We’ve all heard of strange and questionable habits, but this one takes the cake! A woman discovered her brother-in-law’s disgusting secret after he moved in with her and her husband. The brother-in-law, Neil, had been struggling with d********n after losing his dog to cancer, which led to him losing his job and apartment. While her husband was away on a business trip, she uncovered Neil’s shocking habit: peeing in water bottles! But what happened next will leave you questioning who’s really in the wrong here.
Neil’s Downward Spiral

A Freeloading Houseguest?

Taking Out the Trash ️ ️♀️

A Disturbing Discovery

Confronting Neil

Caught Red-Handed! ️♀️

Neil’s Bizarre Excuse

Not Good Enough!

The Ultimatum ⏳

Husband’s Solution?

Remembering Neil’s Loss

Standing Her Ground

Husband’s Silent Treatment

A House Divided: Ultimatum Drama!
After discovering her brother-in-law’s disgusting habit of peeing in water bottles, this woman decided enough was enough. She confronted Neil, who admitted to the act but refused to stop. When her husband returned from his business trip, she gave Neil an ultimatum: leave within a week. But her husband wasn’t on board, claiming Neil was struggling and needed their support. ♀️ He even suggested encouraging Neil to find a girlfriend so he could move out and become someone else’s problem! The wife, however, stood her ground, leading to her husband giving her the silent treatment. Now, she’s left wondering if she’s truly heartless for wanting her freeloading brother-in-law out of her home. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this messy situation…
Setting a deadline for brother-in-law’s habit, NTA needs tough love

Grieving a pet is normal, but 6 months is excessive. Brother-in-law needs help.

NTA. Tough love is necessary for his own good.

NTA for feeling uncomfortable with brother-in-law’s hoarding habits.

Lazy and Disrespectful Brother-in-law: NTA’s Ultimatum and Red Flag

Sister-in-law calls out brother-in-law’s manipulative behavior towards her and her husband.

NTA. Brother-in-law’s gross behavior deserves ultimatum from sister-in-law.

Husband’s role in enabling brother-in-law’s habit and manipulation addressed.

♂️ Men can’t stop telling on themselves. BIL is being a mooch. NTA.
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Peeing in bottles is never a valid excuse
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BIL’s gross habit enabled by brother, needs medical help. NTA.

BIL and husband are the a**holes, but sister-in-law is not.

Sister-in-law gives ultimatum after brother-in-law’s unsanitary habit. NTA.

NTA stands up for herself and gives ultimatum to husband

Brother-in-law’s behavior is unacceptable, NTA for giving ultimatum.

Heartbreaking story of a man’s love for his dog. NTA.

Husband prioritizing brother’s needs over wife’s ultimatum. NTA.

Stand your ground against lazy and disgusting behavior

Compassionate response to mental health issues, not ultimatums, is key.

Brother-in-law uses bottles as toilet for 8 months old dog. NTA.

Brother-in-law’s disgusting behavior causes family tension. NTA.

Brother-in-law’s gross habit needs professional help, NTA for ultimatum.

Depressed commenter shares experience with gross habit, advises ultimatum.

Don’t be an enabler. Give ultimatum to husband and brother-in-law.

Husband’s comment annoyed commenter, suggests BIL needs therapy. NTA.

Enabling a brother’s disrespectful habit with a pet’s death excuse

NTA. Neil needs therapy . Brother enabling unhealthy behavior

Grown man too sleepy to use toilet, forces sister-in-law to clean.

NTA suggests husband take care of bottles, kick brother-in-law out.

Angry commenter suggests getting rid of brother-in-law and sister-in-law.

Sister-in-law called NTA for refusing to put up with brother-in-law’s habits.
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NTA suggests leaving brother-in-law with a sassy ultimatum ♀️

BIL’s shocking habit forces sister-in-law to consider moving out

NTA. Three days bereavement for father, 6 months for pet excessive.

Animal lover shuts down brother-in-law’s excuse for animal abuse

NTA. Sister-in-law’s husband is a massive a****e. Kick them both out.

Disgusting habit and enabling behavior leads to ultimatum.

Disgusting pee bottle habit leads to eviction ultimatum.

NTA. Neil needs to take responsibility for his actions. Suggest counseling.

Husband enabling toxic brother-in-law, ignoring wife’s ultimatum.

Heartbreaking story about a dog’s death, but don’t forget hygiene

Brother-in-law pees in bottles, commenter is not the a****e

Mental health concerns raised in NTA comment about brother-in-law’s habit.

Don’t let them take advantage of you. You deserve better.

Processing grief differently doesn’t excuse disgusting behavior
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Brother-in-law’s behavior is unacceptable. Husband needs to take action.
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Enabling brother-in-law is causing marital issues. Ultimatum given.

No sympathy for the brother-in-law’s disgusting habit. Send them packing!

User suggests punting brother-in-law to another innocent woman

Encouraging Neil to become a trucker with added benefits

Animal rescuer explains why NTA and leaving bodily fluids is disgusting

Sister-in-law gives ultimatum to disgusting man-child roommate.

Cutting off access to money and belongings may help brother-in-law.

No sympathy for brother-in-law’s disgusting habit. Ultimatum is necessary.

Laziness at its finest. Dump the bottle in the toilet.

Couple’s veto: NTA, BIL is a lazy a**. Write a check.

Heartbreaking story of putting down family dog, followed by closure.

BIL’s shocking habit causes tension between sisters-in-law. Move out?
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Sister-in-law gives ultimatum to brother-in-law with ‘ewww’ habit.

Enabling extreme grief is harmful. Therapy is necessary. NTA

Don’t let laziness and disrespect ruin your peace

Taking responsibility for your actions and hygiene is important. #NTA

Brother-in-law’s disgusting habit causes sister-in-law to give ultimatum!

Sensible advice for a difficult situation

Spouse enabling brother-in-law’s habit? NTA, find a new place

When your ultimatum gets an ultimatum

Run for your safety and consider therapy afterwards.

P**s bottles?! People are sharing their shocking stories in the replies.
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Encouraging support for seeking therapy after neglecting life post-dog death.

Last Updated on February 16, 2024 by Diply Social Team