Imagine this: you finally gather the courage to ask out your gym crush, plan a perfect date at a Korean BBQ restaurant, and then… BAM! She turns out to be a nightmare, spewing racist comments and treating the staff like servants. What would you do? Well, our ‘Gym Romeo’ had a response that’s causing quite a stir. Let’s dive into this dramatic tale!
The Dream Date Begins
A Taste of Korean BBQ
First Red Flag
The ‘Servant-Master’ Attitude
Seeing Red Flags
The Racist Comment
The Unthinkable Happens
The Final Straw
The Aftermath ♂️
A Date to Remember… for All the Wrong Reasons!
Our ‘Gym Romeo’ thought he had a dream date lined up, but it quickly spiraled into a nightmare. From her ‘servant-master’ attitude towards the staff to her shocking racist comments, this date was a disaster from the get-go. The final straw? A racist comment about people from Pakistan, made in front of our Indian hero. Unable to stomach any more, he paid the bill, left a generous tip, and walked out, leaving her stranded at the restaurant. Now, he’s considering switching gyms to avoid her! ️♂️ Let’s see what the internet thinks of his bold move…
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“Not everyone knows what Korean BBQ is, and that’s okay!”
“Pumping and dumping” a racist? Not a great plan, buddy.
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OP and the girl both have issues, but OP could’ve intervened.
ESH, but you should’ve ended the date firmly and swiftly.
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ESH: You let her get away with demanding the wait staff cook your food!
ESH: OP should have communicated and educated, not just left.
NTA, shocked by the racist date, but handled it gracefully.
OP should have confronted the racist date directly instead of leaving.
Everyone sucks here except for the restaurant!
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NTA. Shutting down a racist date at the gym
ESH: Racist date, but you tolerated until she crossed line.
Dodging a racist date while saving money on dinner!
Doubting the authenticity of the story? You’re not alone!
Engaging caption: Defending cultural ignorance and suggesting a new gym buddy!
Quick escape from racist date, avoiding potential guilt and drama!
Immigrant shares experience of racism and doubts authenticity of the post.
Finally trying new restaurants in my 40s, NTA for leaving!
NTA, but don’t be a tiny bit AH for judging Korean BBQ
Choosing a Korean BBQ place without checking? A little AH-ish
NTA for calling out racism, but a-hole for Korean BBQ
Taking over the grill: a missed opportunity for redemption!
Mixed feelings about a racist date. ESH for desperation.
Ditching a racist date? TA, but safety first!
ESH. Passive support, racist comments, and a hasty exit. Yikes!
Confusion over Korean BBQ turns into a racist date nightmare!
ESH: Racist date + using her for ‘adult time’ = disaster!
Unbelievable but true! NTA stands up against racism!
Did everyone stand up and clap? This feels like one of those stories.
NTA: Ditched a racist date. No ride for entitled bigot!
NTA, you handled the situation with grace and dignity!
NTA for leaving her, but YTA for making the old Korean woman do all the work. ♂️
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NTA and kind of my hero.
NTA calmly handles racist date at the gym
Run away from a racist date! NTA, you did right!
Bartender hero! Left loser guy stranded at bar. NTA!
Epic date fail: ESH, hoping for more than just dinner
Not the a**hole for leaving a racist date stranded!
Hilarious read! NTA for leaving racist date stranded!
NTA, but clarify your ethnicity? Confusing statement.
Taking responsibility for a racist date? YTA, but dump her!
ESH. Lack of communication caused date night disaster.
ESH: Tolerating rudeness until insults hit *your* culture?
Confronting racism on a date, seeking education and compassion.
