Weddings can bring out the best and worst in people, and sometimes the stress of planning can lead to difficult decisions. One bride-to-be is facing a dilemma that’s causing her heartache: Her long-time friend and bridesmaid has been steadily gaining weight, and now she’s worried her friend won’t fit into the dress she picked out for her. The bride has tried to help her friend lose weight, but it seems like nothing is working. What’s a bride to do? ♀️
Long-Time Friends

Health Concerns

The Perfect Dress Dilemma

A Promise to Slim Down

The Dress Order

A Year Later… ⏰

Concerns Grow

The Tough Decision

The Bride’s Dilemma ♀️

To Boot or Not to Boot?
This bride-to-be is caught between a rock and a hard place. She’s tried to help her bridesmaid lose weight, but her friend’s habits haven’t changed. Now, with the wedding approaching, she’s worried her bridesmaid won’t fit into the dress she picked out for her. The bride is considering telling her friend she can’t be a bridesmaid if she can’t fit into the dress, but she’s torn about the decision. What would you do in her shoes? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this sticky situation… ️♀️
NTA. Friend didn’t lose weight as promised, let her pay for alterations.

NAH. A heartfelt plea for body positivity and friendship ❤️

NTA for expecting commitment, but could’ve handled it better

NTA for not wanting to lose money on friend’s weight gain.

Engaging caption: Bridesmaid dress drama or body shaming?

“YTA. Find a solution that doesn’t body shame. “

YTA if it’s about her weight, NTA if it’s about money.

Compromise and communication are key in this bridesmaid dress dilemma

NAH, but her eating disorder is causing anxiety and suffering
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“Solving dress issue without kicking her out? Talk it out! “

Empower her to make the decision herself for a better fit.

Flexible dress options avoid drama and make everyone happy!

Bridesmaid paid for dress, but is it too small?
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Suggest selling the dress or having her buy it from you

Engaging comment: Discussing dress size dilemma and friend’s unhealthy habits.

YTA. Prioritizing image over friendship? Not cool.

NTA and a tough choice: alter the dress or exclude her?

Finding a plus size dress is a more inclusive option

YWBTA. Be a supportive friend and embrace body positivity.

NAH. Communicate openly and find a practical solution together!

Engaging comment about bride’s dilemma with dress size and friendship

YWBTA. Be a true friend and support her health concerns.

NTA for addressing the dress size issue, she’ll likely bow out on her own.

YTA prioritizes dress over friendship. Bridesmaids should support, not judge.

YTA for body-shaming and being a terrible friend.
