19 Things People Think Are Being Overshared (When They Should Remain Private)

Sarah Kester
Emily in Paris
Adweek | Netflix

Oversharing is everywhere these days (blame social media). 

People share their location, what they had for lunch, and identifying images of their children.

All this gives creeps (looking at you, Joe Goldberg) the chance to stalk your every move. So, to spread awareness and hopefully ignite change, here are 19 things people think are being overshared (when they should remain private). 

Pictures of children

Child
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As one Redditor wrote, this is especially the case when parents post identifying features like school logos and things that can show where they live. This puts the child in danger. Sadly, there are a lot of sickos in this world that make fake "roleplaying" accounts with these kids.

Posting sick relatives in hospital beds

Hospital
IMBd | ABC

"This frustrates the hell out of me. I was sick a few years back and I was in the hospital for several weeks. It was the ugliest and grossest I have ever felt. I jumped down my mom's throat when she tried to take a picture of me all sneaky." - u/rrfox31

Their sex lives

Sex life
Giphy | Friends

Telling someone you get it on a few times a week is one thing, but sharing intimate details to a T is entirely another. This Redditor pointed out that it's an invasion of your partner's privacy if they didn't know you were sharing.

Long-winded Facebook posts

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"My sister is guilty of sharing literal walls of text without any punctuation detailing her: money problems, husband problems, kid problems, body image problems, and other random [expletive] that doesn’t matter. Her Facebook posts are a stream of consciousness. Just no." - u/TacoTuesday4All

Naked baby pictures

Baby
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Before social media, photos of bathtime were placed into physical photo albums. No one but family saw those pics. Now, they're all over Instagram! Kids should have a say on what gets posted about them.

People filming themselves crying

The CRINGE. While many of us have taken pictures of ourselves crying, we usually have the right frame of mind to not post it. We'd cry more over the embarrassment.

Revealing pictures on Instagram

"The revealing pic thing is something i will never understand. I could never post sexy, half-naked photos that anyone could see. What if my boss accidentally saw them? I’m sorry, but I only want a select few people to see that side of me because it just feels very private." - u/Cute_Mousse_7980

Mental health issues

Sad
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There is definitely a fine line, as this Redditor pointed out. While they do want people being open about mental health, they don't want someone harping on about their self-diagnosed issues for sympathy.

Romantic tributes

Couple cuddling
Men's Health | Netflix

"I'm annoyed when people post long tributes to their spouse on social media ('I'm so lucky to have found this woman, she's so smart and sexy and puts up all my faults blah blah blah')

It feels less than genuine, or .. something. If you feel this way about your spouse just tell them. Why are you telling everyone else?" - u/Museum_of_Sneha

Relationship issues

Riverdale couple
Insider | Netflix

Severe issues should be dealt with by a therapist, not the world. This Redditor shared that your friends and loved ones are going to look at your significant other differently.

Pictures of the exterior of your house

House
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"Plenty of people are excited to share their journey of home ownership, but I would *at least* blur out the street number if you're showing everyone your new house." - u/jadecourt

Food

Food
Giphy | Laff

Looking at you, food bloggers! Or just the random girl in a restaurant taking a million images of her dish. This Redditor wrote that they had spaghetti last night, but they don't feel the need to share it on social media. Be like this person.

People's daily lives

Emily in Paris
Adweek | Netflix

"My Instagram is full of people's posts or stories about what they are doing every second of the day. Whether it’s going to the gym, what they are eating, wearing, feeling, seeing, everything. Why can’t people just live in peace without having to share it to the world." - u/daisycano01

Texts

Phone
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Nothing is sacred anymore, including texts. Since many people share texts they receive with their friends, group chat, or even social media, it makes people terrified of what they're typing to their so-called friends.

People holding their deceased pet and crying

Pet
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"Seriously? When we had to euthanize our pets it was the worst moment. Why would anyone want to memorialize it with a photo THEN post it online? Have some dignity." - u/SCHRUTTFARMS

Your children's mistakes and mishaps

Joe Goldberg with baby
Express | Netflix

This Redditor wrote that kids deserve privacy and a safe place to learn from them. When a parent shares everything on social media, this can adversely affect some children negatively.

The sex lives of celebrities

Kim Kardashian
Giphy | KUWTK

"Like they themselves oversharing their marriage issues, etc. I get that maybe they are trying to be relatable but it's like..go to couple's therapy and leave us out of all the intimate details please." - u/xvakarian

Newborn babies

Newborn
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Sorry to say it, but these aren't cute. The child is covered in blood and other fluids and looks like a deer in headlights. It's better to wait to get a cute picture of the little one.

Periods

Period
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"Nothing wrong with discussing periods and ways to handle symptoms, but some people are getting awfully weird with it. Taking pictures of it or talking about being 'proud' of them. I think periods should be in the same category as pissing and blowing your nose: Gross, but ok to talk about when necessary." - u/Oki-J

H/T: Reddit