We all know that money can cause tension in the best of relationships. But when it comes to family, things can get even messier. One man found himself in the middle of a heated family dispute when his brother demanded he pay back a $10,000 debt. With both sides feeling wronged, we’re left wondering who’s really in the wrong here. Let’s dive into the story and see if we can figure it out.
The $12,000 Loan

Desperate Plea for Help

Wedding Bells and Money Woes

COVID Complications

Partial Payment and a New Car

Pressure Mounts ⏰

Car Troubles and a Surprise BBQ

Tension at the BBQ

Threats and Accusations

Fighting Back ⚔️

Helping Each Other Out

Gifts and Favors

The Final Straw

Family Fallout

Mutual Help and Resentment

The Blame Game: Who’s the Real Culprit?
This family feud has it all – a $12,000 loan, a gambling problem, a wedding, and a global pandemic. With both brothers feeling wronged, it’s hard to say who’s truly at fault. The man who borrowed the money has tried to help his brother in other ways, but is it enough to make up for the outstanding debt? And what about the brother’s wife, who’s now threatening legal action? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
User suggests YTA convert help to money and pay back.

Pay the money back, don’t splurge on luxuries. YTA

Brother refuses to pay back $10k, called out for entitlement. YTA

Addict receives help from brother, refuses to pay $10k back. YTA.

User calls out OP for being a deadbeat and suggests lawsuit

Stealing from one brother and not paying back the other? YTA
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YTA spent 10K on cars and vacation instead of paying back brother

Pay back your brother ASAP, YTA.

Brother takes loan to help gambler sibling, demands repayment. Commenter calls gambler YTA and urges repayment with interest.

User called out for not wanting to pay back $12k loan

Redditor calls out OP for being TA in family dispute.

Brother bailed him out, now he’s acting entitled. YTA

OP gets called out for being a selfish and terrible brother

User calls out OP for being a thief and selfish. YTA

Gambling addiction leads to theft, YTA should pay brother back

Brother gave loan to keep sibling out of jail. YTA.

Pay up or face the consequences. YTA

Brother demands $8k back, commenter calls OP entitled and YTA.

Pay your debts! YTA for not returning the money

Debt-stealing sibling gets called out. YTA, pay up

Harsh reply to a borrower who won’t pay back debt.

Cancel the vacation and pay back your brother. YTA

Empathy questioned in YTA comment about unpaid loan.

YTA gets called out for demanding money back.

Entitled brother refuses to pay back $10k for a decade

Brother takes on debt for OP’s recovery, but OP is ungrateful

Pay back your debts, sell what you need to

Borrower in the wrong, commenter calls them out with YTA

User calls out OP for being ungrateful and advises to pay back brother

Harsh criticism for a person demanding money from their brother.

Debtor in denial about debt owed to brother, called out YTA

YTA owes brother money for too long, wife not informed

Brother bails you out, you complain about gas money? YTA

Harsh criticism for selfish financial behavior.

OP receives harsh judgement and warnings for scamming brother.

Sibling demands $10k back, commenters side with borrower.

YTA accused of stealing money and refusing to pay back.

OP is the a**hole for not paying back brother, commenters agree

Brother loans $12k, OP refuses to pay back. YTA.

YTA stole money, gambled it away, and now wants sympathy

No excuses, YTA. Pay back the money you owe

Red-handed! Commenter called out for being an a**hole.

YTA accused of not paying back brother’s loan, commenter calls out entitlement

Redditor calls out the stupidity of a person demanding $10k back. YTA.

Redditor called out for not paying back brother, labeled YTA.

User called out for being an a**hole, urged to pay back loan

YTA called out for not being honest about borrowing money
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Sibling debt drama: YTA owes 10k, family feud ensues.

Recovery shaming? YTA demands $10k back for minor inconvenience

Brother saved OP from jail, but won’t pay him back

User calls out OP for being selfish and inconsiderate.

YTA for not paying back your brother for 10 years
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Red-handed! YTA needs to pay up and make things right.

Prioritize paying back your brother, not buying a car.

Debate over brother’s loan request sparks accusations of hypocrisy
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YTA: Commenter calls out person for being annoying and selfish

Harsh criticism for OP’s entitled attitude. Shameful behavior.

Debtor called out for not paying back $10k. YTA.

YTA bought two cars while brother struggled. Hope he sues.

YTA for taking advantage of your brother’s help. Pay him back

User calls out borrower’s bad logic, deems them YTA.

Conflicting statements and a YTA verdict.

No defense for the accused, just embarrassment.

YTA gets called out and threatened with legal action

Sibling takes out $10k loan for OP’s therapy, demands repayment. YTA.

Pay up! YTA for not returning borrowed money to your brother.

Pay your debts and be a real man

♂️ AH of the year contender, pay back ASAP. YTA

Family debt drama: YTA doesn’t think they have to pay back

Last Updated on February 12, 2024 by Diply Social Team