Divorces can be messy, but what happens when a father uses his daughter’s college fund to pay for his extravagant wedding? Meet our 27-year-old protagonist, who has had a rocky relationship with her dad since her parents divorced when she was 10. Despite her dad’s questionable parenting, she managed to excel in school and was promised a college fund. But when she found out that her dad used the money for his wedding, she couldn’t help but feel conned. Read on to find out how she finally stood up to her father and the dramatic fallout that followed.
The Messy Divorce

Dad’s Questionable Parenting

The College Fund Promise

Dad’s Extravagant Wedding

The Shocking Truth

No Apologies, Only Accusations

Scholarship to the Rescue

Feeling Conned

Dad’s Attempts to Reconcile

The Stalemate

Dad’s Reaction

A Daughter’s Bold Stand
Our protagonist has had enough of her dad’s broken promises and lack of remorse. After discovering that he used her college fund for his lavish wedding, she finally stood up to him, telling him that he’s not entitled to a relationship with her. This bold statement left her dad speechless, but she can’t help but wonder if she crossed a line. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this dramatic showdown…
NTA. Dad gave expectation, unfit parent, gaslighting, stepdad support

NTA for being upset about broken promise, not entitled to money

Commenter praises OP’s patience with insensitive father. NTA

Daughter stands up to entitled dad who ignored her for years

NTA daughter rightfully sets boundaries with narcissistic father over stolen college fund

Daughter rightfully cuts off father who broke promises and mistreated her

Daughter relies on dad’s promise, not entitled to relationship

Daughter holds dad accountable for broken promise and sets boundaries.

Commenter suggests protecting baby’s college fund from dad. NTA.

Commenter supports OP’s decision to cut off toxic dad

OP’s witty response to entitled dad earns kudos and support. #NTA

Commenter shares personal story of cutting off parent, no regrets

Father breaks promise, gaslights daughter, and accuses her of entitlement. NTA
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Money can’t buy a relationship NTA stands strong

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s situation, calls out absent father’s behavior.

Daughter rightfully calls out absent father for lack of effort

NTA. Dad’s entitlement and broken promises hurt OP. Cut ties.

Daughter stands up for herself and keeps her promise.

Empathetic reply supports daughter’s decision to cut off toxic dad

Dad can eat glass . Commenter supports OP. NTA
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Daughter rightfully angry at father, but open to reconciliation

Daughter rightfully calls out neglectful father for wanting relationship now

Commenter agrees with daughter’s decision to cut off father

Expectation vs Reality: Money can’t buy a relationship

Forgive, but only give him what you are able to

Daughter shares heartbreaking experience with neglectful father

Encouraging reply to NTA comment about being a supportive sibling

New wife in on tuition promise, commenter says NTA

Clearing the air on a nonexistent connection with dad
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Truth hurts Silence speaks volumes

NTA commenter advocates for reconciliation with boundaries.

Advice for setting boundaries with unreliable family members.

Commenter sarcastically praises OP’s aim and supports their decision.

NTA. Father’s selfishness led to strained relationship with daughter.

Father dismisses daughter’s feelings after breaking promises. NTA

Daughter shares experience with unsupportive dad, advises to set boundaries.
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Money doesn’t buy love ❌ NTA stands up for ethics.

Setting boundaries and being honest. NTA in this situation.

Cutting out a lying father, NTA. Believe him and move on.
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Dad’s broken promise exposes his selfishness. NTA.

Cutting ties with a lying, unreliable dad. NTA
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NTA tells personal experience of father’s broken promise and failed care

Daughter rightfully rejects father’s attempt to buy her affection

Dad lied about college fund, NTA for not wanting relationship

NTA shuts down manipulative person in comment section

Daughter stands up to entitled dad. NTA wins.

Father spent daughter’s money on unnecessary wedding, she’s NTA

Dad’s financial negligence damaged more than just her trust fund

Dad breaks promise, daughter calls him out. NTA

Father prioritized an extravagant wedding over his child’s needs

Father breaks promise and manipulates daughter, NTA for cutting ties

Exploring the deeper issues behind the money conflict

Neglectful dad gets called out, but not the a**hole.

Dad gaslighted daughter and insulted her. NTA for cutting ties.

Daughter calls out dad’s AH move, defends her scholarship decisions

Breaking free from a toxic parent is empowering

Daughter shuts down entitled dad and gives advice for future parenting

Father accused of theft in NTA comment section

Speaking truth hurts, but NTA for standing up for yourself

Daughter stands up to entitled father and sets boundaries

Daughter stands up to entitled dad, earns college money. NTA

Daughter stands up to manipulative dad, NTA

Debate on parental entitlement sparks in the comments

Daughter finds a more worthy parent in her stepfather

Supportive comment, Office reference adds humor

Daughter asserts boundaries with dad, commenters agree #NTA

Choose your family wisely ♀️, blood doesn’t always mean family. #NTA

Heartbreaking experience of a parent and child relationship breakdown

Father breaks promise, daughter calls him out. NTA

Daughter rightfully defends herself against entitled father

Mother’s fund shows dad’s history of bad behavior. Heartbreaking.

Bio dad prioritizes new wife over own offspring, daughter NTA

Daughter stands up to unreliable dad, internet supports her

Dad used college fund as leverage, NTA for cutting ties

Entitled to college fund after meeting qualifier. NTA

Money is the least of their problems #NTA

Daughter forgives dad for not giving her money, values honesty instead
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Last Updated on June 14, 2023 by Diply Social Team