We all know parenting can be tough, especially when it comes to teaching our kids about the consequences of their actions. One dad found himself in a difficult situation when he discovered his 13-year-old son was using a video game to bully younger kids. The game in question? Animal Crossing, a wholesome and collaborative game meant for players to build and create together. But instead of fostering friendships, this dad’s son and his friends used the game to harass a 9-year-old, leaving the dad with no choice but to confront his son about his behavior.
Birthday Present Gone Wrong

A Disturbing Discovery

The Bullying Incident

Inappropriate Actions

The Victim: A Young Child

Confronting the Son

Dad’s Harsh Words

Son’s Reaction

Husband’s Opinion

Dad’s Plan of Action

Clarifying His Words

Discord Access Limited

Family Discussion

Final Update

Family Confronts Bullying Behavior
After discovering their son’s online bullying, this dad and his husband sat down to discuss the situation and how to approach their son’s behavior. They agreed to limit his video game time and access to Discord until he understands why his actions were wrong. Together, they talked to their son, who was more receptive this time, and they’re working on having him apologize to the young victim. It’s a valuable lesson for the family, as they navigate the challenges of parenting in the digital age. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Revoking his online access can teach him to be respectful


Teaching empathy to a bully: calling him a loser works

Teaching a firm lesson to a bully. NTA

NTA for calling out son’s bullying in slow-paced game
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Online bullying is not okay, even in video games. NTA.



Inappropriate images online? A talk is in order

NTA. Heartbreaking to see a sweet game ruined by bullying

NTA. Calling your son a ‘loser’ may not be ideal, but it gets the point across. Replies clarify son’s age and victim’s age.

Teaching the ‘asshole gene’ lesson to a stubborn pitty

Dad’s tough love helps son realize the impact of bullying

Teaching a bully a lesson

Commenter defends father’s discipline, shares personal experience with name-calling.

Parent seeks advice on son’s bullying behavior online. NTA.

Support for anti-bullying stance with a touch of humor

Standing up against bullying is always the right thing

Parenting done right Teach them young to be kind

12-year-old called a ‘loser’ for bullying on Animal Crossing game.

Discord chatroom used to bully kids, disturbing online behavior

Parenting advice: Confiscate or delete his online subscription?

Teaching empathy: Dad’s tough love after son’s online bullying

Is ARK a game for bullies?

Commenter suggests punishment for son’s online bullying behavior.

Teaching empathy and consequences to prevent online bullying

Taking away his Switch might teach him to be kind
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Gamer offers to help bullied kid after supporting NTA dad.

Parenting done right! Tough love is necessary sometimes

Commenter advocates for tough love in dealing with bullying children.

Protecting kids online: calling out bad behavior
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Insightful comment about possible root cause of son’s behavior.

Parenting win: Teaching love for person, hate for behavior ❤

Commenter praises dad for calling out son’s bad behavior.

Parenting advice: refrain from name-calling, apologize, and teach empathy

NTA. Animal Crossing is about collecting and decorating, not bullying.

Online bullying causes real emotional harm to children

Teaching consequences for bullying with kid language

Protecting the Animal Crossing community: A good dad’s response

Kind-hearted gamer offers to help bullied kid rebuild virtual world

Commenter defends NTA’s gaming context with helpful insight

Dad teaches son a lesson for cyberbullying

NTA defends son for not bullying online, compares to sandcastle incident

Support for standing up against online bullying. Spouse not supportive.

Parenting done right! Teaching empathy without name-calling
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Teaching empathy through Animal Crossing consequences

Dad called his son a ‘loser’ for bullying online. NTA, but with context.

Standing up against online bullying. Good job, OP!

16-year-old brother agrees, OP is NTA for handling appropriately

Teachable moment for a bullying ‘loser’ thanks to dad

Stop toxic gaming behavior in kids before it’s too late!

Support for NTA parent taking action against cyberbullying

Parent praised for handling child’s bullying behavior. NTA

NTA defends daughter’s Animal Crossing island from bullies

Agreeing with NTA and condemning online bullying

Protecting virtual achievements is serious business, NTA wins.
