Weddings are supposed to be a joyous occasion, filled with love, laughter, and a fair share of happy tears. But what happens when a member of your wedding party turns the whole event into a drama-filled nightmare? Meet our bride-to-be (32F), her cousin Bob (33M), and the real star of this saga, Bob’s wife Kate (28F). Kate, with her peculiar ways and uninvited opinions, has been causing a ruckus in the wedding preparations, leaving our bride wondering if it’s time to uninvite the troublesome duo. Let’s dive into this wedding drama, shall we?
Meet the Wedding Wreckers

The Bridesman’s Wife Takes Over

Suitgate: The First Offense

Bachelorette Hijack

Video Call Veto

Surprise Engagement Party

Bridal Shower Showdown

Zoom Wedding Woes

The Final Straw

Family’s Response

Will the Bride Banish the Bridesmaid-Zilla?
After months of enduring the drama and unsolicited advice from Kate, our bride-to-be is at her wits’ end. From meddling with the bachelorette party to hijacking the bridal shower, Kate’s antics have left the bride and her maid of honor exasperated. Now, the bride is contemplating whether to uninvite Kate and Bob from the remaining wedding events. With tensions running high and the wedding day closing in, will our bride finally put her foot down and banish the bridesmaid-zilla? Let’s see how the internet world reacted to this wedding drama…
Supportive comment: Kick that entitled woman to the curb!

NTA: Bob needs to escape the emotional abuse.

Cut her out! This is torture to read through.
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“YTA, fire her and let your sister handle the wedding! “

Invite Bob and give him a plus one. Send a message.

INFO: Stand up to the bridezilla and assert yourself!

Empathy for Bob: OP is not the a**hole in this situation

Girl, just forget about them! ♀️

Bridesmaid-Zilla gets shut down! ♀️

NTA. Surprised you dealt with entitled behavior for so long

NTA: Stand up for yourself and let Bob know how you feel

NTA, but consider Bob’s feelings before excluding her.

NTA. Kate’s a control freak. Uninvite her, have your dream wedding!

NTA: Don’t air dirty laundry, but talk to Bob & Kate.

Cut them off! Your sister deserves better.

NTA: Take control of your wedding and set boundaries with Kate.

Not the a**hole, but what did the bridesmaid do?

Avoid the Bridesmaid-Zilla! Create distance and communicate with Bob.

NTA. Wow. Just wow.

NTA! Cut them out of your wedding and your life!

NTA, expose her and shut down her victim-playing tactics!

Bride takes a stand against controlling bridesmaid ♀️ ♀️
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NTA: It’s time for a much-needed conversation with the bridesmaid-zilla!

NTA and you’ve been SO much nicer than I would have been

NTA – Fend off the bridesmaid-zilla with grace and caution.

NTA for uninviting Kate. Control the narrative diplomatically to avoid drama.

NTA, but communication with Bob is key!

Is the bridesmaid just a mean girl or something more?
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Join the drama on r/bridezillas and r/weddingdrama!

Desperate bridesmaid hijacks wedding, but who’s really craving love?

Excited for updates on this drama-filled wedding!

Ignore the bridesmaid-zilla and carry on, she’ll back out eventually.

Bridesmaid-Zilla gets called out: NTA, kick her controlling a** out!

Uninvite them! Make sure Kate knows, Bob’s just a puppet.

NTA – Take control and shut down the bridesmaid-zilla drama!

You’re not the a**hole! It’s your day, not hers! ♀️

Let’s shame the Bridesmaid-Zilla! Share your thoughts and feelings!

Communicate with Bob to address the bridesmaid’s overbearing behavior ️

Bitter Kate feels left out of bridal party, not the a**hole

Bridezilla alert! Kate’s overstepping boundaries. NTA, but keep Bob close!

Oof. NTA. Kate’s gonna blow! Better talk to Bob ASAP!

Is Bob in the loop?

Take charge and shut down the bridesmaid-zilla with a firm email!

NTA: No drama here, just a supportive bridesmaid!
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NTA bridesmaid ruins wedding, offering to help drop off suit

Bridesmaid-Zilla drama: Is Kate an AH? Let the intervention begin!

NTA, avoid the stress! Do it and keep us posted! ✨
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Bridezilla vs Bridesmaid: Uninvite Kate? Bob’s Innocence Questioned

Time to take a stand! Who will be the hero? ♂️

Setting boundaries: NTA stands up against inconsiderate party crashers

Supportive comment about cousin in abusive relationship.

Poor Bob, married to that hydra!

Bride wins battle against bridesmaid-zilla!

Bridezilla vs. Bridesmaid: Roller Derby Drama Unleashed! ♀️
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Stand firm against the Bridezilla and free yourself from madness! ✋

NTA, but Bob needs to stand up for himself ASAP!

Engaging with a bridesmaid-zilla: NTA, set boundaries and confront her

Kate’s controlling behavior ruins the wedding. NTA for cutting ties.

100% not the a**hole. No doubt about it! ✌️

NTA: The bridesmaid-zilla is out of control!

Is the maid of honor a control freak?

OP is NTA, but Kate’s sabotaging the wedding for tradition

Dump her, keep your wedding. Tell her straight up

NTA. Give Bob a chance to wake up to his wife’s behavior.

NTA – Karen is a pain in the *donkey* ♀️

E-lope! The perfect solution to avoid Bridesmaid-Zilla drama! ✨

NTA. Liberating to remove her from guest list. Good riddance! ✂️

NTA: Address the issue with Bob. Unacceptable behavior!

NTA: Get rid of this mess ASAP! Update her response!
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Bridezilla alert! Uninviting demanding bridesmaid? Tension, drama, and hurt feelings.

NTA, she sounds cray-cray! Time for Bob to step up!

Mute the bridesmaid-zilla and enjoy your special day!

Cut her off!

Entitled bridesmaid hijacks wedding, but bride takes a stand!

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Cut the cord and kick out the bridesmaid-zilla! ♀️

Is Bob married to his mom? NTA, uninvite them!

Bride takes control: Cutting out bridesmaid-zilla. Drama at its finest!

NTA, but talk to Bob first. Give him a chance
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️ Communicate with your bridesman and address the behavior directly!

NTA, but why enable her? Set boundaries and communicate with family.
