Imagine having an annual tradition with your child, only for your ex to try and invite themselves along with their new spouse! Well, that’s exactly what happened to one dad who’s been taking his son on a camping trip to Yosemite every year since he was a little kid. Now, his ex-wife, who’s been absent from their son’s life for years, wants to tag along with her husband to ‘bond’ with the boy. But the dad is standing his ground and refusing to let them crash the special father-son trip. Let’s dive into the story…
Ex Returns After Years of Absence ♀️

Young Mother Struggles

Ex Tries to Reconnect

Matt’s Stance on Mom

Ex Pushes for More Involvement

Dad and Son Stand Firm ✊

The Camping Trip Tradition ️

Ex Wants to Join the Trip

Dad Says No! ❌

Ex and Sister Team Up

Dad Stands by Son’s Decision

Sister Thinks Dad’s Wrong ♀️

Dad Stays Firm on Camping Trip Boundaries ️
So, despite the ex-wife and sister teaming up to pressure the dad into allowing the unwelcome guests on the trip, he’s staying firm in his decision to protect the special father-son tradition. ♂️ It’s clear that the son doesn’t want his mom and her husband to join them, and the dad is respecting his wishes. But what do you think about this situation? Is the dad right to stand his ground, or should he give in and let them join the trip? Let’s take a look at some of the top reactions from the internet…
OP is NTA for respecting his son’s wishes and boundaries.

Ex demands camping trip with son, ignores healthy boundaries. NTA.

NTA. Ex-wife should pursue custody in court. Don’t ruin son’s vacation.
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Letting your son decide is the right move. NTA


Putting your child’s needs first is not being an a**hole

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Ex-wife’s request to join camping trip denied, NTA.

Empowering children to make decisions about their relationships

Supportive comment advises OP to stand by son’s boundaries

Ex-wife’s husband judges dad’s parenting, but he’s not the parent. NTA
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Father-son bond prevails as dad stands up for son’s choice

Setting boundaries with ex’s new partner. NTA

Ex wants to be involved after a decade of absence. NTA prioritizes son’s feelings.

Ex’s behavior has consequences. Reassuring that son’s better off.

Ex wants to join camping trip but son’s decision respected
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Dad stands his ground, ex-wife tries to force her way in

NTA. Repairing relationship not your responsibility. Son old enough to decide.

Son’s happiness and comfort should be top priority. NTA

Respectful NTA dad sets boundaries on camping trip with son ️

Mother’s absence for over a decade has consequences, NTA.

NTA for excluding ex and her husband from camping trip ️

Respectful co-parenting takes time and effort. NTA.

Son’s choice matters, absent parent can’t make up in 2 years

Protecting son’s favorite trip, NTA refuses ex and husband.

Father-son bonding trip, not for ex-wife to intrude. NTA.

Son’s opinion is what matters, NTA for refusing ex’s request
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Defend your family tradition and find other opportunities together!

Don’t taint your father-son bonding trip with strangers. You’re NTA

Brutal honesty reigns in this NTA comment section
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Standing up for your child’s wishes is important

Parental double standards? Commenter calls out favoritism in custody battles.

Letting son make decisions = good parenting. Ex joining camping trip = a**hole move. NTA

Supportive comment defends father’s decision, encourages healthy relationships.

Son’s choice matters, mother should have been there. NTA

Protecting son’s comfort and relationship, NTA dad sets boundaries.

Protective dad prioritizes son’s stability over ex’s sudden interest.

Trust must be earned, NTA dad prioritizes son’s safety

Proud dad shares his son’s success on camping trip

Setting boundaries with ex can be tough. NTA for dad.

Respectful boundaries make for happy campers

Respect for children’s opinions matters, NTA for dad’s decision.

NTA – Father defends son’s autonomy and emotional well-being.

Respect boundaries and suggest alternative activities for a peaceful relationship

Father stands up for son after ex’s absence for 11 years

Dad prioritizes bonding with son over ex’s husband. NTA

Respecting son’s wishes is key to healthy co-parenting

Father stands up for son’s feelings and family tradition. NTA
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Camping trip as a trial reconciliation? NTA, too invasive

Setting boundaries with exes is important for healthy co-parenting

Protecting your son’s wishes on a special trip . NTA, dad.

NTA. Father’s decision to exclude ex is justified.

Let Matt decide! NTA for wanting ex out of life

Forced communication doesn’t work, especially with a 16-year-old.

Let the kid decide. Ex and sister are being ridiculous

NTA for refusing ex and her husband on camping trip ️ . She’s putting her needs above her son’s.

Son’s happiness comes first. NTA for prioritizing his feelings

Being a good parent pays off

Enjoy your time with your son, not your ex and her husband

Protect your special trip with your son and set boundaries.

Letting son make his own decision, NTA for excluding ex.

Protecting his son’s feelings, dad excludes ex and her partner.

Valued tradition, difficult vacation. Suggests alternative trip. ️

A heartwarming NTA comment about a father-son camping trip ❤️

Dad prioritizes son’s happiness, avoids potential family drama

Savage! One-liner calls out sister’s behavior.

Ex wants to bond with son after being absentee mom. NTA dad refuses.

Biological mother not entitled to love and affection from child

16-year-old has right to choose custody. NTA for setting boundaries.
