Picture this: You’re in a fancy restaurant, the ambiance is perfect, and then suddenly, your significant other starts belting out ‘Happy Birthday’ at the top of his lungs. For his 5-year-old son. In the middle of the restaurant. This is the predicament our heroine, let’s call her ‘Stunned Sally’, found herself in. Let’s dive into this deliciously dramatic tale that’s got the internet buzzing…
A Family Affair

Birthday Bash at a Posh Place ️

Surprise! Cake and a Song

Cue the Music…and the Awkwardness

A Solo Performance

A Plea Ignored

Unexpected Audience Participation

The Aftermath: A Silent Car Ride

The Confrontation: ‘You Embarrassed Me’

Defending the Dad ️

The Fallout: Silence and Saltiness

A Birthday Song, A Fancy Restaurant, and a Heated Argument: Who’s the Party Pooper?
So, here we have it: A dad, ‘Ned’, trying to make his son’s 5th birthday special amidst a tough time, and his fiancée, ‘Stunned Sally’, left feeling mortified by his public singing spectacle. She thought the fancy restaurant wasn’t the place for a loud birthday celebration, while he saw it as a harmless cheer-up attempt for his son. The result? A heated argument and a frosty silence that’s lasted for days. It’s a classic case of good intentions meeting poor execution, with a dash of miscommunication. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
YTA for sulking while dad sang to his sick child.

Singing Happy Birthday to a child: YTA or NAH?
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“YTA. The kid is 5!!!! FFS, you’re way too self-absorbed!”

Commenter questions the veracity of the story with humor

YTA for being embarrassed by a dad celebrating his son’s birthday

Fiancée’s attitude jeopardizes her future stepson. YTA.

Restaurant birthday serenade: YTA for not joining in the singing

“YTA. If it had actually been an issue, the staff would have intervened. They didn’t. Given that the only actual response you got from *anyone* was unequivocally supportive, I think you’re *wildly* projecting your own embarrassment at having attention called to you in public, and you need to acknowledge that as your problem instead of taking it out on your partner.”
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“You sound insufferable.” OP: “I was just looking forward to clubbing a sack of baby seals while I crossed names off my revenge list later. That caring loving bastard had the gall to patent his child…”

“YTA, you have a problem with his child? “

Break up with him? YTA! Dad’s sweet serenade wins hearts ❤️

Singing Happy Birthday at an upscale restaurant: YTA or NAH?

“YTA. Dad’s public birthday serenade was embarrassing, but it’s not about you.”

YTA… A massive one. Selfish behavior on a child’s birthday.

YTA: It’s not about you, it’s about his son’s birthday!

“YTA. No question. Also? ‘Thanks for finally noticing.’ YTA for that, too.”

YTA. Your stepson knows you don’t like him.

YTA: You’re uncomfortable with your partner’s child, not ready for parenting.

YTA. Lighten up! It was cute, not weird

“YTA This sounds like a ‘you’ problem.”
