Picture this: you’re a supportive sibling who’s taken in your younger brother after he came out as trans. You’ve spent a fair amount of money on new clothes for him, but he keeps asking to borrow your expensive clothes and treats them like garbage. What would you do? One person found themselves in this exact situation and is now questioning if they’re in the wrong for putting their foot down. Let’s dive into this sibling fashion fiasco! ️♀️
The Supportive Sibling
Clothes Shopping Spree
The Borrowing Begins
Slob Alert!
Grass-Stained Pants
Enough is Enough!
The Clothing Ban
Cleaning Debacle
Job Suggestion
Locking Up
Sibling Disapproval
Self-Doubt
Fashion Fiasco: Who’s the Real Culprit? ️♂️
So, we have a supportive sibling who’s taken in their younger brother after he came out as trans. They’ve spent a considerable amount on new clothes for him, but the brother keeps borrowing expensive clothes and treating them poorly. The older sibling finally puts their foot down, leading to a heated argument and a locked bedroom door. The question remains: is the older sibling in the wrong for valuing their clothes, or is the younger brother taking advantage of their kindness? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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“No teenager needs a $350 sweater! NTA. Teach him responsibility.”
Fashion disaster: $350 sweater ruined by a 16-year-old!
NTA. Teach him financial responsibility and the value of nice things.
NTA. Transitioning doesn’t give him the right to disrespect your belongings.
Sibling fashion feud: Expensive clothes, cheap respect.
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NTA, but hope he learns to respect borrowed items.
Sibling’s fashion transition: from caring to chaos.
Engaging discussion on masculinity and fashion choices.
You’re still providing clothes for him. Good sibling support!
Setting boundaries and teaching responsibility: clever and effective parenting!
Transphobia in the comments, but NTA for not respecting possessions. Is therapy needed?
Sibling fashion drama: NTA wants brother to work for style
Thrifting: The Secret to Affordable and Stylish Clothes!
NTA. Clothes are yours. No more borrowing if mistreated.
NTA: Set boundaries, he’ll learn to respect your belongings.
Setting boundaries: clothes chaos averted!
NTA! Supportive sibling sets boundaries with grateful brother.
NTA. Keep those $200 pants away from him!
Trans guy appreciates OP’s support, suggests getting binder for dysphoria ♂️
You’re a good sibling! NTA for setting boundaries.
NTA! Being a great brother means setting boundaries. Teenagers, amirite?
NTA. Giving second chances is always a stylish move.
“NTA. Protecting my clothes from snot and grass stains “
NTA. Setting boundaries with personal belongings, even with family.
Perceived masculinity issues? Therapy might help.
NTA. Borrowed clothes, borrowed responsibility. ♂️
Teaching boundaries: Being a good brother is key!
Last Updated on February 8, 2024 by Diply Social Team
