Meet Jane, a 21-year-old bridesmaid who found herself in the center of a wedding day drama that’s got everyone talking. ️ Jane was one of three bridesmaids at her friend Vanessa’s wedding, held at a remote mountain lodge. She expected a day of celebration, but what unfolded was a tale of unexpected labor, unappreciated efforts, and a hefty $500 cleanup fee. Let’s dive into this intriguing story…
A Wedding Venue with a Twist ️
Unexpected Tasks for the Bridesmaids
Heavy Lifting, Light Assistance ️ ️♀️
Bride’s Squad vs Groom’s Squad: A Tale of Two Tasks
The Aftermath: Blisters, Sweat, and a Job Well Done
A Label Unasked for: The ‘Workhorse’
The Exit: A Decision Sparks Chaos
The Bride’s Reaction: Panic and Unspoken Expectations
The Aftermath: Accusations and a $500 Cleanup Fee
A Bridesmaid’s Tale: From Wedding Bliss to Cleanup Miss
So, was Jane right to leave the wedding early, or should she have stayed to help clean up? She was dubbed the ‘workhorse’ by the groom’s mother, and found herself doing the heavy lifting while the men unwound. When it came time for cleanup, Jane decided to make her exit, triggering a flurry of messages and an angry voicemail. The next day, Vanessa blamed Jane for their $500 cleanup fee. Now, it’s time to hear what you think about this wedding day drama…
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“NTA. You can’t demand your wedding party do heavy labor.”
“Feeling used and hurt, I thought I was your friend.”
NTA commenter seeks info on the situation.
NTA: They wanted you to do all the work.
NTA. Commenter is livid and glad the bridesmaid left. Vanessa sucks.
NTA, but were you close with Vanessa? Sounds like cheap friends.
NTA. Bridesmaid regrets decision, sparks relatable wedding horror stories.
NTA! You did all the set-up work while others partied.
Wedding planner explains the importance of communication and planning.
Friend’s rude behavior at wedding sparks reconsideration of friendship.
Bridesmaid refuses wedding cleanup fee, groomsmen get special treatment.
Bridesmaid’s early exit sparks debate on wedding cleanup responsibilities.
Commenter questions their own actions and potential blame.
“NTA: Fee is $500 for hard ass labor. Send $1000 invoice.”
NTA. Forced labor at a wedding? Sounds like the Carolinas!
NTA. No way in hell you should’ve done their dirty work!
NTA. Pay the fee, don’t put your friends to work.
Bridesmaid’s confusion over cleanup fee sparks communication breakdown
Bridesmaid refuses to be free labor for bridezilla friend. NTA
BBQ bait and switch leaves guest empty-handed. NTA.
NTA: Bridesmaid’s early exit triggers $500 cleanup fee. Unfair treatment!
NTA. Demanding unpaid labor from bridal party is unacceptable.
NTA. Parents cheap out on friends, it’s trashy
NTA shuts down Vanessa’s mom with a sassy voicemail response
Frustration boils over with a fiery response.
NTA! Proud of you for leaving. Shame on them!
Sue them on Judge Judy? Judy would toss the case.
“NTA – Expose the entitled bride’s nerve and cheapness! Unbelievable! “
“NTA. Appalled at the blatant sexism. Cheap out = sour taste.”
NTA – Setting boundaries against manipulative social pressure
Bridesmaid stands up for herself and avoids $500 clean-up fee!
NTA. Couple and planners are horrible people.
Pregnant bridesmaid left to decorate hall, marriage lasted 6 months. NTA
NTA. I would’ve stomped down and told them to work
Bridezilla busted! NTA exposes sneaky bride’s cleanup fee scam.
NTA. They lost their ‘workhorse’ and now face consequences.
NTA: Sneaky way to avoid the wedding cleanup fee
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Expensive suit, unpaid labor, and no appreciation. Definitely NTA!
Bridesmaid’s early exit triggers $500 fee. NTA for not knowing!
NTA: Being used and taken advantage of at a wedding
NTA: Don’t feel bad for refusing to be used by a user.
NTA: I feel you! Being taken advantage of is no fun
Bridesmaid’s early exit sparks debate over duties and fairness.
NTA. Own party, own mess. ♂️
“Oh hell no! Those cheap bastards could have hired someone.”
Drama unfolds as Vanessa and friend end friendship. NTA.
Bridesmaid warns against DIY weddings causing resentment and issues.
NTA: Bridesmaid’s early exit sparks debate on wedding cleanup fee
Taken advantage of at a wedding? Not the a**hole!
NTA. F**k Vanessa. Don’t feel guilty, friendship was bound to fizzle.
NTA. They didn’t get their sh*t together, not your responsibility.
NTA: Bridezilla’s unfair labor demands lead to bridesmaid’s early exit.
Bridesmaid calls out bride for cheapness and potential danger.
Bridesmaid’s duties don’t include moving furniture. NTA!
Petty revenge: Bridesmaid considers sending invoice for ‘set-up fee’
NTA. Vanessa’s wedding sounds like a nightmare!
Obv NTA and, if this is real, wtf??
Bridesmaid refuses to pay wedding cleanup fee, sparks controversy.
NTA: Bride and groom should’ve had a backup plan.
Safety first! NTA, what if you got hurt?
