Imagine planning your dream wedding, only to have your soon-to-be mother-in-law (MIL) make nasty comments about you behind your back. That’s exactly what happened to a 27-year-old woman who’s engaged to her 45-year-old fiancé. After hosting a Thanksgiving dinner, she discovered her MIL’s true feelings about her, leading to a heated confrontation and an uninvitation from the wedding.
The Wedding Plans

MIL’s Limited Knowledge

Thanksgiving Dinner

Mashed Potato Mishap

A Quick Favor

Checking on the Kids

Downstairs Silence

A Shocking Revelation

MIL’s Cruel Comments ️

Confronting MIL

MIL’s Harsh Response

Uninviting MIL from Wedding

Fiancé’s Reaction

Friends’ Opinions ️

Seeking Advice

MIL’s Nasty Comments Lead to Wedding Drama
After hosting a Thanksgiving dinner, our bride-to-be discovered her MIL’s true feelings about her, thanks to her SIL’s oldest daughter. MIL made some cruel comments, including calling her “used-up” and treating her like a “slut.” In a moment of anger, the bride uninvited her MIL from the wedding, causing a rift between her and her fiancé, who’s now threatening to leave. Friends are taking sides, and the bride is left wondering if she’s in the wrong. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Uninviting MIL from wedding causes controversy. OP is NTA

NTA, your fiancé should have stood up for you

“NTA. Kick him to the curb and find someone who respects you! “

NTA, find a new fiance if he can’t defend you!

Commenter advises breaking off engagement due to partner’s immaturity.

NTA: Fiancé’s mom is a raging a-hole, but he’s worse

NTA. Run. Fast.

Run! Don’t let toxic in-laws ruin your happiness

NTA. MIL is a problem, but is your husband worse?

“WTF. What year is it? 1750? NTA, also your fiancé is 45, does she think he’s ‘pure.’ Good lord. None of her business. NTA for uninviting her to your wedding, and NTA if you decide to uninvite her from your life (you totally should)” – Engaging comment and a reminder of outdated mindsets.

Fiancé should’ve defended you! Mama’s boy with no spine

NTA. Don’t let her sh*t on your plate ️

Dump the fiance! You deserve someone who respects and defends you.

Cancel the wedding and show your fiancé the door

“Age is just a number! OP deserves better. NTA! “

Cutting ties with toxic in-laws for a happier family

NTA stands up to toxic MIL, with support from commenters

NTA! MIL crossed the line, Fiancé’s silence speaks volumes. Share your late husband’s story to shut them up. You deserve better. ♀️

Don’t settle for disrespect! Run and find a better man!

Stand up for yourself! Don’t tolerate abuse.
