College Student’s Babysitting Dilemma: Summer Break or Family Duty?

Imagine being a full-time college student, working full time at an elementary school, and then becoming the default babysitter for your family’s children. Now, imagine doing all this without a break for a year. Sounds overwhelming, right? This is the reality for one student who’s been juggling studies, work, and unruly nieces and nephews during the pandemic. As summer approaches, she’s on the brink of a decision that could cause a family rift.

The Juggling Act

Lockdown Babysitter

The Breaking Point

The Summer Plan

The Overwhelming Task

The Unpaid Tutor

The Nonexistent Payment

The Exhaustion

The Confrontation

The Empty Promise

The Aftermath

The Relief

The Babysitter’s Rebellion: A Summer Saga

This college student’s tale of juggling studies, work, and babysitting unruly nieces and nephews has sparked a heated debate. The student, who became the default babysitter during the lockdown, is now seeking a well-deserved break. However, the decision to reclaim her summer has led to a family fallout. With the parents refusing to pay for her services, the student stood her ground, leading to a dramatic confrontation. The question remains: Was she right to prioritize her mental health over family duty? Let’s delve into the internet’s top reactions to this saga…

NTA. Prioritize your health and set boundaries. Expect pushback.

NTA: Set boundaries, give notice, and prioritize self-care

Don’t let guilt trip you! Put yourself first.

Politely decline babysitting without giving a reason.

“NTA

Volunteer to babysit for free, but set boundaries. “

NTA: You deserve time to yourself, not their parenting responsibilities!

NTA: Take a break and let them handle child care!

Stand your ground! You deserve a summer break

Stand up for yourself! Don’t let them take advantage!

Set clear boundaries and payment terms to avoid being taken advantage of.

NTA: Stand your ground against entitled family members.

NTA. Don’t feel bad, prioritize your mental health

NTA: Don’t justify yourself to unreasonable people. Start high in negotiations. ‍♀️

Obvious NTA. No doubt about it.

Politely set boundaries and stick to them. You deserve freedom!

Stand up for yourself and set boundaries. Don’t let them take advantage!

NTA. Set boundaries and enjoy your well-deserved vacation!

Paid job = summer fun + money!

NTA: Set clear boundaries and demand payment upfront.

Demand payment and set boundaries when babysitting family.

NTA: Stand up for yourself and enjoy your summer break!

NTA. Set boundaries and take a break from babysitting.

NTA: Stand up for yourself and set boundaries with family.

Not the a**hole for choosing summer break over family duty!

Not the a**hole for prioritizing personal needs over family duty

Not the a**hole for choosing summer break over family duty!

Stand your ground! NTA, your life, your rules.

NTA: Take care of yourself and enjoy your summer!

NTA. You deserve better treatment for your babysitting efforts!

Not the a**hole for choosing summer break over family duty! ✌️

NTA – Take a break, but brace for family drama.

NTA. They expected you to be a free babysitter?

“NTA. Explain that you’ve helped them, but they need alternatives.”

NTA – You deserve a break! Don’t let them guilt trip you.

Stand up for yourself and set boundaries!

You’re NTA! Stand up for yourself and enjoy your summer!

Babysitting nightmare! NTA for refusing to take on 3-4 kids!

NTA: Time to get back to your own life!

Don’t be a free babysitting service. Take a break!