Dad’s Epic Showdown with Ex Over Parenting Their Child: Who’s In The Right? ‍

Imagine having your ex-partner walk out on you and your child, only to return years later and critique your parenting style. This is the reality for one dad, who we’ll affectionately call Papa Bear, and his 17-year-old son, Levi. After years of single parenthood, Papa Bear’s ex resurfaced and moved in temporarily due to housing issues. But when she began to question his parenting, things got heated. Let’s dive into this dramatic tale.

The Early Years: Struggle and Abandonment

Stepping Up as a Single Dad

The Unexpected Return

A New Dynamic Forms ‍

Ex Moves In, Sparks Fly

The Tensions Begin to Rise

Papa Bear’s Parenting Philosophy ️

The Showdown: Who’s The Parent Here? ‍

Papa Bear Roars Back

The Aftermath: Silence and Reflection

Looking Back: Was It Worth It?

Papa Bear’s Dilemma: Did He Cross The Line?

Papa Bear has been a single dad for 15 years, raising Levi on his own after his ex walked out. When she returned, cleaned up and seeking a relationship with their son, he welcomed her back into their lives. But when she started critiquing his parenting style after moving in temporarily, Papa Bear’s patience wore thin. He snapped, reminding her of her absence during Levi’s upbringing, and now he’s left wondering if he was too harsh. After all, his words were true, but were they necessary? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

“NTA. Crazy rules for a 17-year-old? You’re doing great! “

“NTA. In her mind he’s still a little boy. “

NTA. Single dad defends parenting against disruptive ex. Levi’s a**hole-free name! ‍

NTA. Set boundaries with your ex and assert your authority.

NTA – Dad sets boundaries with ex, raising son amidst adversity ‍

“NTA. She may have given birth to Levi, but she has zero experience raising a child or being a parent, so what she thinks or says doesn’t matter. I think she had some Hallmark-movie ideas that moving in with you would mean you would be a family and it would be like she never left. By being blunt with her you made her face reality which she didn’t like but she needed.”

NTA: Responsible parenting and tough love for a responsible teen. ‍

>She thinks your son is 8. He’s almost an adult. NTA

NTA. Setting boundaries with intrusive exes.

NTA: Dodged a bullet with responsible son. No rebel here!

NTA: A relatable and lucky parent shares their Levi struggles

NTA: Mom abandoned child, now wants to boss him around? Nope.

Mom’s absence doesn’t justify her sudden ‘parenting’ role. NTA!

NTA: Ex lost authority, treat her like a guest

NTA: 9pm bedtime for a 17 year old? Ridiculous!

“NTA – Just because a child came out of you doesn’t mean you get to force a mother onto them. She wasn’t a mother to him for 17 years and as far as anyone is concerned, she isn’t one now just because she’s physically there.”

Your responsible son proves you’re not the a**hole.

NTA. Kicking her out would’ve been a**hole-ish. You’re nicer

NTA. Epic showdown with ex over parenting a teenager!

NTA. Son wants independence, dad supports him. Mom’s guilt trip backfires.

Dad’s epic showdown: NTA! He raised their child, not her. ‍

Parenting clash! NTA dad vs. ex over strict rules.

NTA. Assertive parenting wins! Ex found new place, moving out!

Absent mother figure tries to assert authority over responsible teenager.

Putting your son first is key. You’re NTA!

Dad stands up to ex: NTA for snapping, she overstepped

NTA saves relationship with child from resentment and damage.

Single dad triumphs over irresponsible ex: A**hole vs. Kickass Dad

NTA. Ex’s parenting hypocrisy exposed. You nailed it!

NTA. Setting boundaries and speaking the truth.

NTA – Your son is 17, not 7. You’re right!

NTA. Clueless ex thinks she can meddle in your son’s life

NTA stands up to ex’s parenting demands, asserting independence.

NTA. Ex walked out, no say in son’s life. Son responsible

NTA: You’ve been a great parent, she can’t dictate your rules

Teen vents frustration about bedtime rules during pandemic.

NTA: Parenting like a boss ‍

NTA. People who haven’t raised children love to spout parenting advice

NTA. Let’s dive into this epic showdown!

NTA. Epic verbal smackdown shuts down boundary over-stepper.

NTA. Ex tries to parent after years. Lucky to be involved!

NTA. Absentee mom faces consequences as son becomes independent.

Ex is bitter about missing out on raising a child. NTA

NTA. Son’s freedom at stake due to strict rules. Resentment looms.

Ex gave up say in upbringing, tell her to leave.

“She’s trying to make up for leaving, but it’s too late. NTA.”

Defending their actions with passion!

NTA. Stand your ground and protect your son’s well-being.

NTA: Ex tries to play parent after all this time

NTA. Reasonable restrictions for responsible 17-year-old, not his mother.

NTA. Parenting appropriately. Remind her your son’s boundaries matter ‍

NTA: Ex can’t parent if she didn’t want to raise him ‍

NTA. Ex needs to back off and let you parent.

NTA – Who’s in the right? Let’s find out!

“NTA. Ex walked out, can’t suddenly parent. Rewarding son “

NTA for setting boundaries with ex, but be kinder

NTA. Dad stands up for responsible son against overstepping ex. ‍

NTA, parent’s bedtime rule for a 17-year-old sparks controversy

NTA. Dad’s strict rules for 17-year-old son are excessive.

NTA – Dad stands up for his child against unreasonable ex!

Definitely not the a**hole, but could’ve been more tactful.

NTA: Questioning parenting = questioning the person you raised

NTA – Reasonable and good parent vs. AH ex. Epic showdown!

NTA: Dad stands up for his child.

NTA. Enforcing Levi’s wishes and crazy rules for a 17-year-old.

NTA: Ex tries to parent after years of absence. Boundaries needed.

NTA: Single dad takes a stand against ex’s late responsibility. ‍

The struggle of being a mother is often misunderstood. ‍

NTA: Woman’s audacity and lack of self-awareness is exceptional!

Proud of the dad and his 17-year-old! NTA!

NTA: Ex overcompensating for not being there, unreasonable bedtime.

NTA- Absentee parents trying to dictate how to raise children

NTA. Setting boundaries and making ex accept consequences.

Letting her move in was a huge mistake. Nightmare eviction?

NTA asserts parental rights, sparks debate over mother’s involvement

NTA: Extreme rules may have contributed to her drinking problem

NTA. Ex needs boundaries and gratitude for your parenting.

NTA. Ex needs to grow up and respect boundaries.

NTA: Ex wants to parent their 17-year-old, but he’s not having it. He’s done a great job raising his son as a young father.

Mom forfeited her say in raising him. NTA wins!

NTA: Dad stands up for himself and his son against ex