College Roommate Drama: A Concerned Friend or Crossing the Line?

College life can be full of surprises, especially when it comes to roommates. In this story, a concerned student tried to look out for their roommate’s well-being, but things took an unexpected turn. The two roommates had very different views on discussing reproductive issues, and an attempt to address a potential health concern led to a dramatic fallout.

The Roommate Agreement

A Sensitive Topic

Noticing the Symptoms

Concern Grows

The Conversation Begins ️

A Suggestion Made

The Offer

The Explosive Reaction

Mom Gets Involved

Legal Threats

Feeling Guilty

The Religious Aspect

Taking Action

A Concerned Friend or Crossing Boundaries?

In an attempt to look out for their roommate’s well-being, a college student found themselves in a whirlwind of drama. After noticing their roommate’s discomfort, they tried to address the issue, but ended up facing an explosive response, an angry mom, and even legal threats. With the situation escalating, the student has reached out to their RA and housing administration for help. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation…

Scratching crotch vs suggesting doctor visit? NTA, but be careful.

NTA. Concerned friend urges roommate to see a doctor.

Commenters agree: NTA and accusations are ridiculous

NTA and nothing sexual about a yeast infection.

Honesty is the best policy: NTA for telling the truth

Commenter calls out roommate’s behavior, receives humorous replies.

Engaging euphemisms used to discuss roommate’s medical issue

Don’t cringe, lean into it! NTA.

Reporting to housing administration is the best solution. NTA

Commenter suggests therapy for roommate’s unhealthy attitude towards body

Documenting the drama: NTA’s wise advice

NTA. Inform school officials about roommate’s threatening behavior.

Body shaming or ignorance? A heated debate on anatomy.

Commenter celebrates outcome of roommate drama with sarcastic tone

Misunderstood reference to The Gyno leads to awkward situation

Encouraging concern for a friend’s health and well-being

Setting boundaries: NTA calls out roommate’s crotch scratching

Roommate’s inappropriate behavior leads to NTA and hilarious comment.

Don’t fear the Mormons! Commenter laughs off roommate drama

Roommate’s entitled mother called, but NTA for standing up.

NTA for addressing discomfort with roommate’s extreme religious views

NTA, roommate’s family is weird. Good riddance!

NTA recommends regular gyno visits and crotch checks

Roommate’s double standards exposed ‍♀️

NTA suggests filing sexual harassment complaint for crotch scratching

Religious upbringing and lack of sex ed discussed.

NTA commenter advises tough love for immature roommate.

Report them for intimidation! NTA, don’t let them win.

Avoiding the V word to prevent head explosions

Commenter doubts authenticity of situation, calls out unnecessary disclaimer.

Skeptical comment on legal action for sexual harassment.

Offering basic healthcare advice to roommate deemed NTA by comment.

Friend takes precautions to avoid STI, NTA.

NTA for reporting roommate’s risky behavior to RA and housing.

Maturity and concern for health vs odd behavior and legal action

Christian roommate shamed for discussing gyno appointments. NTA wins.

Awkward roommate situation leads to uncomfortable conversation. NTA.

Standing up for hygiene and health with a touch of humor

No stress, NTA! Not sexual harassment

Defending against false accusations with confusion and disbelief

Dealing with roommate drama with humor

NTA. Helpful friend gets no gratitude. Ungrateful roommate drama

Commenter finds situation humorous, declares not the a-hole.

Concerned friend raises valid health concerns about roommate’s hygiene

Commenter calls out roommate’s behavior as ‘unhinged’ and ‘weird’, supports OP.

Roommate scratching crotch and touching everything? Sexual harassment case?

Commenter defends advising friend to see gynecologist, calls out double standard

Roommate and family are ‘beyond nuts’ according to commenter.

Supportive comment defends against false harassment accusation.

Defending against false accusations with a reddit thread

Being caring is not a crime, NTA wins

Hilarious thread on vagina names in NTA comment section

Cover your bases and reach out to college authorities

Don’t escalate the situation, try to have a calm conversation

No drama here! Commenter is not the a**hole

Friend concerned for health accused of assault over scratching comment

Setting boundaries with a gross roommate’s mom

Standing up for oneself against false accusations of harassment.

Roommate’s hygiene criticized, accused of harassment. NTA wins.

Addressing roommate’s behavior politely is key to peaceful cohabitation.