Divorce can be a messy affair, especially when it involves splitting assets and deciding who gets what. But what happens when the children are caught in the crossfire? This is the story of a 50-year-old father and a 52-year-old mother, who decided to part ways after years of marriage. Their child, now an adult, finds themselves in the middle of the conflict, forced to pick a side.
The Split

Mom’s Troubles

Escaping the Chaos ♂️

Insurance Drama

Divorce Escalation ⚖️

Financial Support

Old Wounds Reopened

Mom’s Justifications

Past vs Present ️

Advice to Mom ️

Taking Sides ⚖️

Choosing Sides: A Child’s Dilemma in Divorce ♀️
Caught in the turmoil of their parents’ divorce, our protagonist finds themselves in a tricky spot. Despite their mother’s erratic behavior and refusal to contribute financially, they still care about her. However, they can’t help but lean towards their father’s side. After all, he’s been the primary provider and has managed to keep them out of the messy divorce proceedings. Now, they’re urging their mother to drop the lawsuit and find a job with benefits. But will she listen? Or will this add more fuel to the fire? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Stay out of it and let your parents figure it out

NTA: Mom’s upset about insurance, can’t afford prescriptions out of pocket

Divorce can be messy. Make sure to follow the legal steps

“NTA. Don’t enable addicts. Set clear boundaries. Al Anon recommended.”

NTA. Stand up for yourself and set boundaries with your mom.

Not the a**hole. Let’s hear their side of the story!

NTA, but divorce is getting nasty. Set boundaries to stay out.

Navigating divorce laws can be tricky

Child of divorce stands up for themselves. Not the a**hole!
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Empathetic commenter sympathizes with difficult situation

NTA, but stay out of the middle

Divorce drama: Dad removes mom from insurance plan. YTA for supporting.

Set boundaries, enforce them, and watch your life improve immensely!

Divorce drama: Both parents and child are in the wrong

Child of divorce sets boundaries with mom during messy separation.

NTA, you’re a grown adult who can judge others.

Supportive comment about legality of father’s actions during divorce.

Smart move! Use insurance payment to settle the lawsuit.

NTA: Dad not obligated to provide mom health insurance during divorce

Child stands up to mom, not the a**hole

Stand up for yourself and demand better. You’re NTA!

Child of divorce stands up for themselves. Not the a**hole!

Mom’s issues? NTA stands up for themselves. Counseling needed!

Mom’s the a**hole? Let’s hear this juicy story!

Not the a**hole. Let’s hear their side of the story!

NTA, your mom is wrong. Stand your ground

Child of divorce challenges mom’s need to always be right

Mom avoids responsibility, can’t get ACA. What’s her excuse?

Taking a stand against divorce with a touch of American flair

Child of divorce stands up for themselves. Not the a**hole!

Taking a stand against toxic behavior in a divorce

Divorce sucks, but NTA for taking a stand
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Divorce drama: NTA’s mom learns the hard way about involvement

YTA for meddling in the divorce, NTA for supporting your mom

NTA: Don’t meddle, but keep your ex on insurance for now.

Stay out of it. It’s between them.
