Caught in a Power Tussle: Widow vs Ex-wife and Stepchildren Over Memorial Service

Imagine being in a constant tug of war with your spouse’s ex and their children, even during the most challenging times. That’s the reality for one woman, who found herself in a power struggle with her husband’s ex-wife and their three children, even as they mourned his sudden passing. The ex-wife’s control extended to every aspect of their lives, from vacation destinations to house buying decisions. But when it came to planning the memorial service after her husband’s tragic accident, our brave widow had to put her foot down. Let’s delve into her story…

The Ex-Wife’s Control: A Constant Shadow

The Grip Tightens: No Breathing Space

The Honeymoon Fiasco: A Cruise Without Kids?

The Tragic Accident: A Test of Strength

The Hospital Drama: A Power Play Amidst Grief

The Heartbreaking Loss: A Widow’s Solitude

The Memorial Service: A Race Against Time ⏰

The Response: A Delayed Awakening

The Decision: A Widow’s Stand

The Accusations: A Fury Unleashed

The Defense: A Widow’s Justification ️

The Aftermath: An Unresolved Conflict ️

Caught in the Crossfire: A Widow’s Stand Against Control ️

In the face of a tragic loss, our brave widow found herself in a bitter power tussle with her husband’s ex-wife and their children. From dictating vacation destinations to influencing house buying decisions, the ex-wife’s control knew no bounds. Even as they mourned the husband’s sudden passing, the ex-wife attempted to dominate the planning of his memorial service. However, our resilient widow stood her ground, arranging the service while considering the children’s wishes. Despite her efforts, she was accused of excluding the kids. But who was really in the wrong here? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this emotional rollercoaster…

NTA- Widow stands up to ex-wife’s interference, finally blocks her.

Ex-wife excludes kids from memorial, NTA. Condolences.

NTA for standing up to a controlling ex-wife

NTA. Ex-wife’s control vs widower’s newfound independence.

NTA- You texted everyone early but they didn’t respect your time

NTA – Tried to include them, they didn’t bother

NTA. You made the choices as his wife. Respect deserved.

Ex-wife tries to hijack widow’s grieving process. NTA ‍♀️

Step-kids concerned about memorial service, widow drained and financially strained

Legal spouse vs. ex-wife: Who has the final say?

NTA, sorry for your loss. You did your best despite obstacles.

Ex-wife’s outrage over memorial service exclusion. Widow is NTA.

Empathetic commenter supports widow’s decision to have separate memorial.

NTA. Stepchildren could have contacted you themselves if important ‍♀️

Heartfelt condolences. You did your best. Not the a**hole. ❤️

NTA: Widow vs Ex-wife – Power Tussle or Power Hungry?

NTA. Stand your ground and block the ex.

NTA, find support on r/widowers for healing. Sorry for your loss

Condolences for loss, NTA (not the a**hole).

Ex-wife’s anger and pettiness leads to justified blocking. ‍♀️

Stand up for yourself! Don’t let her control your life!

Block the negativity and move forward. You did your best! ✌️

OP feels guilty but strangers reassure them they’re NTA.

NTA, condolences. Ex-wife alienating her own kids.

Empathetic commenter supports widow against vindictive ex-wife.

Compassion and consideration needed during difficult times.

“Misleading title, but you’re NTA. Sorry for your loss. “

NTA – Widow stands her ground in memorial service dispute

Heartfelt support for NTA commenter grieving a painful loss ❤️

NTA. Ex-wife’s tantrum over control. You handled it gracefully.

Ex-wife vs Widow: Who has the final say?

Ex-wife drama: Widow stands her ground, NTA

NTA, legally and ethically in control. Ex-wife tried to manipulate. You did fine!

Ex-wife and stepchildren clash with widow over memorial service. NTA!

NTA. You handled the memorial with care and consideration.

Ex-wife has no say in memorial service. NTA for widow.

NTA: A gentle reminder could have helped. ‍ ‍

YTA for not waiting for his kids to be there

Soft ESH- Ex is an a**hole, but kids’ trauma matters too

NTA. Self-centered ex-wife causes power tussle over memorial service.

Heartfelt condolences and prayers for the loss.

Supportive comment offers condolences and judgement-free perspective.

Not the a**hole, but who is causing the power struggle?

Heartfelt support for the widow’s loss.

Heartfelt condolences and support for the grieving widow. ❤️

Ex-wife vs Widow: Who has the final say?

NTA. You did your best to honor their wishes.

Widow’s decision: NTA. It’s your timeline, not hers.

Stepchildren unhappy with rushed memorial, but don’t blame commenter.

Empathy for OP, support against controlling ex-wife. NTA

“NTA. Celebrated my husband’s memory with a nice celebration of life. Want tips? PM me! ✨”

NTA, sorry for your loss. Cut off toxic ex for self-care.

NTA. Block her and move on. No reason to talk.

Widow vs Ex-wife: Who has the final say?

NTA. Widow stands up for her rights against ex-wife’s interference.

Widow stands up to controlling ex-wife in memorial service dispute ✊

Heartfelt condolences and healing wishes for your loss. ❤️

Empathizing with a victim of harassment and self-doubt.

Ex-wife tries to control widow’s memorial service. NTA prevails.

NTA – Petty revenge? Share this thread with her!

Condolences for your loss.

ESH. Unreasonable deadline for memorial, but still maintain relationship