In the messy world of blended families, it’s not uncommon for some members to feel left out. This is the story of one such individual, who has been feeling the cold shoulder from their dad ever since he started a new family. The protagonist, let’s call them ‘The Forgotten Child’, has been battling feelings of resentment and neglect for years, craving for some quality ‘father-child’ time that seems to be lavished on everyone else but them. Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster, shall we?
Once Upon a Time, Dad and I…

Enter Kirsten and Her Kids

The Forgotten Child

Quality Time? Not for Me!

The Family Grows, The Gap Widens

Resentment Brews ️

The Unwanted Family

The Offer Rejected

The Confrontation

The Laser Tag Incident ️

Enough is Enough!

The Family Vacation ️

The Final Stand ️

A Forgotten Child’s Cry for Attention: The Heart-Wrenching Tale
In this emotional saga, our protagonist, ‘The Forgotten Child’, grapples with feelings of neglect and resentment, as they watch their father shower attention on his new family. From being pushed to the sidelines, to being told to ‘enjoy time with the family’, the protagonist’s pleas for quality time with their dad fall on deaf ears. The final straw comes when they’re asked to join the family vacation, only to be accused of crushing the younger kids’ spirits when they refuse. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation…
NTA – Dad’s refusal to spend 1 on 1 time is unfair

NTA, your father and his new family are definitely the AH

NTA. Dad’s a giant a**hole, Kirsten too. Free babysitting anyone?

“NTA, tell your dad you’re spending time with those who prioritize you. “

NTA: Dad prioritizes new family over original child, causing emotional pain

“Respecting your stepmom but disrespecting your actual mom? Not cool!”

Dad’s lies and broken expectations: NTA for feeling frustrated.

NTA: Dad prioritizes stepchildren, stepmom wants to lessen child support.

NTA: Feeling second fiddle to stepmom and other kids. ♀️

NTA. A child is not a convenience Stay strong.

NTA. Dad’s reaping what he sowed. You’ve been clear.

Dad neglects child, commenter feels justified in prioritizing self.
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Ill-conceived attempt at family togetherness. Not the a**hole.

Dad neglects quality time with child, major AH move

Free babysitter? NTA knows how to sniff out opportunities!

NTA. Have a heart-to-heart with your dad and prioritize yourself ❤️

NTA. You deserve 1:1 time and respect as part of family.

NTA. Dad’s broken promises lead to strained relationship with you.

NTA. Kudos to your mother! How hard can it be? ♂️

Standing up for what matters and not settling for less.

NTA. Dad’s neglect caused problems. He dug his own hole.

NTA – Dad prioritizes new family over you. Spend time with mom

Choose Mum for quality time!

NTA: Escape the drama and live with your mom full time!

Stepmom drama: NTA for prioritizing your relationship with your dad

No relationship with dad? Tell him it’s best to go NC

NTA, bluntly expressing disconnection from step-family, no desire for relationship.

NTA – Let them be, don’t crush their spirits! ✨

NTA: Don’t blame OP for lack of communication. Let’s be helpful!

Stand your ground and prioritize your needs. Don’t back down!

Consider living with your mom full time for a better environment.
