Imagine you’re planning your dream wedding, sharing your plans with your family, and suddenly your brother suggests bringing dwarves dressed as hobbits to dance around the guests. Sounds like a scene from a fantasy novel, right? Well, that’s exactly the situation one bride-to-be found herself in. Let’s dive into this unexpected wedding saga… ♂️
A Wedding in the Making

A Family Affair

The Fantasy Wedding Plan ♂️

The Joke That Started It All

The Joke Turns Serious

A Hobbit-Inspired Wedding? ♂️

The Bride-to-be’s Response ♀️

The Brother’s Obsession

The Wedding Budget

The Family’s Reaction

The Moral Dilemma

The Wedding Dilemma Summarized ♂️

The Bride-to-be’s Stand ♀️

A Wedding Saga: When Fantasy Meets Reality ♂️
In a twist that could rival any fantasy novel, a bride-to-be finds herself at odds with her older brother’s quirky wedding gift idea – dwarves dressed as hobbits. While she’s all for a Celtic band and a dash of fantasy, she draws the line at treating people with dwarfism like party props. Despite her brothers’ insistence that it’s all in good fun, she stands her ground, adding another layer of stress to the wedding planning. What’s your take? Let’s see what the internet has to say… ♂️
“NTA. Using little people as props? Joffrey vibes! “

“NTA. Stick to your guns and say no to demeaning antics. ♂️ “

“NTA. Speak up against this disrespectful behavior at your wedding. “

NTA. Hijacking your wedding for his amusement? Immature and disrespectful.

Brother’s disrespectful wedding surprise sparks heated debate.

Respecting others’ dignity: dwarves are not entertainment props.
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NTA. Brother’s ableist and ignorant request for dwarves at wedding.

NTA. Brother wants attention on your day with dwarves?

Wedding dwarves, Westeros vibes, and a not-the-a**hole verdict.

NTA: Uninviting or hiring bouncers?
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NTA. Performers willingly played hobbits and dwarves, but tossing? Not cool. Congrats on the wedding!

Rocking wedding surprise with hobbit dwarves and a mini Stonehenge! ♂️

NTA. Contact those groups yourself and explain the situation.

Disrespectful wedding surprise? NTA calls out the brother’s behavior.

NTA points out that there are businesses catering to this, but it still feels wrong
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NTA. Brazilian weddings always deliver surprises!

NTA, hoping this isn’t real.

Easy decision: Not the a**hole, no regrets.

INFO: Why connect celtic music to fantasy? ♂️

Joffrey-level humor: Dwarves dressed as hobbits? ♂️

NTA but wow. Your brother

Location mix-up! Sao Luis vs Sao Paulo confusion

W*f. No no no no. It’s your wedding. Everyone deserves dignity, whether 6ft2 or 3ft11. What’s the Portuguese for ‘your brother sounds like an a**hole?’

Brother’s wedding surprise sparks debate on inclusivity.
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NTA: Demeaning to Little People. Safety concerns. Check out Riggity Jig!

Last Updated on October 16, 2023 by Diply Social Team