Weddings are supposed to be a time of love and celebration, but sometimes they can lead to unexpected family drama. One woman (26f) found herself in the middle of a family feud after she didn’t attend her cousin’s wedding because her invite was sent to her estranged parents’ house. Now, she’s left wondering if she’s in the wrong for not going to the wedding, especially since her entire family is ignoring her. Let’s dive into the story…
The Wedding Dilemma ♀️

Unexpected Message

The Invite Mix-Up

Estranged and Uninformed

Taking a Stand ♀️

The Unofficial Invite

Silent Treatment

Family Fallout

Update: Reaching Out ✉️

Addressing the Estrangement

A Message of Strength

The Verdict: Stubborn or Justified?
So, was our protagonist in the wrong for not attending her cousin’s wedding due to the invite mix-up? While some of her friends understand her decision, others think she’s being stubborn. The family drama has escalated to the point where her entire family is ignoring her. She’s now decided to reach out to her cousin Kyle and wish him well on his marriage. As for the estrangement from her parents, she stands firm in her decision to stop the abuse. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Not the a**hole for missing wedding due to invite drama

Family drama and missed weddings

Sister’s invite drama leads to missed wedding. NTA.

Cousin’s half-hearted invite leads to missed wedding. NTA.

Wedding invite drama leads to missed family events

Setting boundaries and missed invites cause family drama.

Polite decision not to attend cousin’s wedding. NTA

Cousin’s wedding invite drama leads to missed wedding. NTA.

Invitation drama leads to family estrangement. NTA stands firm.

NTA suggests simple solution to invite drama

NTA, family could have easily asked for address via text

Family drama causes cousin to miss wedding, NTA for not attending

Cousin sends invite to estranged parents’ house, misses wedding drama

Weddings don’t heal all estranged relationships. Invite drama explained

Cousin’s lack of effort warrants no attendance or gift.

Wedding invite drama leads to family tension. NTA suggests olive branch.

Respecting priorities: NTA for not expecting an invite

Adult cousin not invited to wedding, NTA for not attending/gifting.

Uninvited cousin drama, power move or honest mistake?

Family drama, missed wedding, and a deserved apology.

Standing up for oneself and setting boundaries.

NTA stands up for themselves in wedding invite drama

Wedding invite drama leads to NTA verdict. No drama here
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Invitation sent to parent’s house, NTA for cousin’s absence

Wedding invite drama leads to clear NTA verdict

Cousin’s wedding invite drama causes embarrassment

Estranged cousin skips wedding, not at fault ♀️

NTA stands up for themselves in wedding invite drama

Wedding invite drama and family politics

Cousin’s rude invitation move and sister’s ghosting is messed up. NTA

Hosts should track down guest addresses, NTA suggests champagne celebration

Insightful comment on potential ulterior motives for wedding invite drama

Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself.

No invite, no problem. NTA for missing the wedding

No invite, no attendance. NTA made the right call.

Set boundaries with family for a drama-free wedding

No invite, no attendance. NTA. ♀️

Missed wedding due to invite drama, commenter suggests addressing it politely

NAH for not attending wedding due to invite drama. Benefit of doubt given.

Skipping the wedding was the right call. NTA

Sending wedding invites can be a tricky business

No invite, no attendance. NTA.

NTA. Lack of invitation means no obligation to attend.

Missed wedding due to invite drama – NTA, they should’ve invited you

Wedding invite drama leads to justified no-show

Standing up to abusive family members.

Sending invites to estranged family members is a power move

Bride and groom should have found invitee’s address. NTA.

Skipping a wedding over invite drama? NTA, says commenter.

Family drama and estrangement over wedding invitation mishap.
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Don’t assume you’re invited to a wedding. It’s tacky and rude.

Wedding invite drama over spelling leads to no-show. NTA.

Bride’s mom put commenter’s name on parents’ invite without permission

NTA. The cousin could have easily asked for your address

NTA, apologize & send congrats to cousin. Maybe gift too

Wedding invite drama: NTA cousin misses wedding due to misunderstanding.

Family drama leads to missed wedding, but NTA.

Not the a**hole for missing the wedding due to invite drama
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NAH verdict given with empathy and understanding

Wedding invite drama resolved with NTA verdict.

Wedding invite drama leads to justified no-show.

Adults are separate from parents. NTA for missing wedding.

Setting boundaries is hard but can improve your life

Wedding invite drama: NTA, adults need direct invitations

Address mix-up causes wedding invite drama, commenter says NTA

Cousin’s lack of communication leads to missed wedding

Invitation drama leads to cousin missing wedding. NTA stands firm.
