Picture this: You’re on a date with your significant other, enjoying the sun and the playful banter, when suddenly, a wild friend appears! What was supposed to be a romantic getaway on the golf course turns into an awkward third-wheel situation. The question is, who’s really at fault here? Is it the boyfriend who invited his friend to join the date, or the girlfriend who decided to retreat into her phone? Let’s dive into this tale of love, golf, and unexpected guests. ️♀️ ♀️
A Date on the Greens ️♀️
Enter the Unexpected Guest
A Surprise Invitation ️♂️
The Third Wheel Dilemma ️♀️ ️♂️ ️♂️
The Date Takes a Turn
The Aftermath ️
The Self-Doubt
A Clarification ️
The Beginner’s Struggle ️♀️
A Golf Date Gone Awry: Who’s the Real Caddy Here? ️♀️ ♀️
In a tale as old as time, a romantic date turns into an awkward third-wheel situation. Our heroine finds herself sidelined on her own date when her boyfriend invites his friend to join their golf game. Despite her reservations and discomfort around ‘Chad’, her pleas fall on deaf ears. She retreats into her phone, leading to a heated argument and a cancelled dinner date. Now, they’re at an impasse. He believes she ruined her own day, while she feels sidelined on what was supposed to be their day. As we delve into the internet’s reaction to this tricky situation, remember – love might be a game, but should it include unexpected players? ️♀️ ♀️
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NTA: Date hijacked by golf buddy, no third wheel please! ⛳️
BF’s lack of empathy jeopardizes relationship. NTA.
NTA. Date hijacked by golf buddy, disrespectful and ruined the evening.
NTA. Boyfriend’s golf buddy ruins date vibes, causing anxiety.
Commenters jokingly speculate about Chad’s art room or putting green.
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NTA. Golf date hijacked by rude friend. Boyfriend blames you. ♀️
Boyfriend’s golf buddy causing tension ⛳
Is your boyfriend dismissive of your feelings? NTA
NTA for setting boundaries and being disrespected by your date.
NTA. Chad hijacked your date, BF should have respected that.
Savage revenge plan: Leave him stranded and ask about his date
Is your boyfriend really just after Chad? NTA!
Deprioritized in the relationship? No milk for him!
Dump him! Find someone who values your time and interests. NTA
NTA – Date hijacked by golf buddy, no valid excuse.
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Fiancé hijacks date for golf, commenter not happy
BF intentionally ruined date with annoying friend. NTA.
NTA. Ditched date for Chad. Swing and a miss!
Stand up for yourself! Don’t settle for someone who doesn’t care
Setting boundaries: Is it okay to invite friends on dates?
Inviting a friend on a date? Not cool, buddy!
NTA: Don’t waste time on a guy who can’t appreciate you
Third wheel on a date? Find a better boyfriend!
Polite exit from date hijacked by golf buddy. ⛳️
NTA: Communicate your needs calmly and explain the importance of alone time.
Unwanted third wheel on dates, ended the relationship.
NTA: Date should be about you two, not a third wheel!
NTA. Date hijacked by golf buddy, dismissed feelings, got mad.
NTA: Reevaluate your bf. He prioritizes his friend over you.
NTA. Boyfriend needs a reality check and some communication skills.
Dump the golfer and find someone who prioritizes you
“NTA. Date hijacked, no consent. Happy cake day, OP! “
Not the a**hole for hijacking the date
Red flags from boyfriend and his golf buddy, NTA
Controlling BF hijacks date, reconsider relationship. You deserve better.
Boyfriend values friend over alone time, causing emotional impasse. ♀️
NTA- He asked, you said no, he ignored. Classic jerk move.
Boyfriend’s art room with Chad? NTA.
Is this a case of mistaken identity?
Find a boyfriend who shares your interests and respects you.
BF prioritizes golf buddy over quality time with girlfriend. ⛳️
NTA. Planned date hijacked by golf buddy. Not cool
NTA, but were you both on the same page about ‘date’?
NTA – Not the a**hole. Tell us more about it!
Take charge of your date! Pick an activity you both enjoy! ♥️
Not the a**hole for hijacking the date!
Avoidant attachment can ruin dates. Find out more!
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Partner ignores boundaries, gets mad. NTA. Powerless feelings escalate.
Not the a**hole for hijacking the date? Let’s discuss!
Your BF and Chad: A lovely couple. NTA
Third wheeling on a romantic date? Not cool, bro!
Chad strikes again! The ultimate third wheel. NTA
Not the a**hole. Share your story of a hijacked date!
NTA, ask him to take you to hit range balls ⛳️
Artistic aspirations ignite romance. Love on the canvas! ♀️
When your brother crashes your date and makes you foot the bill
Not the a**hole! Share your story of a hijacked date!
Dump your bf and find someone who appreciates you more!
Boyfriend prioritizes friend over date, ignoring your feelings
“Chad’s golfing obsession is driving a wedge between us. NTA!”
Commenter judges without reading, sets the tone for the section.
Is he really into you or just prioritizing his friend?
NTA. Your boyfriend sucks.
Boyfriend’s idea! He wants us to play golf together ⛳️
NTA. Your boyfriend needs to prioritize quality time with you.
NTA. A private date hijacked by a golf buddy. ⛳️
Not the a**hole for hijacking the date!
NTA. Best Disney movie? Let’s discuss!
NTA, your bf is cheating on you with Chad!
Boyfriend and Chad need a room! NTA
NTA: Third wheel on a date? Your clueless bf, big time!
Golf buddy hijacked date? Maybe he just wanted some fun!
