Picture this: you’re two weeks away from your wedding day, and you find out your best friend’s boyfriend plans to propose to her during your reception! That’s the situation one bride found herself in when she discovered the sneaky proposal plan. Instead of letting it slide, she took matters into her own hands, leading to a dramatic showdown with the would-be proposer. Let’s dive into this wild story and see how it all unfolded.
A Wedding and a Proposal?

Ring Shopping and Secrets

The Mysterious Speech Request

Suspicion and Denial

The Shocking Truth

Confrontation and Anger

The Boyfriend’s Defense

A Bold Laugh and Threat

Uninvited and Exposed

Rita’s Reaction

A Ruined Surprise

A Wedding Hijacked by a Proposal?
Caught between a rock and a hard place, this bride had to make a tough decision when she found out her best friend’s boyfriend planned to propose during her wedding. After confronting him about his sneaky plans, she uninvited him and spilled the beans to her best friend, Rita. Now, Rita is mad at both her boyfriend and the bride for ruining the surprise. Was the bride right to take a stand against the proposal, or should she have let it happen and dealt with the consequences later? Let’s check out some top reactions to this dramatic tale! ️
NTA for uninviting bridesmaid’s AH boyfriend who disrespected OP’s wedding.

NTA- Bride’s boyfriend planned to steal spotlight, got caught and laughed.

Bridesmaid’s boyfriend wants to propose at wedding , but OP is NTA for not allowing it.

Defending against accusations of ruining a proposal at a wedding

Bridesmaid’s boyfriend plans to steal spotlight at wedding. NTA.

Wedding day is about you, not the attention-seeking boyfriend

Discussing the importance of communication before a proposal

Wedding drama? NTA says bridesmaid’s manipulative boyfriend needs to go

Stopping a manipulative proposal at a wedding. NTA wins!

Bride-to-be’s friend called out groom’s bad behavior

Bride uninvites selfish boyfriend, friend lies about it. NTA

Bridesmaid’s boyfriend tries to propose at wedding, gets uninvited. NTA.

Bridesmaid’s boyfriend planned to steal the spotlight at wedding , but was shut down.
Commenter questions why people think proposing at someone else’s wedding is a good idea

Supportive comment and empathetic reply, encouraging the bride to focus on her perfect day

Stealing the spotlight at a wedding for a proposal? NTA.

Proposing at someone else’s wedding is tacky as hell

NTA did the right thing by uninviting him! Hopefully, the best friend drops him.
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NTA Rita’s lazy boyfriend causing drama, don’t let them blame you

BF’s attention-seeking plan backfires, NTA for not stopping him

Weddings are for the bride and groom, not proposals or announcements

NTA shuts down entitled boyfriend trying to steal spotlight

Tricking bridesmaid into letting boyfriend steal spotlight is not okay

Wedding drama: Bridesmaid’s boyfriend steals spotlight. NTA calls off wedding.

User suggests clever way to avoid blame in proposal drama

Commenter calls out selfish behavior of bridesmaid’s manipulative boyfriend
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Wedding proposals should be consensual. NTA for saying no

Manipulative boyfriend puts bridesmaid in tough spot

Supportive comment defends against rude boyfriend at wedding
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Boyfriend set up bridesmaid, NTA for following through

Protect your spotlight! NTAH and good luck!

Expensive wedding leads to unwanted romantic advances

NTA. “Play stupid games, win stupid prizes” ♀️

Proper proposals are not a surprise . Better wedding without him.

Cheeky boyfriend tries to steal spotlight at wedding

Bridesmaid not at fault for ruining boyfriend’s surprise proposal

Wedding day is about the couple, not the guests . NTA.

Bridesmaid’s boyfriend tries to steal spotlight at wedding, gets shut down.

Suggest a harmless lie to uninvite the attention-seeking boyfriend. NTA.

Bridesmaid’s boyfriend tries to steal the spotlight at wedding . Commenter is NTA for saying no, but Rita’s reaction is unfair.

NTA commenter calls out manipulative boyfriend and unsupportive bride-to-be

Confused commenter questions clickbait-y title

Navigating wedding drama with a lying bridesmaid

Weddings are for the bride and groom, not surprise proposals. NTA

Manipulative boyfriend tries to steal spotlight at wedding. NTA.

Supportive comment tells bride to ditch toxic boyfriend. NTA

Honesty is the best policy, let her figure it out

Rita’s boyfriend is entitled and manipulative

Boyfriend tries to steal spotlight at wedding, gets shut down. NTA

Uninviting the boyfriend was NTA, but telling about proposal was TA

Uninviting the spotlight thief and his accomplice

Boyfriend’s deceitful behavior forces uninvite, NTA for bridesmaid.

Bridesmaid’s boyfriend wants to propose at wedding, NTA uninviting him

Bridesmaid’s boyfriend is a walking marinara, NTA but soft jerk.

Rita’s selfishness causes drama at wedding. NTA for reacting.

Red flag alert! Boyfriend’s love bombing and selfish behavior. NTA.
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Cheating boyfriend exposed in wedding drama NTA

OP gets support to show Rita the comments. NTA!
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Proposal drama averted – you’re NTA!

Rita’s boyfriend stealing the spotlight at wedding? Not cool.
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Yikes! Commenter blames woman for bad boyfriend behavior

Wedding proposals at someone else’s wedding? Definitely not okay

Wedding spotlight thief gets called out by NTA commenter

Focus on your wedding, not your friend’s sorry boyfriend.

Bridesmaid not at fault for bride’s boyfriend’s behavior

Proposing at someone else’s wedding? Not cool. NTA wins.

NTA comment calls out gross behavior of bridesmaid’s boyfriend.

Wedding proposal at someone else’s wedding? Not cool!

Wedding security handled by pipe-hitting motherf***ers
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Joint decision: Are surprise proposals outdated?

NTA, but ditch the bad friend

Boyfriend’s wedding proposal ruins bride’s friend’s day

Commenter questions proposal plan, suggests personal alternative for boyfriend

Wedding proposal etiquette discussed in NTA comment section

Bridesmaid’s boyfriend tries to propose at wedding, gets shut down.
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NTA commenter calls out rude boyfriend trying to steal spotlight

Bridesmaid’s boyfriend is an entitled a**hole. NTA.
