Weddings are usually about love, unity, and celebration, but sometimes they can also be a hotbed for drama and controversy. This tale of a bride and her bridesmaid is one such instance. It’s a story that will make you question the boundaries of friendship and the pressure of looking ‘perfect’ on the big day.
A Wedding Invitation with a Twist

The Hair-raising Dilemma ♀️ ♀️

The Unusual Request

The Fallout ️

A Friendship on the Rocks Over a Wedding Request?
This tale of a bride and her bridesmaid has certainly sparked a heated debate. The bride’s request for her friend to treat her scalp psoriasis for the wedding has left many questioning the limits of friendship and the pressures of societal beauty standards. It’s a story that’s all too relatable for anyone who’s ever felt the intense pressure to look ‘perfect’. As the internet weighs in on this hair-raising situation, let’s take a look at some of the top responses…
“AITA for asking my friend to go through a painful treatment?”

YTA. Psoriasis sufferers share their painful experiences and recommend treatments.

YTA for demanding your friend’s treatment on your terms

Bride’s request violates bodily autonomy and friendship. YTA OP
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Bridezilla’s demand sparks outrage. YTA for being so insensitive.

YTA for recommending a cosmetology treatment when she’s under the care of a real medical professional. Psoriasis is incredibly painful and usually all the treatment in the world doesn’t resolve it.

“YTA. She said no. Nobody cares about wedding details.”

Demanding bridesmaid hair change leads to family drama

“You made a difficult medical condition about you, bridezilla! YTA”

YTA for body-shaming your friend. Reconsider your friendships.

YTA. Refusing ‘no’ and pressuring a friend? Not cool

Commenter shares personal story of overcoming psoriasis and offers perspective. YTA.

Bridesmaid’s brutal honesty shuts down bridezilla’s unreasonable request

Brides these days…

YTA, gently. You biffed it. Apologize and show your love

Friendship ultimatums? YTA! Be lucky she’s in your wedding!

Bridezilla’s shallow request sparks backlash from compassionate commenter

YTA. You made the offer. She said no. ♂️
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Salon treatment for scalp psoriasis? YTA for suggesting it!

YTA. Your friend has a medical condition. You intervened and suggested a non-medical treatment (stylists are not medical experts), and she declined. It should not have even gotten that far, but since it did, that should have been the end of it. The fact that you care about covering up her medical issue at your wedding is very shallow and your behavior towards her is beyond cruel. You are not being a good friend. I hope she realizes this and pulls out of your wedding so she can be around people that actually care for her.

Bridezilla demands perfection, ignores friend’s health. YTA

Debate sparks over bride’s demanding request for medical treatments

YTA! Don’t make insensitive recommendations to someone with psoriasis
