Bridezilla or Grandma Wrangler: A Wedding Dilemma

Ever been to a wedding where you were more focused on the drama than the nuptials? Well, one woman found herself in a similar situation. She was looking forward to her boyfriend’s sister’s wedding, dreaming of the lavish spread and the historic hotel. But her dreams were dashed when her boyfriend suggested they spend the entire event babysitting his emotionally volatile grandmother, Ruth.

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Caught between a rock and a hard place, our protagonist finds herself in a tough spot. Should she enjoy the wedding feast she’s been dreaming of, or should she take on the daunting task of babysitting Ruth, the emotionally volatile grandma? With accusations of selfishness and guilt trips aplenty, it’s a dilemma that’s sparked a family feud. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this wedding day drama.

Bridezilla or Grandma Wrangler? YTA for not being understanding

Bridezilla or Grandma Wrangler? A wedding dilemma

“YTA. A wedding is not about the food” ️

“YTA. Only care about money and parties? Shocked Pikachu face!”

NTA for not wanting to take care of Grandma, but YTA for being selfish and not considering your boyfriend’s needs. ‍♀️

NAH, except maybe Ruth. ‍♀️ You want to enjoy the wedding, but your SO wants to support someone he cares about. Valid concerns and feelings.

You’re the a**hole for prioritizing your own desires over family.

NTA Ruth’s behavior: narcissism or trauma? Boyfriend wrangles grandma admirably

Boyfriend’s sister expects him to wrangle grandma, YTA. Shifts?

“Ruth sounds deranged or an attention-seeking nightmare. NTA.”

NTA. Boyfriend needs to handle grandma, not OP.

YTA for being selfish and ungrateful about attending the wedding

Wild accusations and hidden backstory: Drama unfolds in this comment section

NTA Ruth’s bad behavior ruins the evening, partner’s family enables.

Engaging comment: OP is NTA for thinking this is absurd

YTA, but it’s not your wedding. Plan your own date!

Grandma needs comforting, not the bride’s responsibility. Stay home!

NTA. Family chose her to wrangle Grandma. Conversation needed for expectations.

NTA vs YTA: Is Ruth a sweet lady or a nightmare?

Wedding seating drama: Should bf sit with grandma or not?

Boyfriend’s ‘sweet’ grandma is actually petty and attention-seeking. NTA.

YTA. Sit down and enjoy the wedding as a +1

NTA. Don’t let his grandma’s toxicity ruin your relationship

Wedding day: groom’s grandma steals the show

Bridezilla or Grandma Wrangler? A Wedding Dilemma

OP shouldn’t be expected to babysit, BF should prioritize her

Selfishness at a wedding

YTA. Don’t let your selfishness ruin your boyfriend’s family obligations

NTA. Time to have a serious talk with the bf

“NTAYou don’t have to put up with that sad woman if you don’t want to. Not your monkey, not your circus. It’s selfish of your bf and Sarah that they won’t step up and control granny while you have fun and instead shift that responsibility onto you when you are there for being your bf’s partner. (you might go as a guest but what I mean is that they’re selfish for expecting that from someone who is not family)” – No more monkey business!

NTA: Stand your ground and have a talk with your bf

YTA: It’s your boyfriend’s family, not yours. Support him!

Engage Granny while enjoying the meal! Fun for everyone!

Grandma wrangling at weddings? Not the a**hole!

NTA: Let your bf handle his grandma and enjoy yourself

“YTA for making the wedding about yourself, not the bride.”

Bridezilla prioritizes food and party over love and family. YTA

YTA. Boyfriend’s wedding, his choice. Skip it for date night

NTA. Ruth’s behavior is not your responsibility. Enjoy your day!

Surprised OP still has a boyfriend? YTA!

Choose empathy over food. YTA needs a reality check.

NTA. Expect him to prioritize his family over you.

Boyfriend babysits grandma while she eats fancy food.

Choose wisely: support your bf or risk your relationship

BF’s grandma needs care, YTA wants fancy food instead

“YTA for prioritizing food over your BF’s company at wedding.”

Selfishness at a wedding? YTA for prioritizing your own enjoyment.

Unpopular opinion but NTA. Ruth sounds like a living nightmare

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YTA. Don’t want to wrangle Ruth? Stay home. ‍♀️

Food fight! A hangry YTA battles over boyfriend’s family’s menu

Bridezilla alert! YTA for making a fuss about seating arrangements

YTA. Be a helpful guest, not a hangry drama queen

Fair to want to enjoy wedding without ruining your holiday

Bridezilla vs. Grandma Wrangler: Wedding Drama Unleashed!

Support your boyfriend’s agenda or stay home. YTA.

YTA: Your entitlement may cost you more than just perks

YTA. Be grateful for the invite or stay home and pay

Choose: compromise or stay home. You’re a +1, not invited.

Living with Ruth, bf wants to wrangle her at wedding. YTA

“Support your boyfriend on the biggest day of someone else’s life! “

Boyfriend prioritizes friend over girlfriend at wedding

Grandma wrangling: Is it really your responsibility?