Dad Refuses to Fund Son’s Second Undergraduate Degree: Heartless or Sensible?

Imagine you’re a proud father, having paid for your son’s first degree from an excellent state school. He even lands a great job afterward. But then, he drops the bombshell – he wants to pursue another undergraduate degree, this time from a fancy Ivy League college, and expects you to foot the bill again. What would you do? This is the dilemma one father found himself in, leading to a heated family feud. Let’s delve into this drama-filled saga.

A Divorced Dad’s New Family

The Ivy League Legacy

The Eldest Son’s Academic Journey

A Sudden Shift

The Unexpected Twist

The Financial Feasibility

Accusations of Neglect and Favoritism

The Blame Game

The Education Fund Dilemma

Family Feud Over Tuition

The Power of Attorney Debate

The Strained Relationship

A Ray of Hope?

A Family Torn Apart Over Tuition: Who’s Right, Who’s Wrong?

This father’s refusal to pay for his son’s second undergraduate degree has ignited a powder keg of family drama. From accusations of neglect and favoritism to potential power of attorney battles, it’s a heart-wrenching tale of a family torn apart by educational aspirations and financial realities. Despite the son’s resentment, the father remains firm, citing the financial strain and the need to support his other children’s education. The saga continues, leaving us wondering: Is the father being reasonable or is the son’s demand justified? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

“NTA. You paid for his first degree. He’s 25, he can pay for further education. Don’t fall for the guilt trip. “

NTA. Don’t overextend yourself paying extra for his second degree.

NTA. Time for him to navigate his own life.

“NTA. Dad refuses to fund son’s second degree. Who’s responsible? “

NTA, but can he even apply?

Debunking the myths around Ivy League admissions and second degrees

NTA: You’re not responsible for funding his second degree.

Fairness in funding education: NTA’s perspective sparks debate ⚖️

Curious about son’s second undergrad degree instead of advanced degree?

NTA: Time for your adult child to find a job

NTA – Son’s entitlement and blame-shifting. Talk about expenses and boundaries.

NTA, dad shouldn’t enable entitlement, son can work and take loans

NTA. Fair funding, but son may feel less valued.

NTA Fairness in education, but oldest needs attitude adjustment.

NTA. Dad’s done his part. PoA can help, but court may intervene.

NTA. Dad refuses to fund son’s second degree, siblings affected.

INFO: Parenting differences, favoritism claims, and buried lede.

Dad’s neglectful past affects son’s education. He needs to own up.

NTA- One degree is enough, don’t be taken advantage of!

NTA. Providing education is enough. Hold firm, ignore family pressure.

NTA: Son got a good job, he can pay for it

Equal financial contribution can ease resentment.

Oldest son feels left behind, seeking validation from father ❤️

NTA – Son needs to take responsibility for himself and move on.

Parent’s financial decision questioned, but son’s understanding considered.

Navigating family dynamics with love and boundaries

INFO: Ivy League schools unlikely to accept second undergraduate degree.

NTA: Dad refuses to fund son’s second degree, reasonable decision.

Generous dad refuses to fund son’s second degree. NTA!

NTA: Grateful for parents’ support, but further education is personal.

NTA: Set money aside for 1 degree, can’t afford it

NTA – Your son’s entitlement and whiny attitude won’t get him far

NTA. Independence time! Let him pay his own way now.

NTA. Time to adult! One degree’s enough, buddy!

NTA. One degree per kid? Fair or heartless?

NTA: Son needs to take responsibility for his choices

NTA: Raising a**holes and being surprised? ‍♂️

NTA, son wants unnecessary second degree; dad refuses to fund.

NTA – Entitled kid sparks heated debate on funding education

Self-made success: No handouts, just hard work and determination!

Envious of family support, commenter defends dad’s decision. NTA

Struggling for funds? Dad’s refusal sparks debate. You decide!

NAH. Dad wants to feel included. Have a heart-to-heart conversation.

Each kid gets one ticket, where they ride is their choice

NTA, son’s unrealistic expectations make funding impossible.

Second Bachelor’s degree for sibling envy? NTA, that’s dumb ‍♂️

NTA. Counseling may be more valuable than another degree.

Is pursuing a second undergraduate degree really a waste?

NTA. Parents paid for undergrad, son shouldn’t bankrupt them.

NTA – Tradition vs. Practicality: Who should foot the bill?

NTA, be honest about finances and let him finance the rest

NTA. Congrats on the degree! Have a heart-to-heart about validation.

Supportive comment encourages parent to help child save for university

Curious about the choice of a second undergrad degree?

Understanding the emotional impact of not funding a second degree. ❤️

Debunking the story and explaining why funding a second degree is unnecessary.

NTA. Tough love for entitled son. Let him learn responsibility.

Grateful for assistance? NTA dad refuses second degree funding!

Grateful for one degree, state school can still be prestigious

NTA wow, son should take responsibility for his decisions

NTA: Son’s selfishness sparks debate. Who’s in the wrong?

Fair deal: NTA’s parents paid undergrad, NTA paid grad school

NTA. Taking a stand or just being practical?

NTA. Don’t let guilt trip you, protect your parents too.

NTA: Suggest a higher status 1/2 year masters program instead!

NTA. Suggesting a spreadsheet to show the fair distribution of funds.

NTA: Is a second undergraduate degree really worth it?

Persuade your parents with numbers and win their support!

Father prioritizes financial stability over entitled eldest child’s demands.

NTA: Oldest son has deeper issues, discuss before things worsen.

NTA. Education is a privilege and you’ve already supported him.

Fair or Foul? Dad refuses to fund son’s second degree.