Picture this: a young couple, madly in love, decides to rush their wedding. They plan to host the ceremony in a family home, which is now owned by the groom’s cousin. Everything seems to be going smoothly until the couple demands a permanent ramp be installed for a wheelchair-using bridesmaid. The catch? They refuse to pay for it! When the homeowner suggests a temporary ramp instead, the drama really begins to unfold.
A Rushed Wedding and a Grand Plan

The Family Home as the Venue

The Wheelchair Dilemma

The Ramp Standoff

The Temporary Solution and the Stubborn Refusal

The Money Issue

The Insensitive Text

Family Backlash and the Angry Aunt

The Final Decision

The Shocking Revelation

The Apology and the Broken Engagement

The Bullet Dodged

The Happy Ending

A Wheelchair Ramp, a Wedding, and a Whirlwind of Drama!
In a whirlwind of love, a young couple decides to rush their wedding and host it at a family home. But when they demand a permanent ramp for a wheelchair-using bridesmaid and refuse to pay for it, things take a dramatic turn. The homeowner, a cousin of the groom, offers a temporary ramp solution, but it’s met with refusal. The drama escalates when the bride sends a hurtful text, causing family members to threaten to boycott the wedding. In a shocking twist, the groom calls off the wedding after learning about the bride’s insensitive behavior, revealing she was rushing the wedding to avoid signing a prenup. In the end, the family gathers for a dinner hosted by the groom’s mother, celebrating their unity and strength. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this rollercoaster of a story…
NTA. Offering rental ramp, they’re ungrateful. Stand your ground, OP!
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NTA. Your home, your rules. They should find another venue.

NTA. Your house, your rules. They should clean up after.

NTA: Bridesmaid demands permanent ramp, but a temporary one is reasonable. ♂️

NTA: Stand your ground and find a different venue!

NTA. Entitled bridezilla demands permanent ramp but refuses to pay!

NTA. Bridezilla demands expensive ramp for one-time event at home.

Stand your ground! Don’t let entitled people bully you.

Bridezilla refuses to pay for wheelchair ramp. NTA comment.

NTA for offering reasonable accommodation, retract offer if pressured further.

NTA. Good luck building that ramp in a week!

No obligation to provide accessibility. Rent a ramp instead!

NTA. Stand your ground Rent a temporary ramp or find another venue

NTA. You agreed to modifications, but they want you to pay!

NTA offers solution, cousin should pay for portable ramp!

Bridezilla demands a ramp at the family home wedding, but refuses to pay!

NTA: Paying for a rented ramp? That’s a wedding rip-off!

NTA. Couple should pay for wheelchair ramp, not the bridesmaid.

Bridesmaid needs a ramp, but bride won’t compromise.

“NTA. Cousin should pay for a ramp, not expect handouts! “

Generous bridezilla offers to pay for ramp, but demands quality work.
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Entitled bridezilla refuses to accommodate bridesmaid in wheelchair. NTA!

OP offers temporary ramp, not refusing to accommodate. Not unreasonable.

NTA: Bridezilla demands permanent ramp, but a rental is reasonable.

INFO: Rental ramp safety concerns and alternative phrasing addressed. NTA

Bridezilla demands free ramp, insults autistic bridesmaid. NTA, decline!

NTA – Bridezilla refuses to pay for necessary changes at home wedding.

NTA- You’re a gracious host, don’t let entitled family ruin it!

NTA. Bridezilla should have considered accessibility when choosing the venue.

NTA: Bridezilla’s friends planning to squat in family home.

Generous offer rescinded due to entitled behavior.

“NTA You are being used. Stand up for yourself! “

NTA. Time to find a new wedding venue!

NTA. Trying your best under the circumstances.

NTA: Don’t let them use your home for their rushed wedding!

Suggests getting married at a handicap accessible City Hall. NTA!

Generous offer to rent ramp, but cousin should pay for it!
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NTA: Quick wedding, big compromise.

Standing up for yourself against a bridezilla’s ableist demands. ✊

Bridezilla demands ramp, but gets a rude awakening.

Wheelchair user calls out refusal of temporary ramp, NTA!

Bridesmaid refuses rented ramp, proving even people in wheelchairs can be a**holes.

NTA. Bridezilla demands free labor and expects you to foot the bill
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NTA. Lack of gratitude and entitlement from the couple.

NTA – Providing a temporary ramp is reasonable and fair!

Inherited home, entitled cousin and bride, NTA for refusing.

Bridezilla demands permanent ramp, insults and accuses homeowner of ableism.

NTA calls out ableist accusations in bridezilla’s wedding demand.

Wheelchair user suggests cost-sharing for wedding ramp, reasonable compromise.

NTA: Stand your ground and protect yourself from potential lawsuits!

Bridezilla demands free ramp for wedding, but gets shut down!

NTA. Protect yourself and don’t let entitled bridezilla take advantage!

Supportive comment suggests stepping back from wedding preparations.

NTA, offer solutions but don’t foot the bill for everything!

Satisfying update! FU CAROL gets what she deserves!

Hilarious response to a demanding bridezilla!

“FU Carol” comment is a refreshing read!

NTA. Offered solution, bridesmaid refused. They can marry elsewhere.

NTA – Not the a**hole! Let’s hear the story!

Entitled bridesmaid and couple told to get lost!

Wheelchair user defends temporary ramp, questions demand for permanent one.

Bridezilla demands wheelchair ramp but refuses to pay! NTA
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Stand up for yourself! Don’t let them walk all over you.

Cousin’s last minute request without paying, NTA but nightmare bridezilla

Contractor refuses to build expensive ramp for entitled bridezilla. NTA!

Foldable portable ramps are a great solution for accessibility!

NTA. A well-built ramp is necessary, they should pay for it.

“NTA. You were incredibly accommodating, don’t let them disrespect you!”

NTA. The AUDACITY. You are trying to make this happen when they insist on a rushed wedding at your home. And because of something out of your control (that technically you don’t even need to provide and they are unwilling to pay for), they are going to villainize you?? What accommodations are THEY willing to make? Since it doesn’t sound like date or money then what? You don’t get to just make any demands of people you want because you are having a wedding. And you are not even refusing to help!
