Imagine this: you’ve paid for your children’s college tuitions and even helped with their weddings. But when your youngest daughter, who went no contact for years, asks you to pay for her lavish wedding, you put your foot down. Is this fair or cruel? One dad found himself in this exact situation, and the internet is divided.
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A Hefty Price for Education

Second Degree Drama

No Contact Consequences

Wedding Bells and Reconciliation

Budget Blowout

Financial Fears

Expecting a Payout

Dad’s Tough Decision

Comparing Contributions

Anger and Accusations

Dad’s Dilemma: Paying for Lavish Wedding or Standing His Ground?
This dad thought he was doing the right thing by refusing to pay for his youngest daughter’s expensive wedding after she went no contact for years. But when she accused him of playing favorites and not treating her fairly, he was left questioning his decision. Is he being a responsible parent or just plain cruel? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation…
Daughter’s wedding request seems like a ploy for money. NTA

NTA – Fair to not pay for daughter’s wedding, she’s using them for money

NTA – Daughter only initiated contact for wedding money. Keep treating them equally.
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NTA – Daughter’s entitlement burns 60k, she wants more

NTA: Daughter’s entitlement issues. Generosity mistaken for ATM relationship.

Engaging comment and replies reveal missing details and possible manipulation
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“NTA. Youngest sounds entitled. She initiated contact hoping for fancy wedding.”

NTA- Offered $5k, entitled daughter demands more for wedding.

Curious about the backstory behind the parent-child estrangement.

Daughter’s entitlement and misunderstanding causes problems in family dynamics.

Fashion degree success: NTA dad vs. supportive parents debate

Curious about past agreements, NTA for not paying for wedding.

Curious about the timeline and cost comparison of degrees.
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NTA for not paying $30k for youngest’s wedding. Miscommunication?

NTA: Daughter demands more money for wedding, entitlement at its finest

Curious about the cost of their computer science degrees?
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INFO/ESH: Is there more to this story? ESH for entitlement.

“ESH: Disappointed dad, entitled daughter, and some pretty s****y parents.”

ESH. Reddit moment where privileged people don’t understand narcissistic parents.

YBTA. Toxic to hold NC over her head. Question why she went NC.

Daughter’s wedding money: genuine contact or ulterior motive?
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Last Updated on February 9, 2024 by Diply Social Team