A father of three found himself in hot water after he praised his son differently than his daughter. The 52-year-old dad, who has a 15-year-old daughter and 7-year-old twins (a boy and a girl), noticed his son showing interest in more masculine hobbies. Excited by this development, the dad showered his son with praise, but when his daughter joined in, she didn’t receive the same level of enthusiasm. This led to accusations of misogyny from both his wife and older daughter. But is he really the bad guy here? Let’s dive into the story… ️♀️
The Dad’s Dilemma

Son’s Interests

A Shift in Hobbies? ️♂️

Dad’s Excitement

Praising the Son

Daughter Joins In

Unequal Enthusiasm

Dad’s Explanation ️

Accusations Fly!

Wife Joins the Fray

Dad’s Realization

Apologies and Reflection

Making Amends

Learning from the Past

Dad Learns a Valuable Lesson
After reading the comments and reflecting on his actions, the dad realized he was in the wrong. He apologized to his wife and daughters, and even shared the post with his little brother, who had experienced similar treatment as a child. Determined to make amends, the dad plans to talk to his son and let him choose an activity they can do together, ensuring that he won’t repeat the mistakes of his grandfather. It’s a heartwarming tale of growth and understanding, proving that it’s never too late to learn and change.
Commenter calls out OP’s misogynistic expectations for son and daughter. YTA.

Father refuses to support daughter’s interest in weightlifting. YTA
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OP’s gender biases cause family drama, YTA. Replies urge acceptance.

“Your son should be developing a more masculine personality”? YTA

Commenter calls out OP for sexist parenting, receives apology.

Dad’s ‘masculine’ interest bias sparks family drama. YTA called out.

Dad criticized for favoritism towards son. YTA according to comment.

Daughter calls out dad’s misogyny, encourages gender-neutral activities

Engaging in gender stereotypes? YTA. Cooking is a necessary skill.

Commenter calls out parental misogyny in a fiery reply

Father’s gender-based praise enforces harmful stereotypes. YTA.

User calls out OP for misogyny, edit praised

Parent takes advice and plans to find activities for all children

Father’s favoritism sparks criticism and family tension

Father’s sexist beliefs cause family drama, but he’s seeking help

Commenter praises OP for self-reflection and encourages teaching strength equally

Father’s gender bias and lack of effort criticized by commenter.

Commenter calls out OP’s toxic gender stereotypes and parenting style.

Redemption and healing through therapy and self-reflection.

Daughter calls out dad’s misogyny, mama’s raising good kids

NAH, but OP should show enthusiasm for daughter’s interests too
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Stop wishing your children would conform to gender stereotypes. YTA

OP called out for gender bias, plans to make amends

Encouraging equal support for all children regardless of gender.
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Commenter calls out misogynistic behavior with angry face emoji

Encourage kids to follow their interests! YTA for gender bias

Commenter calls out OP for gender stereotypes and being TA, OP acknowledges mistake and plans to improve relationship with daughter too

Cooking is masculine and feminine. Give props to your son. Cherish your daughter’s inquisitive mind.

Parenting gender stereotypes challenged, apology pending for son, TA judgement.

OP’s edit surprises and impresses commenters.

Commenter calls out dad for misogyny and parenting pressure.

Commenter calls out dad’s favoritism towards son over daughter. YTA.

Commenter calls out dad for gender bias in praising children.

Commenter calls out father’s gender stereotypes and encourages bonding activities

Commenter calls out parent, but receives a rebuttal.

Commenter calls out father’s misogyny, receives support from reply.

Positive comment and reply, encouraging growth and family values

From judgement to heartwarming, a great example of personal growth

Redditor’s self-reflection and humility praised by fellow user

Commenter praises OP for accepting criticism and modeling good parenting

A heartwarming comment that restores faith in humanity ❤️

Let kids enjoy their things in peace
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Gender bias in parenting? YTA for praising son differently.

Redditor praises OP for taking feedback and changing behavior

Parent takes advice and shows willingness to understand both children

Commenter calls out OP for not listening to family.

Commenter praises OP for personal growth after admitting fault

Heartwarming comment on recognizing and correcting past mistakes ❤
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Commenter sarcastically suggests son is destined for greatness, YTA.

Heartwarming comment applauds dad’s willingness to change parenting style

Redeeming comment with helpful suggestions and positive outlook
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Commenter burns OP with hilarious 1950s comeback

Heartfelt gratitude for a great edit ❤️

Commenter calls out OP for outdated parenting, sparks agreement

Misogynistic comment sparks backlash from Redditors

Makeup for boys? YTA comment sparks heated debate

Commenter calls out misogynistic behavior, labels OP YTA
