Picture this: you’re working as a cashier at a grocery store when a regular customer comes in with her autistic son. The child has a habit of spraying bottles as a form of stimming, and before you know it, your face is sprayed with bleach! The mom laughs it off, but should she have? One 23-year-old female cashier found herself in this exact situation, and she didn’t hesitate to confront the mom. Was she right to do so, or did she cross a line? Let’s dive into the story and find out.
Cashier’s Usual Summer Spot

The Regular and Her Son

The Garden Area Setup

Cleaning Supplies and Table Skirt

The Incident Begins

Unexpected Bleach Attack

Cashier Takes Action ♀️

Confronting the Mom

Mom’s Defense ️

The Aftermath ️

Cashier’s Edit: Clearing Things Up

Management’s Reaction

Previous Harassment Incident

Cashier’s Future Plans

Cashier vs. Mom: The Bleach Battle
So, who’s right in this bleach-spraying showdown? The cashier, who confronted the mom for not paying closer attention to her autistic son and allowing him to spray bleach on her face, or the mom, who laughed it off and insisted that her son’s autism excused his actions? It’s a tough call, but one thing’s for sure: this incident has sparked a heated debate. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Autistic mom and others discuss the limits of stimming behavior

Mom’s negligence puts son at risk, cashier’s perspective justified.

NTA. Blaming the parent for not teaching their autistic child.

“NTA. In public, people can get upset about being sprayed.”

Mom’s failure to monitor autistic son’s actions sparks debate.

NTA: Parent’s dangerous behavior sparks debate on autistic stimming

Autistic child’s stimming endangers others, cashier tries to help.

Mom uses son’s autism as excuse for dangerous behavior. NTA!

NTA: Mom’s inappropriate laughter after son’s stimming incident sparks debate

NTA: Spraying people with water bottle not a stim. Managing stims responsibly

NTA: Spray bottle mishaps and a corrosive mother’s response

NTA. Parenting an autistic child: who’s responsible?

NTA: Harmful stims can be controlled or redirected, not an excuse

NTA. Mom should have been more mindful of her son.

Mom criticized for not controlling autistic son’s stimming.
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Retail worker faces backlash for addressing inappropriate behavior from autistic child.

Spraying bleach is not an acceptable form of stimming! NTA

NTA: Controversy over mom’s lack of control sparks heated debate

NTA, dangerous stim should have been corrected with therapy.

Thank God your eyes were okay. NTA!
