Weddings are supposed to be a time for love and celebration, but sometimes they can also bring out the worst in people. Our bride-to-be is facing a dilemma that’s causing quite the stir. She’s chosen her two closest friends as bridesmaids, but her fiancé’s family is demanding she include his sister in the bridal party. The problem? The bride doesn’t feel close to her future sister-in-law and believes she doesn’t belong in her special day. Let’s dive into the drama and see what led to this conflict.
The Wedding Party Selection

Fiancé’s Sister: The Cancer Survivor ️

Sibling Rivalry

Family Ties

The Wedding Party Decision

The Sister’s Expectations

The Confrontation

Family vs Bride

Harsh Words Exchanged

Bride vs Family: Who’s Right? ♀️
So, our bride-to-be is standing her ground, refusing to include her fiancé’s sister in the bridal party. She feels that her future sister-in-law doesn’t belong there, as they aren’t close. However, the fiancé’s family is furious, calling her an a**hole and accusing her of being a bully. They believe she should be making more of an effort, especially considering the sister’s past battle with cancer. It’s a tough situation, with emotions running high on both sides. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this family feud…
Fiancé should also take responsibility for not wanting his sister.

Setting boundaries with toxic family members.

Fiancé and bride-to-be must agree on taking a stand
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User defends bride-to-be’s decision to not include cancer survivor in bridal party.

Bride-to-be refuses fiancé’s sister in bridal party. NTA. Be prepared.

Bride-to-be’s future sister-in-law may cause wedding drama

Bride-to-be stands up for herself and her bridal party

Future SIL drama: NTA bride-to-be called ‘exhausting’

Establishing boundaries with in-laws is crucial for a successful marriage

Setting boundaries with entitled in-laws. NTA

Wedding party invites aren’t based on blood relations

Friend defends NTA verdict and shares personal experience with cancer survivor.

Bride’s choice for bridal party is hers alone. NTA

Bride defends excluding fiancé’s sister from bridal party. NTA.

Bridesmaid dress relief: a sentiment shared by many

Bride-to-be receives NTA judgement for excluding fiancé’s sister

Wedding party is personal. Suggests alternative task. NTA.

Bride-to-be supported for excluding fiancé’s sister from bridal party

Groomsmen intercepting sister in white dress on wedding day?

Bride-to-be receives support for not including fiancé’s entitled sister

Supportive comment defends bride-to-be’s decision to exclude sister-in-law.

Bride-to-be stands her ground, thanks heavens for rare encounters.

Bride-to-be justified for not including fiancé’s sister in bridal party

Wedding day, your way! NTA for excluding fiancé’s sister.

Weddings bring out true colors, NTA for not including sister.

Bride-to-be not at fault, parents’ involvement is unhealthy

Supporting fiancé’s wishes, NTA, wedding day should be about couple

Sibling not entitled to be in bridal party. NTA.

Supportive comment advises groom-to-be to handle family conversation
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Stand your ground and say no to toxic family demands.

Choose your own bridal party, it’s your special day!

Setting boundaries for the wedding day, NTA and compromise concerns.

Bride-to-be seeks advice on excluding fiancé’s sister from bridal party

Sarcastic response to bride-to-be’s exclusion of fiancé’s sister. NTA.

Bride-to-be stands firm on her decision to choose bridesmaids

Bride stands her ground, refuses fiancé’s sister in bridal party

Don’t let entitled people manipulate you with guilt trips. NTA

Don’t be the guilt recipient 2.0. NTA

NTA bride-to-be stands up to bullies, fiancé needs to intervene

Bridal party picks are personal, NTA for excluding fiancé’s sister
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Supportive comment suggests therapy for husband to deal with family issues.

Fiancé should support bride-to-be in family feud

Choose your own bridal party, don’t let others dictate it

Bride-to-be not obligated to include fiancé’s sister in bridal party

Stand your ground on your wedding day!
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Calling someone an a**hole is not charming, but NTA!
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Excluded sister shares her experience with entitled in-laws ♀️

NTA bride-to-be stands up to entitled sister-in-lawzilla
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Bride-to-be stands firm on bridal party decision, receives NTA support

Fiancé’s sister excluded from bridal party, NTA receives backlash.

Fiancé’s sister not entitled to be in bridal party. NTA.

Fiancé’s sister excluded from bridal party, commenter supports decision. NTA.

NTA stands up to disrespectful family with a powerful script

Fiancé’s sister weaponizes her recovery to feel entitled to bridal party

Bride may have been NTA, but should’ve let husband handle it

Bride-to-be not at fault for not including fiancé’s sister

Bride-to-be gets advice on handling fiancé’s sister drama

Advice to think it through and pick who you want

Bride-to-be not obligated to include fiancé’s sister in bridal party

Bride-to-be defends her choice to exclude fiancé’s sister from bridal party

NTA! It’s your special day, not his sister’s. Choose wisely

User defends bride-to-be’s decision to exclude fiancé’s sister from bridal party

Fiancé’s sister excluded from bridal party, commenter says NTA.

Suggesting a compromise to avoid drama and hurt feelings

Bride-to-be defends excluding fiancé’s sister from bridal party. NTA.

Wedding guest defends bride-to-be’s decision not to include stranger.

Bride-to-be stands up for herself against entitled in-laws

NTA commenter sympathizes with excluded sister’s upbringing

Suggests an alternative way to include fiancé’s sister in wedding

Wedding drama: Bride-to-be excludes fiancé’s sister from bridal party. NTA.

Teamwork is key! NTA, but communicate with family together

NTA. Respect the brother’s wishes and not close to her anyhow

Defending cancer survivors against unfair accusations.

Set boundaries early on to avoid family drama later.

Last Updated on February 13, 2024 by Diply Social Team