Being a newly divorced dad is never easy, especially when it comes to taking care of a 3-year-old girl with curly hair. Our dad in question is struggling with his daughter’s hair care and decided to ask a daycare teacher for help. The teacher kindly agreed to do the little girl’s hair in the mornings if he dropped her off earlier. All seemed well until the ex-wife found out and accused him of being a bad parent for relying on the teacher. Was he doing the right thing or just avoiding his responsibilities? Let’s dive into the story.
Newly Divorced Dad’s Dilemma

Hair Care Struggles

Daycare Teacher to the Rescue! ♀️

Early Dropoff Solution

Curly Hair Products and Tips

Ex-Wife Finds Out

Bad Parent Accusations

Dad’s Intentions ♂️

Learning and Improving

Weekend Hair Care

Other Kids’ Hair ♀️

Father’s Hair Care Solution: Right or Wrong?
So, here’s the situation: a newly divorced dad is struggling with his daughter’s curly hair care and enlists the help of a daycare teacher. The teacher agrees to do her hair in the mornings if he drops her off earlier. The ex-wife finds out and calls him a bad parent for relying on the teacher and changing their morning routine. The dad believes he’s doing the right thing by making sure her hair is cared for on his weeks, but the ex-wife disagrees. The internet has weighed in, and the responses are quite interesting…
NTA. Dad relies on teacher for daughter’s hair, but should learn.

“YTA. Learn to do your kid’s hair instead of outsourcing. “

Parent criticized for relying on daycare teacher for daughter’s hair. YTA.

Teacher’s gentle hint: Learn to do your daughter’s hair yourself. YTA.

Parenting expectations: who should be responsible for a child’s hair?

Soft YTA for relying on daycare teacher for daughter’s hair

Dad’s hair struggles: YouTube or ex-wife? Who’s got the answer?

YTA for relying on the teacher for your daughter’s hair

Dad relies on daycare teacher for daughter’s hair: YTA or NAH?

OP’s refusal to learn basic haircare is weaponized incompetence.
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Dad relies on daycare teacher for daughter’s hair: NAH

Dad gets roasted for not knowing how to do daughter’s hair

Are you learning or offloading? Take the opportunity to learn!

“YTA. Dumping parenting duties on daycare teacher. Find solutions yourself.”

“Dude YTA. This teacher is doing free labor for you bc she cares about your kid. Add that to the pile of free and underpaid labor teachers do every day. This is your kid, you should have learned how to do her hair already. Get up earlier, watch YouTube tutorials, and do right by your damn daughter. Sheesh. “

Dad relies on daycare teacher for daughter’s hair: YTA with low standards.

Mom’s hair skills put dad to shame! YTA for slacking

“Dumping responsibility on someone else? What does that tell your kid?”

“YTA (but very mild)”
Dad needs a crash course in hair care for his daughter

“YTA. Learn to do your daughter’s hair instead of offloading.”

Dad defies stereotypes, slays hair game, and critiques competition!

YTA for struggling with your daughter’s curly hair.

Dad relies on daycare teacher for daughter’s hair: YTA!
