Imagine being a father, caught in the crossfire of your daughters’ rivalry, and the battlefield is a wedding aisle. Meet our protagonist, a loving dad of two daughters, Anna and Carly, who once shared a strong bond but now are estranged due to life’s cruel twists and turns. Their rivalry reaches a boiling point when Carly, the younger daughter, announces her wedding and asks her dad to walk her down the aisle. But Anna, the elder daughter, feels it’s her right to be the first one to be given away by their dad. What’s a father to do? Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster.
Sisters Turned Strangers ➡️

The College Conflict

The Silent Treatment

Anna’s Struggles

Carly’s Comfortable Life

Wedding Bells for Carly

Anna’s Breakdown

Anna’s Ultimatum

The Heartbreaking Decision

Carly’s Response

Caught Between Love and Duty: A Father’s Dilemma
In this heart-wrenching tale of sibling rivalry, a father is torn between his love for his daughters and his duty as a parent. When the younger daughter, Carly, announces her wedding and asks her dad to walk her down the aisle, it sparks a family feud with the elder daughter, Anna. Anna feels it’s her right to be the first one to be given away by their dad. She even threatens to cut off all contact with her son, the father’s only grandchild, if he doesn’t comply. The father, caught in the middle, tries to mediate, but his efforts only lead to Carly disinviting him from her wedding. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
YTA. Choosing one daughter over the other? Carly deserves better

“YTA – Holy sh*t, you’ve failed both daughters. Carly deserves better. “

“YTA 100% “Neither of them has ever asked me to choose between them” well Anna just asked and you gave into her immediately. You just chose your overly jealous daughter over what… the one that was more successful? Carly is being punished because she was better in school, more social, etc? How is that fair? And using your reasoning as Carly will never give you grandchildren, is that the price of love to you?
It sounds like Anna has been throwing herself a pity party because she doesn’t want to come to terms with the fact that she is different than her sister, not worse or better, but different and you just validated her not coming to terms with that. I’m glad Carly uninvited you from the wedding, who treats their daughter like that and still expects to be in their life?”
Reply: “Yep. He already chose between them. Repeatedly from the way it sounds. YTA.”
YTA. Set boundaries and now face consequences.

“YTA. Enabling Anna’s bad attitude has consequences for your family.”

YTA. Laughing at your response shows long-standing favoritism and manipulation.

YTA, but Anna’s unrealistic expectations are breaking your family apart
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“YTA for kowtowing to the unreasonable daughter here. Your place is to be supporting and loving to both children despite the sibling rivalry and you are refusing to engage in traditional fatherly things with one daughter to appease the other, not cool. The fact that Anna has a child or doesn’t should not affect your equal treatment of both children. Her holding a grandchild hostage says everything about her, not you.”

Dad caught in daughter drama, manipulated by one and spited by another

“YTA – definitely the a**hole. Shame on you seriously “

Dad’s punishment for daughter’s success? ♂️

Carly has had enough of this behavior, and it’s understandable

“YTA. Anna used her kid as leverage and you took the bait. Now Carly knows where she falls in your family. I’m sorry Anna’s life isn’t what she thought it would be but, you’ve given her a tool to have leverage over her sister.”

YTA. Anna is a psychotic extortionist. Brace for more drama!

Drama-filled wedding with poor Carly caught in the middle.

YTA: Punishing Carly for Anna’s problems? Time to apologize.
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“YTA. Carly is done with you. Huge weight off.”
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Cutting contact with Anna? Favoring one daughter over the other? ESH!

YTA expects Carly to understand being shafted by Anna for money

YTA. Anna’s jealousy is holding your grandchild hostage
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Dad’s dilemma: YTA Anna vs. Carly. Who will he choose?

“YTA. Anna gave you an ultimatum and you chose her. “

“YTA for enabling Anna’s petty jealousy. Ruining Carly’s moments “

YTA for favoring Ann over Carly, causing a damaged relationship

OP uninvites dad to wedding, sparks family drama. ♀️

“YTA. Stop expecting Carly to ‘compromise’ just because it’s easier.”
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Rewarding AH daughter, hurting good one. Carly walks away. YTA.

Carly’s not to blame! Age shouldn’t determine responsibility.
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YTA and you know it. Anna can’t afford to cut you off!

Dad caught in daughter drama, but who’s really to blame?

YTA, Anna needs you and Alex. Don’t let her control you.

YTA – Enabling Anna’s bad attitude has consequences

Stop enabling Anna, let her learn to be independent

Dad’s tough choice: Daughter vs daughter.

Choosing one kid over the other? YTA, drama ensues!

Don’t let your oldest control you! Stand up for fairness!

“YTA. Picking favorites? That’s a big no-no in parenting “

“YTA. Sorry I can’t walk you down the aisle…”
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Dad caught in daughter drama, YTA and bratty Anna!

YTA for taking Anna’s side. Reality check: younger siblings marry first

YTA: Stand up for yourself and help your daughter Anna

Dad’s wedding walk mishap leaves daughter furious. Good luck, YTA!

YTA for using your children as pawns in your fights

YTA- Punishing Carly due to Anna’s tantrums?

Don’t let Anna’s pettiness ruin your relationship with Carly!

YTA. No negotiation with terrorists
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“YTA. If you’re forced to pick one daughter, you’re wrong.”

Wedding drama: YTA vs. Anna, who deserves the invite?

Playing favorites? YTA!

“YTA. Letting Anna use her child as a pawn “

Dude, YTA in this situation . You messed up big time!

Daughter’s wedding drama escalates with selfish demands. ESH (except bride).

YTA let jealousy ruin your daughter’s wedding. Carly’s reaction justified.

“YTA. Anna is acting selfish. Don’t let her ruin things. “

YTA! Dad caught in daughter drama over wedding walk

Enabling alienation? YTA for making your daughter’s milestone conditional.

Dad’s caught between daughter drama and wedding planning
