Weddings are supposed to be a time of love, joy, and celebration, but what happens when your fiancé’s best friend accuses you of being a gold-digger? Our bride-to-be (25F) found herself in this exact situation when her fiancé’s (28M) close friend, Amanda (27F), called her a gold-digger after their engagement. Despite trying to build a relationship with Amanda, the bride-to-be has had enough and doesn’t want her at the wedding. But is she in the right? Let’s dive into the story.
A Long-Time Friendship

Amanda’s Presence in Their Lives

Trying to Build a Friendship

Amanda’s Dislike for the Bride-to-Be

Confronting the Rumor ️♀️

Not Her Business

Offended and Hurt

Unapologetic Amanda

Badmouthing Continues ️

The Bride-to-Be’s Dilemma

The Wedding Invitation Showdown
Our bride-to-be tried her best to build a friendship with Amanda, but it seems like Amanda’s dislike for her was too strong. After being called a gold-digger and having Amanda encourage a prenup, the bride-to-be had enough and confronted her. But Amanda remained unapologetic and defended her comments. Now, the bride-to-be doesn’t want Amanda at the wedding, but her fiancé is not okay with that. Is she wrong for not wanting someone who hates her at her own wedding? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this heated situation…
Fiancé’s loyalty questioned, wedding planning on hold. NTA

Fiancé’s friend insulted bride-to-be, but he wants her at wedding NTA

Engage in open communication with your partner and set boundaries.

Accusations of jealousy and manipulation towards bride-to-be’s fiancé’s friend.

Supportive comment on bride-to-be’s decision to exclude toxic friend.
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Fiancé’s friend calls bride-to-be a gold-digger, NTA for not inviting.

NTA. Commenter suggests pre-marital therapy and wishes OP best of luck

Navigating tricky territory with fiancé’s emotionally connected friend. #NTA

Fiancé’s friend called her a gold-digger, NTA for not inviting.

NTA commenter suggests couples therapy before marrying explosive partner.

Fiancé’s friend called her a gold-digger, NTA for not inviting.

Best friend’s wealth didn’t make his wife a golddigger. Fiancé’s silence speaks. NTA

Beware of snakes , NTA stands strong against gold-diggers.

Putting the wedding on hold and seeking counseling is crucial

Friend’s comments may have been well-intentioned, but poorly executed.

Fiancé prioritizing friend’s feelings over bride-to-be’s is a red flag

Fiancé’s friend called her gold-digger, NTA for not inviting her.
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Wedding is about love and nearest ones, not haters. NTA.

Friend warns about controlling fiancée and suggests pre-nup with adultery clause.

Fiancé’s BFF called her a gold-digger, NTA for not inviting.

Fiancé’s friend badmouths bride-to-be, NTA for not inviting her.

Bride-to-be refuses to invite fiancé’s disrespectful friend to wedding

Bride-to-be receives support for not inviting rude friend to wedding

Accusations of gold-digging reveal jealousy from fiancé’s friend. NTA.
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Fiancé’s friend called her a gold-digger, NTA for not inviting.

Bride-to-be justified for not inviting fiancé’s friend to wedding

Jealousy or not, NTA for not inviting the toxic friend.

Stand up for your partner and cut toxic people out.

Stick to your guns and make him pick sides. NTA

Fiancé’s BFF accused OP of being a gold-digger. Commenter advises to put off wedding until fiancé shuts down BFF’s slandering and prioritizes OP and their future.

Partner needs to stand up to disrespectful friend before wedding day. NTA.

Fiancé’s friend insults bride-to-be, NTA for not inviting her.

Fiancé should defend her, not the friend. Is Amanda jealous?

Partner not defending bride-to-be, who does he want to marry? ♀️

Fiancé’s BFF badmouths bride-to-be, in love or jealous? NTA

Curious about the meeting that led to this conflict

Advice to consider: Can you handle his friends’ negativity long-term?

Fiancé’s BFF calls bride-to-be a gold-digger, NTA for not inviting.

Fiancé’s friend called her a gold-digger, should she invite her?

Fiancé’s friend insults bride-to-be, NTA for not inviting her.

Stand up for yourself and find a better man

Fiancé’s friend called her a gold-digger. NTA for not inviting.

Prioritize your relationship, not a friend who disrespects it.

Fiancé’s loyalty questioned: commenter supports bride-to-be’s decision. NTA

Delay the wedding, prioritize feelings and relationship over others.

Bride-to-be’s fiancé’s friend has feelings for him, NTA for not inviting.

Demanding respect from friends before marriage

Stand up for yourself and don’t settle for disrespect. NTA
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Future husband and friend are TA. Choose wisely

Partner’s friend disrespects bride-to-be, should not attend wedding.

Red flag alert! Commenter suspects bride-to-be’s feelings for fiancé’s BFF.

Fiancé’s BFF disrespects bride-to-be, commenter sees red flags

Fiancé must choose between bride-to-be and disrespectful friend. #NTA

Standing up against toxic friends. NTA.

Bride-to-be justified in not inviting fiancé’s BFF to wedding

Supportive comment calls out fiancé’s lack of support.

Fiancé’s friend called her a gold-digger, NTA for not inviting.

Supportive comment with NTA verdict and empathetic tone.

Celebrate love, not hate. NTA’s wedding, NTA’s guest list ❤️
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Red flag alert! Commenter warns bride-to-be of potential infidelity

Bride-to-be advised to let fiancé keep his friend

Fiancé wants to invite someone who called bride-to-be a gold-digger

Potential romantic tension between fiancé’s BFF and bride-to-be
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Choosing between a lifelong friendship and a marriage ♀️

NTA commenter suggests resolving issue with fiancé’s BFF before wedding.
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Cutting toxic people out of your wedding? NTA

Fiancé’s possessive friend causing trouble, NTA for not inviting her

Trust your gut when it comes to toxic people

NTA comment suggests jealousy and advises to talk to husband.

Bride-to-be’s partner must establish boundaries with friend Amanda

Navigating tricky social situations requires careful consideration and communication

Fiancé’s BFF called her a gold-digger. NTA for not inviting.

Fiancé prioritizes friend over bride-to-be, needs to defend and apologize

Fiancé’s friend called her a gold-digger. NTA, needs apology and prenup.

Fiancé’s friend causing trouble, NTA for setting boundaries.

Fiancé’s friend insulted her, NTA for not inviting him.

Reasonable request to not invite friend who despises you

Friend’s behavior is inappropriate and NTA for not inviting.

Fiancé’s friend causing trouble, NTA but watch out for red flags

Think twice before marrying someone who puts their friend first
