Picture this: you’re in college, you’ve found the love of your life, and you’re excited to introduce him to your friends. Everything seems perfect until one friend decides she’s into your boyfriend too, and suddenly, you’re accused of breaking the ‘girl code’. It’s a tale as old as time, but this time, it’s got a modern twist. Let’s dive into this rollercoaster of a story…
A College Romance Blossoms

The Introduction Party

Penny’s Unexpected Reaction

The Unfolding Drama

The Girl Code Dilemma

The Group Chat Fallout

The Anniversary Post

Penny’s Outburst

The Group’s Final Verdict ️

The Mother’s Plea

The Aftermath ️

A History of Drama

The Final Decision

A Friendship Torn Apart by Love: The Verdict
Caught in a whirlwind of love, friendship, and drama, our protagonist navigates the murky waters of ‘girl code’. When Penny develops feelings for her friend’s boyfriend, she accuses her friend of breaking this unspoken rule. But the question remains: who’s really at fault here? The friend who fell in love first, or the one who developed feelings later? The internet has weighed in, and the verdict might surprise you…
NTA. Friend is ignorant a**hole. Girl code doesn’t exist. Sparks are in her head. Ditch her and those who agree. Drama llama
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NTA, but girl cut penny off. Some people are just like that

Dating someone isn’t a girl code violation, duh!

NTA-Penny is toxic and irrational. Your friends’ support is baffling.

Penny’s obsession with OP’s boyfriend crosses boundaries and sanity
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NTA. Penny and her mother are batshit crazy . Congrats on the relationship
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NTA. Girl code doesn’t apply when someone’s already dating.

NTA. Penny is bat s**t crazy. You were already dating the guy when she met him so you did not violate “girl code”. ♀️

Mom called? That’s a new level of drama!

Penny’s toxic behavior breaks the girl code. Cut her out!

OP’s wild story raises doubts and sparks accusations.

Dump that toxic friend! ✌️

NTA. Cut ties and find healthier friendships.

Breaking the ‘Girl Code’ or dealing with a narcissist?
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Girl code drama: NTA vs Penny, terrible friends

“NTA. Penny broke the girl code by trying to steal your boyfriend. Your friends are crazy! “

NTA, your boyfriend, your choice. Cut out the drama ♀️

NTA: Exposing a manipulative friend who broke the girl code

Sparks flew, but she claimed him before they even met? NTA

You’re NTA and Penny is batshit insane.

NTA. Penny’s the AH. She’s a s**t friend. Gall of her!

NTA, she broke the girl code and asked you to break up with him.
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Living your life and breaking girl code? NTA!

Dropping a toxic friend? NTA, time to move on!

NTA – Cut ties with drama-loving friends. Drama-free life awaits! ✂️

Jealousy and innocence: NTA, you did nothing wrong

Let this friendship float off into space.

Penny: The Ultimate S**t Stirrer ️

Girl Code doesn’t include whoring out your SO

Is this commenter onto something?

Mom spoiled her too much. Stay clear from this combo.

Cut out Penny and her supporters ASAP!

NTA. Breaking girl code? More like breaking common sense!

Toxic friend alert! Break free from the controlling drama queen!

NTA. Penny is not your friend. Incredibly immature.

Break free from toxic friendships and find your tribe!

Friend breaks girl code, commenter says good riddance.

Exposing the truth: Screenshots, blocking, and taking a stand! NTA

NTA and you know it. High school drama, really?

Toxic friend alert! NTA, stay away from boyfriend-stealing Penny!

Cutting out a toxic friend: NTA, she sounds kinda crazy

Penny’s side? No way! NTA, she’s off her rocker!

Scary situation! NTA needs help breaking the Girl Code

Unstable ex? Mom calling? This sounds like a movie plot!

NTA, ditch Penny and her toxic mom, and crazy friends!

NTA: Penny needs help! Who encourages this behavior?

No girl code broken here. Marriage doesn’t change friendship dynamics. ♀️

NTA. Therapy needed. No dibs on someone’s boyfriend. Insane

♀️ NTA! You didn’t break girl code, she’s a lunatic!

NTA- Exposing Penny’s betrayal and creepy behavior. Cut ties!

Watch out for Penny, she’s Glenn Close and you’re the bunny

Cutting off a delusional friend? NTA, be cautious!

Penny’s crazy! Block her everywhere. You’re not the a**hole!

NTA: Cutting out toxic friends is breaking the girl code!

Drama Alert: Friend breaks Girl Code, sparks chaos among friends

Not girl code! Dating someone new, not a friend’s ex.

Penny: Breaking the Girl Code or Just Misunderstood?

NTA. Can’t believe people would suggest ending a relationship for that

NTA Cut off penny and those “friends” who told you to!

Dump the dumpster fire and keep the boyfriend.

Calling out the fakeness of this post, no filters here!

Sparks fly as girl code is broken in love triangle

NTA. Girl code violation! Block her and her enablers

Love lingers, even when he’s been avoiding her…

NTA: Hilarious high school drama unfolds as Mary tries to steal crush

NTA. Girl code is about exes, not continuing relationships. ♀️

NTA – Jealousy and immaturity led to unnecessary stress and drama

♀️ NTA. Delusional friend? Time to cut ties!

Penny is a massive a**hole! NTA, let her know!

Breaking the girl code? NTA for dating your boyfriend!

No reason to be friends with Penny anymore? NTA!

NTA. Penny is clearly a nutjob.

Breaking the girl code? NTA and no true friend!
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Commenter calls person insane, supports them, and congratulates them.

Toxic friendships in sophomore year? Time to cut them off!

Last Updated on September 11, 2023 by Diply Social Team