Engaging with a deaf sibling’s communication struggles

Sister’s insensitive behavior towards deaf sibling, NTA stands up.

Empathetic reply offers support for late diagnosis of disorder

Sister’s quiet talking phase might be an emulation of famous personalities

Struggling with a stubborn parent’s hearing loss

Breaking the silence: The importance of learning sign language

Communicating with a deaf sibling shouldn’t be this difficult ♀️

Deaf sibling struggles with sister’s quiet talking phase. NTA suggests texting.
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