Meet our 43-year-old protagonist, a father who’s caught in a whirlwind of conflict and drama with his 16-year-old daughter. With her eyes set on a challenging course, she’s studying eight hours a day for her college tests, leaving her with a meager four hours of free time. But Dad thinks she’s wasting it on drama series and social media, so he’s implemented a new rule that’s causing quite a stir. Let’s dive into their story, and you can decide who’s right… or wrong.
The Ambitious Daughter and the Strict Dad

The Free Time Dilemma ⏳

The New Rule: Books vs. Electronics

The Father-Daughter Standoff

The Pressure of College Tests

The High Stakes of Med School

The Study Schedule ️⏰

A Realization and a Resolution

Working Together for a Better Future

The Competitive World of Medicine in Brazil

The Uncommon Study Routine ⏳

The Verdict: Is Dad’s Rule Fair or Foul? ️ ⚖️
Our story takes us on an emotional rollercoaster, from a father’s concern for his daughter’s future to their fiery arguments over her limited free time. The dad’s strict rule has sparked a debate: is it a fair way to ensure his daughter’s success, or is it an overbearing intrusion on her freedom? The stakes are high, with a challenging med school entrance exam looming. As the dust settles, the dad realizes his mistake and works with his daughter to create a more balanced schedule. But what do you think? Is he justified in his actions, or is he pushing too hard? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this…
“YTA. This is a stellar way to ensure that you don’t have a relationship with your daughter once she moves out. “

“YTA. Studying needs breaks. Talk to her and find compromise.”

YTA. Strict study rule causing resentment. Let her breathe, OP.

“YTA. Brains need down time.”

Dad’s strict study rule sparks family drama: YTA or NAH?

YTA, but there are other factors to consider.

YTA for putting too much stress on her education.

YATA: Prioritizing rest and social development over strict study rules

YTA. Lighten up, for crying out loud!

Over-controlling dad sparks family drama. Let teenagers be teenagers!

YTA- Dad’s strict study rule sparks family drama. Is he right or wrong?

YTA, relax! Let her live.
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“YTA. All work and no play can lead to mental health issues.”

Daughter appreciates support in helping dad understand her study needs

YTA: Give her a break! Relaxation is important for learning.

Overworked daughter needs downtime to avoid burning out

“YTA for not recognizing her dedication to studying. “

OP’s strict study rule sparks debate: is it helpful or harmful?

Forcing her to read a book can be stressful and useless

Does strict study rule harm relationship with daughter?

Overbearing dad risks losing daughter by suffocating her with studying

Dad’s strict study rule backfires, risking daughter’s resentment.

Let her relax! YTA for not letting her decompress.
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YTA: Give her some downtime for better test performance!

NTA: Different countries, different rules. Get ahead or get left.

YTA. Stressing her out with strict study rules? Burnout awaits.

YTA: Dad’s strict study rule causes family drama and resentment

Dad’s strict study rule sparks family drama: YTA or NAH?

“YTA: Don’t be the gatekeeper of her personal time “

Controlling dad sparks family drama by limiting daughter’s relaxation time

YTA for imposing arbitrary rules on studying. Let her breathe!

“YTA. Pushing your daughter beyond a reasonable working week “

YTA. Prioritizing rest and relaxation is crucial for everyone

“YTA. She needs time to decompress. Give her breaks.”

Strict rules can lead to rebellion and unexpected consequences.

YTA. Stirring up drama with strict study rule?

Well-meaning but misguided dad sparks debate on study methods

“YTA. Let her decide. 4 hours free time is not enough! “

YTA: Finding balance is key for effective studying

YTA: Let her breathe and learn, or risk damaging relationship.

YTA – Balancing work and relaxation is crucial for learning!

“YTA, let her have fun! Work/life balance is important! “
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YTA. Trust her! She’s smart and needs leisure time.

YTA: Setting strict study rules can lead to burnout

YTA – Excessive study time causing family drama

YTA: Don’t stress her out, let her enjoy her free time

YTA – Don’t micromanage her! Find a hobby for yourself.

Reward-based studying: a win-win solution for both student and parent!
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Dad’s strict study rule causes family drama. YTA, enjoy consequences!
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“YTA. She needs rest and relaxation. Stop being controlling. “

“YTA. Let her relax. ” – Commenters debate dad’s strict rule

Strict study rule backfires, causing family drama and mental health issues.
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A monstrous dad destroys his daughter’s love for learning.
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“YTA. You want her to have free time…but only if it’s something YOU think she should do. “

YTA. Daughter’s burnout on fast track.

Outdated study rule? YTA, driving on a flat tire!

Commenter believes dad is the a**hole for not allowing downtime

YTA: Don’t force your dreams on your daughter.

YTA: Let her relax! Don’t make her resentful.

YTA. Prioritizing rest is crucial for long-term success.

YTA: Let her take a break!

“YTA. Let her be a kid.” – Letting go of control

“YTA This is cruel.” – A fiery condemnation of strict parenting.

“YTA. She’s already studying 8 hours a day. Studies show…”

Parent’s strict study rule sparks debate on independence and motivation.

Working too hard can lead to burnout syndrome

Outrage over dad’s strict study rule sparks heated debate

Let her live life! Don’t be a robot, YTA.

Ignorant parent thinks studying non-stop is the only way ♀️

Teacher advises OP to prioritize mental well-being and consider a tutor

Studying 8 hours a day won’t guarantee success. YTA!

“YTA. Mental health is important. She needs balance.”

YTA: Dad’s strict study rule backfires, causing family drama!

NTA. Dad’s strict rule may backfire in the future.
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