When a couple tragically lost their 11-year-old son, Ryan, they were left with a significant college fund that he never got the chance to use. Fast forward to today, they’re considering having another child and have been safeguarding the fund for potential future baby expenses or another college fund. However, a casual family gathering took an unexpected turn when the couple’s sister proposed a controversial idea. She suggested that her son, Steven, who is about to graduate high school and is unsure of his future, should be given Ryan’s untouched college fund. Let’s delve into the emotional rollercoaster that ensued.
The Unused College Fund

A New Beginning on the Horizon

Nephew’s College Dilemma

The Controversial Proposal

The Couple’s Decision

Sister’s Reaction

The Argument Escalates

The Final Word

Aftermath of the Argument

The Lingering Guilt

A Family Torn Apart: Money, Guilt, and the Future
A couple, still healing from the loss of their son, finds themselves at the center of a family controversy. Their decision to safeguard their late son’s college fund for a potential future child has sparked a heated argument with the sister who believes her son should benefit from the fund. The sister’s harsh words and accusations of selfishness have left the couple questioning their choices. The couple loves their nephew and wants him to succeed, but they also want to honor their late son’s legacy. This emotionally charged situation has drawn a line in the sand, leaving the internet to ponder: Who’s right in this complex family dilemma?
NTA. Sister demands money from deceased nephew’s college fund. Entitled!
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NTA. Entitled sister demands dead child’s college fund. Outrageous and hurtful.

NTA: Sister’s cold-heartedness and guilt-tripping over college fund controversy

NTA asks about repayment, sister’s reaction crosses the line.

Sibling rivalry escalates! College fund controversy sparks outrage.

NTA. Don’t give away your college fund. Your sister’s entitlement is beyond belief.

Stand firm on your decision and prioritize your own family ❤️

NTA: Your money, your choice. Sister had 18 years to save.

NTA: No responsibility for her child’s college fund. Bold request.

Taking a break from this sub! NTA for needing it!

Heartbreaking loss, entitled family, and vile toxicity. Stay strong

NTA. No entitlement here. What is she smoking?

Sibling rivalry over college fund: NTA, but is she?

Encourage Steven to join the military for his education! NTA!
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NTA. Sister’s entitlement and greed is beyond distasteful

Heartbreaking miscarriage leads to family greed and hurtful comments

Heartbreaking loss, sister’s greed adds insult to injury

NTA: Sister’s audacious request sparks controversy and selfishness.

Sibling rivalry over college fund turns into a heartfelt tribute ❤️

Heartbreaking loss sparks controversy and family tension.

NTA. Your money, your sister’s entitlement, and heartfelt condolences.

NTA: This commenter wants to give a reality check

Sister oversteps boundaries, entitlement needs to stop. NTA.

Entitled commenter defends couple’s controversial college fund request. NTA

NTA. Balancing retirement and helping your nephew’s education
