College Fund Drama: Older Sister’s Dilemma

Picture this: you’re a 19-year-old college student, struggling to pay your own tuition after your mom pulled your college fund. Why? Because you couldn’t promise to pay for your younger sister’s college education. This is the reality for one young woman, who’s now questioning if she’s a bad sister for not being able to guarantee financial support for her sibling’s future education. Let’s dive into her story…

A Rocky Relationship

The College Question

The Uncertain Answer ‍♀️

A Conditional Offer

Mom’s Disapproval

College Fund Pulled

The Struggle is Real

Feeling Guilty

Mom’s Blame Game

Dependent on Grades

Tuition Troubles

Little Sister’s School Situation

Feeling Doubtful

Sisterly Love vs. Financial Reality

So, here’s the deal: our protagonist is a 19-year-old college student, struggling to pay her own tuition after her mom pulled her college fund. The reason? She couldn’t promise to pay for her younger sister’s college education. Now, she’s feeling guilty and questioning if she’s a bad sister for not being able to guarantee financial support for her sibling’s future education. But can we really blame her for being honest about her financial situation? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

Sibling college fund drama. NTA, parents suck. Take care.

Sibling college tuition drama, toxic mother, NTA verdict.

Sibling college fund drama: NTA for not paying sister’s education

Realistic expectations: older sister not obligated to pay for college

Redditors show support for sister whose college fund was taken. NTA

Breaking free from cultural norms and standing up to family

Sister not responsible for mom’s inability to parent

Protecting sister from toxic mother, NTA for keeping funds.

Sibling not responsible for college fund, advice to cut ties.

Stand up to manipulative parents and take a break

Sibling not responsible for funding sister’s college. Mother is manipulative.

Mother pulls college fund, commenter calls it toxic and cruel

Sibling refuses to pay for sister’s college fund. NTA wins.

Sibling’s college fund dilemma, NTA for not paying siblings’ accounts

Sibling support without overextending. NTA

Encouraging alternative routes to college education, NTA comment section

Mother is parentifying her, not her responsibility to provide.

Sibling money feud: NTA for not funding niece’s college

Mom can’t expect you to pay for sister. Good response

You’re off the hook! NTA, not your responsibility

Sister not responsible for entitled sibling’s college fund

Sibling struggles: NTA for not wanting to fund sister’s college

Clever solution to college fund dilemma

Sibling not parent. No reason to pay sister’s tuition. #NTA

Apply for scholarships on College Greenlight, NTA’s got this!

Mom’s unrealistic expectations put younger sister’s college on older sister.

Sister stands up to mom in college fund dispute

Self-care first! Harsh but true advice for a troubled sister

Sibling college fund drama: NTA for not paying sister’s tuition.

Don’t cripple yourself financially for your sister’s college fund

Heartbreaking situation . Encouraging self-investment and scholarship pursuit .

Sibling’s college fund used for sister, NTA for refusing manipulation

Encouraging comment reminds OP they’re not responsible for sister’s college

Sister shouldn’t sacrifice her future for sister’s college fund

Sister’s college fund: real or excuse for favoritism?

Sibling shouldn’t pay for sister’s college. NTA.

Sibling college fund drama resolved with a clear NTA verdict

Sibling college funds causing drama. NTA for refusing.

OP’s mom guilt-trips her into paying for sister’s tuition

Mother’s mistreatment backfires, NTA for not accepting college payment

No obligation to family’s financial irresponsibility. NTA

Sibling rivalry over college fund leads to low contact with mother

NTA. Family scapegoat predicts mother’s true intentions and advises disengagement.

OP is NTA and JNM is using her as a scapegoat.

Don’t let your mom guilt you into paying for her tuition

Sister’s college fund taken, NTA for not paying for her tuition

Satisfying NTA response with comeback suggestions

Sister refuses to pay for sibling’s college fund. NTA!

NTA. Sibling not obligated to pay for college. Mom’s abusive behavior.

Sister pays own tuition after mom takes college fund

NTA comment receives sympathy for their ‘mangled world view’

Sibling boundaries crossed? NTA asserts no responsibility for sister’s college.

Mom took college fund, cut them off

Don’t let toxic family guilt you into sacrificing your future.

Parenting double standard: unconditional yes expected, college fund revoked for no reason.

Sibling college fund drama, commenter thinks NTA for not paying.

Sister accused of blowing college fund, withholding it as punishment

Confused commenter seeks clarity on college fund drama

Get a vocational certificate for a better paying job!

Mom believes in family support, except for OP’s college fund?

Sibling guilted into paying for sister’s college, mother pulls college fund.

Supportive comment suggests seeking help from r/narcissisticparents subreddit.

Community colleges are a great budget-friendly option

Don’t stress, you’re NTA. Parents took your fund, not responsibility.

Sibling rivalry and financial drama , but NTA wins

Mom took your college fund, shouldn’t be responsible for sister’s tuition

Stand your ground and prioritize your own financial stability

Don’t stress, you’re NTA. It’s not your responsibility ‍♀️

Mom pulls funding for sister’s tuition, worst parenting move ever

Sister tries to transfer college fund, commenter calls out manipulation.

Sibling drama and family manipulation. NTA, don’t give in.

Sibling solidarity in the face of parental neglect

Unfair college fund situation. Can FASFA help?

NTA! Focus on your life, not your toxic mother’s demands.