Imagine having to choose between your two daughters’ weddings. That’s the gut-wrenching decision one father is facing after his youngest daughter, Carly, announced her engagement. The problem? His eldest daughter, Anna, always dreamed of being the first to get married and have her dad walk her down the aisle. Now, Anna is threatening to cut off all contact with her family if her father goes ahead with giving Carly away. What’s a dad to do? ♂️
Sisters Drift Apart

Carly’s Success, Anna’s Resentment

Sibling Rivalry Intensifies

No Reconciliation in Sight

Anna’s Struggles

Carly’s Engagement

Dad’s Dilemma

Anna’s Ultimatum

Considering Alex’s Well-being

Dad’s Heartbreaking Decision

Breaking the News to Carly

Carly’s Response

Caught in a Wedding War: Who’s the Real Victim?
This father is stuck in the middle of a wedding war between his two daughters, with Anna demanding he refuse to walk Carly down the aisle or have a father/daughter dance at her wedding. Caught between a rock and a hard place, he’s trying to prioritize the well-being of his grandson, Alex. But is he being fair to Carly? Or is he letting Anna’s jealousy control the situation? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this heartrending dilemma…
Don’t reward bad behavior, YTA. Call Anna’s bluff.

YTA for being complicit in your oldest daughter’s abuse towards Carly

Commenter calls out father’s unfair treatment of daughters. YTA confirmed.

Setting boundaries with children is important. YTA for not doing so.

Daughter’s entitlement causes family rift. YTA for enabling her behavior. ♂️

Daughter’s laughter hints at lifelong pattern of favoritism. YTA.

Commenter calls out OP’s daughter for unrealistic expectations. Replies agree.
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Commenter calls out father for playing favorites, sparks agreement.

Daughter manipulates father into choosing her wedding over sister’s

Commenter calls out dad for enabling toxic sibling rivalry.

Daughter calls out father’s unfair decision.

Carly sets a reasonable boundary after years of being second place. YTA.

Commenter calls out OP for playing into Anna’s manipulation tactics

Commenter calls out YTA for giving in to extortionist daughter

Wedding drama leaves one daughter out. ESH except for Carly.

Parental favoritism leads to family drama.
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Father’s decision causes rift with daughter. Yikes
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Commenter calls out favoritism and predicts consequences for dad.

Commenter calls out dad for favoring one daughter over another

Daughter’s jealousy pits sisters against each other. YTA, says commenter.
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Daughter accuses father of favoritism, sibling rivalry ensues

Don’t let Anna hold you hostage. Apologize to Carly

Sibling rivalry takes a nasty turn.

Commenter calls out dad for destroying relationship with daughter.

Commenter calls out family dynamics and demands apologies.
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Daughter uninvites dad to wedding, gets called out for behavior

Daughters’ weddings dilemma: Rewarding the AH daughter and hurting Carly. YTA

Sibling rivalry and parental favoritism, who’s at fault?
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Commenter calls out YTA for favoritism in wedding planning.

Father caught in the middle of daughters’ weddings, enabling toxic behavior. ♂️

Commenter advises dad to put his foot down and not let Anna control him.

Commenter calls out favoritism towards entitled daughter in wedding drama

Commenter suggests calling out daughter’s behavior, harsh but fair.

Choosing between daughters’ weddings: YTA, tough spot, family drama

Father faces tough choice, but did he make the right one?

Commenter calls out dad for letting oldest daughter bully him.

Parental favoritism causes wedding strife

Father prioritizes grandchild over younger daughter’s wedding. ♂️
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Commenter calls out toxic behavior in wedding dispute.

Commenter calls out dad for favoring Anna’s wedding.

Commenter calls out dad for lack of spine and balls

Commenter calls out dad’s favoritism, hopes for Carly’s happiness

YTA dad faces backlash for giving in to Anna’s tantrums

Daughter’s wedding dilemma leads to family feud. YTA gets called out.

Commenter calls out OP with a humorous political reference.
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Playing favorites with kids? Yikes!

Toxic comment and replies attacking the daughters and their weddings

Don’t let Anna’s tantrum ruin your relationship with Carly.

Father forced to choose between daughters’ weddings, comment calls out enabling behavior and emotional blackmailing by one daughter.

Father’s favoritism causes family feud over daughters’ weddings.

Father’s favoritism causes family feud

YTA dad caught in emotional manipulation between daughters’ weddings.

Choosing favorites between daughters? YTA according to comment.

Daughter’s wedding drama: ESH except bride.

Commenter suggests therapy for daughter and compromise for dad.

Choose Carly’s wedding or lose her forever. Don’t be TA

Father’s indecisiveness causes conflict between daughters. YTA.
