Coming out to your family can be a nerve-wracking experience, especially when you’re unsure of their reaction. A young woman (22) recently found herself in this situation when her father (52) accidentally discovered her secret. Expecting some level of support, she was instead met with harsh words and a heartbreaking reaction.
Caught Red-Handed on Tinder
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No Denying the Truth ️
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Dad’s Outburst
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No Chance to Explain
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Past Homophobic Comments
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Seeking Refuge with a Friend
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Dad’s Apology
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To Talk or Not to Talk
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Edit: Grateful for Support
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Considering a Conversation
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A Second Chance? ️
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A Tearful Coming Out Story
This young woman’s coming out story took an unexpected turn when her father’s reaction was far from supportive. After being called a ‘waste of space,’ she’s now left to decide whether to give her dad a chance to explain himself or to cut ties completely. As she contemplates her next move, she’s grateful for the support and advice she’s received. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this emotional situation…
NTA. Take your time. No rush. Self-care first.

NTA but give him time to change and apologize

Take control of your own happiness. You’re not the a**hole.

“NTA. Wait until you’re ready.” – Supportive advice for coming out

Pastor’s advice on coming out: research, questions, and essentials.

Empowered and in control: Take your time, he messed up!

NTA: Take your time, consider giving him another chance

NTA, take your time. You’re loved and valued, stay strong

NTA. Dad needs time to reflect and understand the consequences

NTA. Dad’s homophobic insult was intentional. You’re not obligated to reconcile.

Give him a chance, he might prove himself worthy!

NTA. Dad must acknowledge his hurtful words and apologize sincerely.
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Parent’s hurtful words reveal their true character. Choose your family ❤️

Supportive comment defends daughter against homophobic dad

Believe him, reach out to someone you trust. NTA
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Cut toxic ties, prioritize mental health. You owe him nothing. NTA

NTA. Suggest talking to him. It may take time for him to fully accept you

Cutting off dad for being homophobic – NTA, your friends agree!

NTA: Dad’s reaching out shows potential for growth and change

NTA. Dad needs to apologize and work on rebuilding relationship

NTA: You don’t owe him anything. Seek understanding and support

Supportive comment suggests giving dad a chance to change

NTA. Take time to process. Dad needs to understand and grow

Engaging comment suggests giving dad a chance to explain
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Coming out is scary, but don’t let bigotry define you.
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NTA… but dad’s initial reaction was hurtful. Conversation can help

Engaging and hopeful comment about reconciling with homophobic father ❤️

Supportive LGBTQ+ commenter empathizes with OP’s homophobic father situation

NTA. Dad needs to make amends for hurtful comments about being gay

Last Updated on February 9, 2024 by Diply Social Team