Imagine this: your father starts dating a new woman, and suddenly, you’re pushed to the sidelines. Your calls go unanswered, your messages unreturned, and your bond with your father begins to feel like a distant memory. What do you do when the person who’s supposed to be your rock, your support system, chooses his new love over you? This is the heart-wrenching situation one woman found herself in, leading to a family showdown that will leave you questioning where your loyalties would lie.
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A Daughter’s Heartache: When Dad Chooses Love Over Family
In a tale that tugs at the heartstrings, a woman finds herself pushed to the sidelines by her father’s new love. As she grapples with the pain of unanswered calls, hidden pregnancies, and a grandchild kept secret, she’s forced to make a stand. The result? An emotional showdown at the family Christmas gathering, where she asks her family to choose – her and her baby, or her father. As she questions her actions, we’re left wondering – is she overreacting, or is this a desperate cry for the love and support she’s been denied? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Cut ties now and hope for future reconciliation.

Dad’s toxic girlfriend threatens father-daughter bond. OP is NTA

NTA exposes dad’s lies, family divided. Will he face consequences?

Dump the red flag! You’re his family, not just a girlfriend!

“NTA… maybe a little petty, but I get it.”

Abusive relationship: Dad needs help, daughter’s hurt but empathetic

Setting boundaries with dad’s family: NTA but close to ESH

Family support needed to expose dad’s inappropriate relationship
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Not the a**hole. A tough choice with no easy answer.

Standing up to dysfunctional families: NTA, protect yourself and daughter

Empathizing with the commenter’s concern for their dad’s well-being ❤️

Dad’s GF vs Daughter: Who’s the real a**hole?

NTA. Tough situation with dad. Blocking him helped, but it’s complicated.

Does his girlfriend know about you? Did he cut you off?

NTA. Stand your ground and tell him to leave you alone
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Father’s plea for support against abusive girlfriend. Stay connected, stay safe.

Navigating a toxic family dynamic and setting healthy boundaries

Not the a**hole. A family torn between love and loyalty.

Concerned commenter suggests an intervention due to potential abuse

“NTA. Dad’s made his priorities clear. No need to push.”

Not the a**hole. A family’s tough decision with dad’s new love

Heartbreaking situation. Have an open, honest talk with your dad ❤️

Is dad’s gf innocent or just oblivious?

NTA but is the girlfriend emotionally manipulating the father and kids?

Shocking double standards! Let’s address the hidden abuse together.

OP’s dad may be a victim of abuse, needing support

Dad’s love triangle: NTA vs psycho wife

Giving space or keeping secrets? The tangled web of family.

Support your dad in leaving the abusive relationship ❤️
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Not the a**hole. A tough choice between love and family.

A tough ultimatum: love or family? Who’s the real a**hole?
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Dad’s love vs daughter’s happiness: A tough but fair choice ❤️

Seek support IRL, you’re not the a**hole for prioritizing yourself

Not the a**hole. A family caught in a heartbreaking dilemma

Dad’s love vs. daughter: A tough choice with consequences ♀️

NTA, but his gf is a massive one Concerned for her kids.
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Heartbreaking choice: Dad’s new love or his only daughter?

NTA. Unhinged ex causes heartbreaking family dilemma.

Curious about the girlfriend’s behavior? Possible abuse and frustration.

Dad’s girlfriend is TA! NTA caught in abusive relationship

Protective dad prioritizes kids over new love.

Supportive comment: Daughter stands up for herself against dad

Isolation concerns: Is dad in an abusive relationship?

NTA: Is she real? Be honest with his family, something’s off.

Navigating family dynamics and abusive relationships.

NTA. Commenter warns about a potential gold digger destroying family.

Heartbreaking choice: Dad’s love or his twisted girlfriend?

Dad’s secret daughter caught in a love triangle

NTA: Dad’s ultimatum, parole officer wants to erase you. Christmas drama!

NTA. Ex stepmother accused commenter of being an alcoholic and stealing. Commenter’s dad divorced her after she called commenter a c**t.

Heartbreaking betrayal: A father’s true colors revealed. Protect your child.

Dad’s new love or his only daughter? Heartbreaking family dilemma

Age gap sparks suspicion and curiosity among commenters
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Not the a**hole. A family’s tough choice with dad’s new love
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Setting boundaries without ultimatums: a delicate balancing act

Putting your child first is never being the a**hole

Daughter rightfully calls out dad’s toxic relationship, chooses herself

Heartfelt support for someone facing a difficult family choice

NTA, but can you save your father from an abuser?

Stand up for yourself! It’s time for an ultimatum.

ESH: Dad, girlfriend, and commenter for creating a family ultimatum.
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Family feud: Dad caught between love interest and possessive daughter

Father’s love questioned. A family torn apart.

NTA, your dad’s in an emotionally abusive relationship

Dad’s dating a manipulative user, you’re the victim. NTA.
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Expectations of help in emergencies from long-distance family members

Daughter chooses herself over dad’s new love, holiday heartbreak

Family divided: NTA, but what do they really think?

Toxic new GF forces dad to ignore calls – NTA, drop them
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Dad’s secret love triangle: NTA, but will he choose you?
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Doubting dad’s wife, NTA questions honesty, trust, and separation.

NTA – Manipulative control freak tearing apart a family. Save him.

NTA: Escape the drama with a strategic parking maneuver!

Not the a**hole, but what’s the backstory?

Waiting for closure: Daughter’s unresolved relationship with her father.
