Coworker Crosses the Line: Asking Personal Questions About Paraplegic Husband

Picture this: your husband is paraplegic, and you’re attending a work event together. Everything seems to be going well, until a nosy coworker starts bombarding your husband with intrusive questions. But wait, it gets worse! This coworker then crosses the line and asks about your sex life. What would you do? Well, one woman found herself in this exact situation, and she’s wondering if she was in the wrong for calling her coworker a creep. Let’s dive into the story…

The Paraplegic Husband

Inquisitive Minds at Work

BBQ & Wheelchairs ♿

Enter the Nosy Newbie ️

The First Meeting

Question Time ⏱️

Endless Curiosity

Back to the Questions

Crossing the Line

Sensitive Topic

Defending Vincent

Angry Accusations

Grateful Husband

The Verdict?

Nosy Coworker Gets Personal

Our storyteller’s husband, Vincent, is paraplegic and uses a wheelchair. They attended a work event together, where they met Miles, the new receptionist. Miles bombarded Vincent with questions about his condition, making everyone uncomfortable. Despite attempts to change the subject, Miles persisted, eventually asking about their sex life. Our storyteller called him a creep, causing Miles to get upset. Vincent was grateful, but a coworker thought she was too harsh. Was she right to call him out, or did she go too far? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

Respectful boundaries at work, NTA shuts down inappropriate question.

Asking about someone’s sex life is always inappropriate at work

Calling him a creep was probably the most polite

Report the coworker for intrusive personal questions. NTA.

Defending your spouse never makes you the a**hole

NTA. Handling inappropriate coworkers with grace

Respect privacy, not everyone owes you answers. Find other resources

Defending disabled spouse from nosy coworker: NTA wins.

Office nosiness crosses the line, NTA for firm smackdown

Standing up for personal boundaries and common sense

Talking to HR is important. Don’t let coworkers cross boundaries

Standing up against inappropriate questions about personal life ‍♀️

NTA, report both to HR: Miles for being creepy, coworker for defending

NTA shuts down nosy coworker with paraplegic husband question

Heartwarming support for a great partner and sweet love story ❤️

Asking personal questions without consent is always inappropriate

Standing up to rude coworkers and personal boundaries

Setting boundaries at work NTA shuts down nosy coworker

Sexual harassment at work? Definitely not okay

Shutting down a creepy coworker’s rude questions like a boss

Setting boundaries with coworkers is important. NTA for enforcing them.

Respect boundaries: don’t ask about someone’s sex life

Standing up for boundaries and protecting loved ones from invasive questions

Hold him accountable! NTA.

Sassy reply shuts down intrusive coworker’s personal questions.

Firm stance against invasive personal questions at workplace.

Setting boundaries with creepy coworkers

Defending partner’s insecurities at work, NTA wins

Personal boundaries respected, Miles told to f**k off

Calling out creepy coworker is fully justified

Coworker’s inappropriate behavior at work event. NTA for feeling uncomfortable.

Coworker crosses the line, and a commenter calls out bad intentions

Setting boundaries with coworkers about personal topics. NTA wins.

Coworker’s invasive questions about paraplegic husband cross the line

Setting boundaries at work. Personal life is off-limits!

Coworker’s insensitive behavior towards disabled husband called out. NTA.

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for enforcing them

Respect boundaries at work functions. NTA shuts down intrusive behavior.

NTA calls out sexual harassment and suggests revenge tactic

Coworker’s invasive questioning about personal life is inappropriate in workplace. NTA

Respect boundaries when meeting new people.

Setting boundaries with inappropriate coworkers at the workplace

Creepy coworker crossed a line, OP not in the wrong

Sassy response shuts down coworker’s inappropriate questioning

Boundaries 101: Asking about sex life on first meeting? NTA

Report it to HR: Miles is WAY outta pocket.

Asking about a coworker’s sex life? Creepy and inappropriate

Perfect handling of creepy coworker

Inappropriate questions about disabilities are gross and biased. NTA.

Standing up for personal boundaries, well done!

Setting boundaries with coworkers

Coworker crosses the line by asking personal questions about OP’s husband. NTA.

Fierce response to inappropriate questions about husband’s disability.

Coworker’s intrusive questions about sex life are unacceptable. #NTA

Coworker’s inappropriate questions shut down at barbecue

Creepy coworker crosses the line, NTA for reporting him

Setting boundaries: Shutting down inappropriate questions with NTA comment.