There’s no denying that weddings can be stressful, but one woman’s attempt to create a stress-free environment on her big day has led to unexpected family drama. The 27-year-old bride-to-be, planning her wedding for October, made a simple request: she didn’t want children present during the hair and makeup portion of her wedding. Now, she’s facing backlash from her own mother, who’s labeled her a ‘bridezilla’. The question is, is she being unreasonable or is it her day, her rules?
The Big Day is Coming!
A Family Affair
Family in the Wedding Party
The Bride’s Request ♀️
Focus on the Day
A Few Hours of Peace ️
Potential Childcare Options
Mom’s Reaction
Grandma’s Love for the Grandkids ❤️
Feeling Like Scum
The Sister Talk ️
The Big Question ♀️
Bridezilla or Justified? The Internet Weighs In ️⚖️
The bride-to-be’s request has certainly stirred the pot, causing a rift between her and her mother. Despite the support from her brother and sister-in-law, she’s left questioning if her request is unreasonable. The bride simply wants a few hours of tranquility on her big day, but her mother’s reaction has left her feeling like ‘scum of the earth’. Is it too much to ask for a stress-free environment on her wedding day? Or is she being a bridezilla? Let’s dive into the internet’s top responses and see what they think of this wedding day drama! ️♀️
NTA. Sister’s 2-month-old shouldn’t be around fumes. Mom’s meddling.
NTA. Reasonable bride request sparks family drama. Momzilla jokes ensue!
NTA. Enjoy adult time without kids and present a united front.
NTA. Bride’s mom is selfish; hiring a babysitter is ideal
NTA. Your wedding, your rules.
Debate over having a baby at the wedding ceremony
NTA, reasonable request sparks family drama
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Stressed bride-to-be gets support for wedding day baby drama
NTA: Sacrificing for sister’s wedding, leaving newborn for a weekend
NTA for wanting mom’s attention. Suggest separate space for baby.
NTA. It’s your wedding, do your thing!
Bride’s dilemma: compromise or risk family drama on wedding day?
Mom’s baby obsession clashes with wedding plans. Drama ensues!
NTA: Peaceful pre-wedding hours without messy toddlers? Totally justified!
NTA: Babies allowed, dads can handle older kids.
Bride’s request for personal boundaries sparks family drama. NTA!
NTA. Hire a babysitter or enlist in-laws to watch kids
No babies at the wedding! NTA wants a peaceful ceremony.
Bride sets boundaries for child-free wedding. NTA, totally justified!
NTA. Bride’s room is not child-friendly. Communicate your wishes.
NTA! It’s YOUR day, and kids demand attention
NTA. Your wedding, your rules. Don’t let mom guilt-trip you.
NTA. Toddler-free wedding? Sister’s newborn might be exception
NTA: Bride’s mom causing drama, sister should be contacted directly
NTA: Toddlers at hair & makeup session would be chaotic
“NTA. It’s a couple hours in the morning not the entire ceremony/reception etc (even if it was. Your wedding your rules) also who would want to risk a couple toddlers around a possibly white dress and other breakable messy things?? That’s a recipe for disaster! It’s a couple hours plenty of close family to keep an eye on em. And tbh I don’t trust that your mother will keep her word on the attention thing so unfortunately prepare yourself for that disappointment. And talk to your sis. She should hopefully be understanding.” – Engaging and supportive comment defending the bride’s decision.
Safety first! NTA shares a childhood wedding mishap
Set boundaries for kids during hair and makeup. NTA.
NTA! Bridezilla? These kids should be with grandparents, duh!
Removing your mother from the wedding? NTA, less stress!
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Mom of 5 supports NTA’s reasonable wedding day request!
NTA. Understandable. Baby at wedding, alternate activities, win-win for all
No kids allowed at wedding ♀️. Not the a**hole.
Former wedding photographer supports bride’s reasonable policy.
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NTA – Bride’s reasonable request sparks family drama. Grandkids vs wedding.
NTA. Your wedding, your decision. End of.
NTA. Kids during hair and makeup? No way!
Last Updated on September 21, 2023 by Diply Social Team
