Divorces can be messy, and sometimes the aftermath can leave lasting scars. A 27-year-old woman shares her story of how her father’s actions during her childhood and beyond have left her questioning the value of their relationship. After her parents’ divorce, her father was distant and uninvolved, but he always promised her a college fund if she did well in school. However, when it came time to pay up, she discovered he had spent the money on his lavish wedding. Now, he still wants a relationship with her, but she’s not so sure.
The Messy Divorce ️
Dad’s Lack of Effort
The College Fund Promise
Dad’s Extravagant Wedding
The Shocking Truth
No Apology, Just Accusations
Scholarship to the Rescue
Feeling Conned
Dad’s Attempts to Reconcile ️
The Stalemate ♀️
Dad’s Reaction
Reflecting on Her Words
A Father’s Broken Promise and a Daughter’s Dilemma
This young woman’s father promised her a college fund if she excelled in school, only to spend it on his wedding and then accuse her of being selfish. Despite his attempts to reconcile, he still insists she wasn’t entitled to the money. Frustrated, she told him he’s not entitled to a relationship with her either. Now, she’s left wondering if she crossed a line. Let’s see what people think about this emotional rollercoaster of a situation…
“NTA. He’s an @$$ trying to gaslight you. “
Dad breaks promise, wastes college fund. Daughter cuts him off.
NTA: Dad keeps bringing up spending college fund, seeking validation.
Dad ignores OP, breaks promises, and steals college fund
Dad steals college fund, demands relationship. Commenters advise legal action.
NTA. Father broke promises, you have right to cut ties.
Dad’s broken promise: College fund gone, relationship in jeopardy
Dad breaks promise, spends college fund on wedding
Protecting the baby brother’s college fund from dad’s spending habits
Dad’s betrayal sparks fiery backlash from commenter.
NTA for delivering a sick burn that hit home
Heartbreaking betrayal by parent, leading to no contact.
Gaslighting dad spends college fund on wedding, accuses daughter of entitlement. NTA
Dad’s wedding splurge leaves daughter fuming. She’s definitely NTA!
OP’s dad spent college fund on wedding, not dad material
“NTA. Dad prioritized video games over relationship with daughter. “
NTA. Dad’s broken promises and entitlement caused deep hurt. Cut ties.
Heartbroken daughter stands up for herself against untrustworthy father
Dad’s betrayal: He ruined the relationship. You’re definitely NTA
Supportive comment defends OP against j**k dad, hopes for stepmom’s intervention
Father breaks promise, spends college fund on wedding
NTA. Dad neglected you, doesn’t deserve benefits or forgiveness.
Heartbreaking betrayal: Dad prioritizes wedding over daughter’s future
NTA. He deserves to be hurt.
NTA. Embrace your role as a supportive big sis!
NTA. Father’s broken promises and neglect leave lasting scars
NTA: Dad breaks promise, creates false expectation about college fund
NTA. No loss, just clarity. Enjoy college!
New wife’s knowledge of tuition promise makes her a d**k
Dad’s broken promise leads to 5 years of minimal contact
NTA: Setting boundaries after a Scott’s Tots situation
NTA. Truth bombs silenced him.
Dad spends daughter’s college fund on wedding NTA
Last Updated on January 31, 2024 by Diply Social Team