Imagine your teenage son finally gathering the courage to come out to you, and your response is… less than ideal. One dad found himself in this exact situation when his 17-year-old son and his boyfriend approached him to share their relationship status. The father, already aware of his son’s interest in men, thought he was being funny when he blurted out, ‘Well, that’s pretty f***ing gay.’ However, his son and boyfriend didn’t find the humor in the situation, and now the dad is left scrambling to fix the damage. ️
Dad’s Suspicion: Son’s Interest in Men ️♂️

The Boyfriend Enters the Scene

The Big Reveal

Dad’s ‘Hilarious’ Response

The Fallout

Radio Silence

Update: Grandparents’ House

Awaiting the Conversation

Father’s Foot-in-Mouth Moment ♂️
This dad thought he was being funny when his son came out to him, but his ill-timed joke has left him scrambling to make amends. His son and boyfriend were left upset and have retreated to the grandparents’ house. The father is now anxiously awaiting the chance to talk and hopefully repair the damage. Will he be able to fix the situation and regain his son’s trust? ️ Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
YTA for the wording. Apologize and explain you fully accept him

YTA, but props for being supportive. Apologize and make amends.

Dad’s ‘peak comedy’ moment backfires when son comes out

YTA tries to be funny but backfires. Apologize and show support

Thin line between humor and hurt in a crucial moment

“Jokes like that are only acceptable AFTER you support them.”

“You made a mistake. I don’t think that makes you an a**hole. You made a joke that flopped. Now you just have to apologize sincerely and give him an opportunity to have a conversation on the topic that leaves the jokes aside. You’re doing your best. I say dumb things to my trans son on occasion, and I’m usually forgiven.”

“NAH, Reddit doesn’t know your dynamic, but misread the situation.”

Gay perspective: Son wants support and shock, not indifference.

Generational joke-telling: when it’s funny and when it’s not

Insensitive dad hurts son and his boyfriend’s feelings.

YTA – Funny but insensitive. Apologize and show support for son

Hilarious joke backfires, but NAH. Just smooth it over!
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YTA – Hilarious dad joke or insensitive response?
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NAH. Apologize, hug him, have a conversation. It will blow over.

Supportive dad’s ‘peak comedy’ moment backfires when son comes out ️

Dad’s ‘peak comedy’ moment backfires when son comes out

Apologize to your son and show him your unconditional love ❤️

Dad’s joke backfires, son wants love and understanding

Teen comes out, dad’s ‘peak comedy’ moment backfires

Dad’s joke backfires, but he can make it right with support
