Picture this: you’re getting married, and you have to choose who will walk you down the aisle. For most brides, this decision is a no-brainer. But for one 28-year-old woman, it’s a choice that’s tearing her family apart. She’s been through a lot, including her parents’ divorce and her father’s abandonment. Now, she’s decided to ask her uncle to do the honors instead of her dad. But is this the right call, or is she just stirring up unnecessary drama?
The Divorce That Changed Everything

Dad Disappears

Stepping Up

Reconnecting With Dad’s Family

A Falling Out

Seeking Help

Dad’s Cold Shoulder

Uncle to the Rescue

A New Family

Awkward Family Gatherings

The Big Decision

Uncle’s Dilemma

Dad’s Justification

Not My Responsibility

The Aisle Walk Showdown: Dad vs. Uncle
Our bride-to-be has had a rough journey, from her parents’ divorce to her dad’s abandonment. She’s had to step up and support her siblings, and her uncle has been there for her when her own father wasn’t. Now, as she plans her wedding, she’s chosen her uncle to walk her down the aisle instead of her dad. But is this the right decision? Her uncle is hesitant, not wanting to disrespect his brother. Meanwhile, her dad tries to justify his actions by blaming others for not keeping in touch. The big day approaches, and the family drama intensifies. Whose side are you on?
NTA. Uncle filled the role of dad when father abandoned twice

NTA, but consider walking down the aisle alone for peace.
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Uncle over dad? NTA. He left you hanging twice

Father not invited to wedding, called ‘sperm donor’ by commenters ♀️

Bride-to-be chooses supportive uncle over absent father. NTA

NTA comment calls out neglectful dads, sparks no replies.

Choosing uncle over absent dad for wedding walk is NTA

Family drama resolved with a beautiful wedding. NTA

Bride-to-be finds support from commenter who walked down the aisle with mom.

Uncle > Sperm donor. Ask uncle to walk you down. NTA

Bride invites father to wedding, but not to walk her down.
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Father drama ensues after bride chooses uncle over dad

Bride-to-be defends decision to have uncle walk her down aisle

Commenter shares family history and chooses who walks her down. NTA

Supportive comment on bride’s decision to have uncle walk her down.

Supportive comment calls out deadbeat dad, defends bride’s choice

Father not invited, uncle walks bride down aisle. NTA.

Uncle deserves to walk her down the aisle

Commenter supports bride’s decision to have uncle walk her down.

Bride-to-be chooses uncle over dad for a heartwarming reason

Family ties trump tradition: Bride chooses uncle over father

Uncle’s got the aisle! Dad needs to step up game

Empowering advice for the bride-to-be to walk down alone

Choosing an uncle over dad for wedding walk: NTA, but communication matters

Choosing a loving figure to walk you down the aisle

Breaking tradition: Bride-to-be chooses who walks her down the aisle

Uncle steps up when dad fails. NTA

Choosing uncle is NTA, but don’t pressure him. Don’t spoil relationship.

Bride chooses uncle over dad, commenters support decision.

No regrets and cutting toxic people out of your life

Bride-to-be invites dad out of obligation, chooses uncle. NTA.

Empowering response to bride’s decision to ditch her father.

Uncle > Dad: Commenter supports bride’s decision, calls out dad’s behavior

Walking yourself down the aisle is badass . Uncle as support system is beautiful. NTA.

Uncle > Dad: NTa comment supports bride’s decision with empathy

Uncle saves the day and walks bride down the aisle

Breaking traditions and walking alone can be empowering

Bride-to-be chooses uncle over father to walk her down aisle

Bride-to-be chooses uncle over estranged father to walk her down. NTA.

Walk yourself down the aisle to avoid drama

Commenter is NTA for not wanting her father to walk her down the aisle, due to his neglectful behavior. Father’s wife is controlling and may not allow him to walk her down the aisle.

Choose who you want to walk you down the aisle! NTA
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Alternative options suggested for bride’s wedding walk.

Wedding day autonomy: commenters support bride’s decision ❤

Bride makes unconventional choice for aisle walk – NTA

Bride-to-be chooses uncle over father for a heartwarming reason ❤

Bride chooses uncle over dad who deserted her. NTA

Uncle stepped up for bride-to-be, NTA for ditching dad

Father’s neglect justifies bride’s decision to choose uncle. NTA

Bride chooses uncle over dad, commenters support her decision.

Bride-to-be considers other options if uncle declines offer.

Bride makes controversial choice for wedding walk

Walking down the aisle solo can be liberating and practical

Weddings are about love, not ownership. NTA

Skipping bio-dad at wedding: NTA, it’s your day

Independent bride-to-be praised for choosing her own path

Bride’s choice of uncle over dad sparks heated support.

Bride-to-be encouraged to honor who she wants at her wedding

Bride stands up to dad, commenters approve.

Bride-to-be chooses uncle over absent father for wedding, NTA.

Bride-to-be chooses uncle over absent father for wedding. NTA

Uncle over dad? NTA. He deserves it after abandonment.

Wedding day, wedding way. Respect for personal choice. ♀️

Uncle > Father. If Uncle declines, walk alone or ask brother.

Bride chooses uncle over dad to walk her down aisle. NTA

Bride-to-be chooses uncle over dad to walk her down aisle. NTA

Uncle saves the day for bride after dad’s betrayal

Supportive comment wishes bride luck on her wedding day

Curious if bio-dad is aware and how he reacted

Abandoned by her dad, bride chooses uncle to walk her.

Uncle steps up when family falls short

Bride-to-be chooses uncle over dad, commenters support decision.

Choosing family is important , even if it’s not your dad. #NTA

Bride defends her choice of walking down the aisle with uncle

Uncle stepped up when dad didn’t, NTA for choosing him

Choosing the person who was there for you. NTA

Santa as a wedding e****t? NTA bride gets support

Last Updated on May 31, 2023 by Diply Social Team