Imagine opening your home to a family member in need, only to have them disrespect your household and make unwanted advances towards another family member. This is the reality for one woman who, along with her husband, welcomed her cousin into their home during a financial crisis. The cousin’s behavior, however, would soon lead to a dramatic showdown.
A Cousin in Need
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The Unfair Living Arrangement
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The Uncomfortable Atmosphere
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A Shocking Revelation
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A Secret Unveiled
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A Furious Showdown
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The Aftermath ️
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A Final Standoff
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A Family Torn Apart: Who’s the Real Villain?
In a whirlwind of family drama, one woman finds herself at the center of a moral dilemma. After opening her home to her jobless cousin, she soon discovers her cousin’s inappropriate advances towards her brother-in-law, who is secretly gay. The situation escalates, leading to a heated confrontation and the cousin’s eviction. The fallout? Accusations of heartlessness from her aunt and a family left in turmoil. But who’s really to blame here? Let’s dive into the internet’s top responses to this family feud…
“NTA – Sexual harassment shouldn’t be tolerated. She took advantage.”

“NTA. Actions have consequences.” Underrated lesson for parents everywhere!

NTA. Freeloading cousin sexually harasses BiL, gets kicked out without notice.

Complicated situation with a leeching cousin and questionable decision-making.

Generous OP stands up to entitled cousin and meddling aunt.

“NTA, your cousin sounds entitled AF. Maybe this will teach her some valuable life lessons on consent.”

Rapey behavior is never acceptable. NTA

NTA! Cousin sexually harassed BIL, justified in kicking her out.

NTA: Gender reversal and potential infidelity make for explosive drama!

NTA. Cousin takes advantage of free living, pursues rejected advances. ♂️

NTA: Aunt blames you for everything? That’s ridiculous!
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NTA. Standing up against sexual harassment and assault.

Comment section needs paragraph breaks. It’s hard to read.

Aunt manipulates OP into housing lazy cousin. Drama ensues.

Not the a**hole. Drama ensues over cousin’s advances.

Supportive comment: You’re not the AH! Stand up for yourself!

Stand your ground! Don’t let others dictate your boundaries.

NTA: Cousin’s unwanted advances ignite drama. Who’s to blame?

NTA stands up against cousin’s unwanted advances and laziness.

Commenter calls out OP for not fully supporting BIL.

Cousin’s harassment sparks drama: Blame game ensues. NTA wins.

Supportive comment: Standing up against sexual harassment. NTA

Generous host calls out entitled cousin for freeloading. NTA

Blaming husband for cousin’s advances? ESH, but kicking her out NTA!

Supporting her a*s, BIL issue: NTA, cousin needs to grow up

Grant for housing after sexual harassment incident? NTA!

“NTA – Cousin’s harassment of BIL creates unsafe situation. No obligation.”

NTA: Cousin’s advances rejected, drama ensues. She had to go!

Fierce support against cousin’s sexual harassment. NTA
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NTA. Laziness and harassment? Time to learn via life school.

‘Boys will be boys’ excuse? NTA for standing up!

NTA: Cousin’s harassment sparks drama; husband’s actions justified.

NTA for kicking out cousin for sexual harassment. But communication issues?

Generous gesture or unnecessary expense? The Airbnb dilemma

YTA vs NTA: A Clash of Perspectives

Cousin’s mooching and unwanted advances: NTA for kicking her out!

Unemployed cousin overstays welcome, sparks drama. NTA wins!

NTA: Handled the situation well, paid for AirBNB, no blame.

NTA. Cousin’s actions led to deserved consequences.

Aunt’s hypocrisy exposed! NTA’s revenge would be epic!

Cousin’s job search turns into sexual harassment drama. NTA!

NTA: Cousin’s unwanted advances spark drama. Double standards and responsibility.

No a**hole here. Drama unfolds over unwanted advances.

Aunt’s unwanted advances lead to eviction. NTA takes action!

Cousin’s inappropriate advances spark drama. Job search needed!

NTA: Unemployed cousin causes drama, but who’s really to blame?

Cousin’s advances rejected, drama ensues. NTA stands firm.

Generous and patient OP finally sets boundaries with entitled cousin.

Aunt downplays sexual harassment, cousin crosses boundaries. Cut ties?

Unwanted advances: NTA stands up against gender double standards.

NTA: No drama here, just a clear-cut case of innocence.

NTA, you paid rent. Lesson learned. Life’s tough, find new cousins.

Generous OP avoids pressing charges, but should she reconsider?

Cousin takes advantage of hospitality, crosses boundaries, and needs to go.

Lecherous housemates are plain wrong. NTA.

NTA stands up against unwanted advances, but faces backlash.

NTA. Cousin’s unwanted advances = sexual assault. Double standards s**k.

Sexual harassment: NTA for kicking out cousin, double standards discussed.

“Gender double standards and free living: NTA for setting boundaries!”

NTA. She crossed the line from creepy to criminal.

“Stop facilitating your cousin and stop paying for her.”

Supporting your spouse’s decisions is key for a harmonious household

Gender reversal highlights the seriousness of sexual harassment.

ESH except your husband and his brother. Stand up!

“NTA – Don’t hide behind your husband’s back. Take a stand! “

NTA for calling out cousin, but YTA for blaming husband.

NTA. Cousin’s unwanted advances caused household drama. Responsibility imbalance addressed.

NTA defends against accusations of childishness, highlights sexual harassment

Taking in freeloaders? NTA! Good riddance to bad rubbish.

Don’t enable bad behavior! Stand up against sexual harassment!

NTA – Free rent and harassment: a toxic living situation.

Empathy and perspective: NTA comment highlights role reversal
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NTA. Cousin’s unwanted advances crossed the line. She’s responsible.

Unwanted advances spark drama. Should she leave?

Cousin’s unwanted advances turn into a messy and heartbreaking situation
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Prioritizing fairness and evaluating personal image in difficult situations.
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NTA cousin’s fault, aunt an a**hole for pushing responsibility onto you!

Last Updated on July 25, 2023 by Diply Social Team